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Bride Price A Menace by jimmyemmanuel86(m): 3:25pm On Feb 07, 2016
women should strife for the abolishment of bride-price mostly in nigeria. Its demeaning to our intellectual,pe rspicacious and profound sets of women we are breeding in our 21 century. Far different from our low-class grand-mum who recieve all form of toture and maltreatment from husbands, who had no say especially when it involves getting a divorce. In the united states there is nothing like bride price. I mean why must he have to take you inexchange for a token, if hes suppose to be your friend, confidant, sex mates, soul mates.e.t.c all these qualities cant be bought with money. Human mind always have a way of concluding We own what we purchased. Yes!! That car automatically become yours becaused you paid for it, It cant be equal to you. Its your assets. Women shouldn't be assets, not to talk about our today women. Its inhumane to pay for a human. Its belittling the female folks. It isnt love. It isnt how we feel, its what men are compelled to do. And there is no two ways about it. You hear things like "dont deny him sex, he paid for it" He paid for sex? Dosnt that make our intelligent,innovative and life changing women private prostitutes? I mean hookers? In Nigeria you can't call a man who forcefully sleeps with his wife rapist. Yes!! He is taking what belongs to him. Even when she's tired and weak from the days stress. Is these what we want our daughters to face? Obviously No!! Now look at it this way. Marriage is having a partner, Who you are equal with, and not someone whose act of helping you with chores shouldn't be an obligation but a choice. If i have to pay for you to be an "help" as women are suppose to be. Aint you my maid? Think about these.
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Nobody: 3:25pm On Feb 07, 2016
Yes
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Nobody: 3:28pm On Feb 07, 2016
Marriage is all about being a companion

Asin wat ever the husband is lacking should be found in the wife and vise versa

Behind every successful man is a brave woman behind every virtueous woman is a courageous man

Marriage is just having sumone to go miles with you in life when others cant. embarassed
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Cutehector(m): 3:34pm On Feb 07, 2016
sickstars:
Marriage is all about being a companion
Asin wat ever the husband is lacking should be found in the wife and vise versa
Behind every successful man is a brave woman behind every virtueous woman is a courageous man
Marriage is just having sumone to go miles with you in life when others cant. embarassed
the op is talkin abt bride price, u r talkin abt marriage.. did u take ur meds today?
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Nobody: 3:36pm On Feb 07, 2016
Cutehector:
the op is talkin abt bride price, u r talkin abt marriage.. did u take ur meds today?

Just lettin u kno bride price shdnt affect d marriage settings

Op is talkin bou ow bride price mentality affects marriage

Nd m tellin op bride price is for d wedding not marriage ! Stating wat marriage is all bou

Just let me be!
Re: Bride Price A Menace by dollyjoy(f): 3:36pm On Feb 07, 2016
Threads like these make me wanna pukesadsad
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Nobody: 3:37pm On Feb 07, 2016
dollyjoy:
Threads like these make me wanna pukesadsad

im with a bowl for ya sister! wink
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Nobody: 3:37pm On Feb 07, 2016
dollyjoy:
Threads like these make me wanna pukesadsad

im with a bowl for ya sister! wink.
Re: Bride Price A Menace by dollyjoy(f): 3:38pm On Feb 07, 2016
sickstars:

im with a bowl for ya sister! wink
oya bring am make i puke putcheesy
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Cutehector(m): 3:39pm On Feb 07, 2016
sickstars:


Just lettin u kno bride price shdnt affect d marriage settings

Op is talkin bou ow bride price mentality affects marriage

Nd m tellin op bride price is for d wedding not marriage ! Stating wat marriage is all bou

Just let me be!
U just dnt get it. Op wants bride price to be scrapped. So where did d marriage part nw came from. Jeez!
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 07, 2016
dollyjoy:
oya bring am make i puke putcheesy

grin d bowl is coming make i use am apply make up first
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Nobody: 3:40pm On Feb 07, 2016
Cutehector:
U just dnt get it. Op wants bride price to be scrapped. So where did d marriage part nw came from. Jeez!

cheesy oya i forgot my med !

tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: Bride Price A Menace by dollyjoy(f): 3:41pm On Feb 07, 2016
sickstars:


grin d bowl is coming make i use am apply make up first
cheesycheesy lolll u are funnycheesy
Re: Bride Price A Menace by Cutehector(m): 3:42pm On Feb 07, 2016
sickstars:


cheesy oya i forgot my med !

tongue tongue tongue tongue
nooo... ur like, OK whateva, u win. cheesy

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