St☆rz:

I don't understand, what is there to explain?

Your question makes sense to me

Romeo4real:

Maybe this illustration can help shed some light on the issue!

pc guru:

Romeo as far as am concerned you don't have a point probably just created this thread so that you cud use dat pix.

. . . and you say you're not bashing women. smh

Romeo as far as am concerned you don't have a point probably just created this thread so that you cud use dat pix.

The woman in question is compensating for her boyfriends lack of communication by over-thinking things through

Would you really want a girlfriend who needs you to say things before she picks it up.
e.g. would you want her never to buy you a thing unless you explicitly say; "I want that tie from. ."
Wouldn't you be amazed if through knowing you in depth she bought the tie and surprised you with it?

Romeo4real:

C'mon, you know its not that simple. A man is not a mind reader, neither is a woman.
The problem is, even when you ask a woman whats wrong, she will say "nothing, if u dont know it already, then there no point in telling u". WTF!! What can a man do?
Yes, you shd be sensitive and observant to you partners feelings, but communication is about being clear, precise and direct about what u are trying to say - Not sending out signs, signals and codes, that could be ignored or misinterpreted.

On the tie issue, i would definitely specify what & where i want it from, as its one of those things that is so easy to get wrong.

I would never say "Nothing." (and definitely not with 'smart' response afterwards) unless I didn't want to talk about the issue. If he then proceeded to move on and never ask what was wrong with me again, then I would be punching myself wishing I had just got what was on my chest. . off my chest. I am a person who likes to talk things through. . which shouldn't be a surprise to those familiar with this board .

I agree with you, the whole "nothing" thing is silly.

It's usually used by women not when they're trying to play mind games, but when they're doing the whole;

"I'm not going to fall into the stereotype of an emotional female, I'm going to handle this problem, and not let it affect me."

They do it just to prove something, when deep inside the issue is biting at them and they want to speak about it. If you ask again, and again, it becomes difficult to withhold the info. and there's always the excuse "He really wanted to know, what was wrong, it wouldn't be fair if I ignored him."

(There are a lot of assumptions in what I've said, I know, but that's my interpretation of it).

Romeo4real:

@Topup - Wow! She only asked him one question thru the whole drama, to which he gave a simple and truthful answer. As a man, im really trying to see his "lack of communications skiils".

Its so important to try and make sense of this from a woman's viewpoint, as its the kind of stuff I, (and many men)go through.

Romeo4real:

@Starstruck - i dont get mad when silly hysterical women bash men, rather i feel sorry for them, for their confusion and lack of logic in their arguments is so apparent
Can u show me where in the post, or in the pic is there anything that is rude insulting, or derogatory to women?

JamaicanQT:

Women aren't complicated its all about taking the time understand the feelings, personality and what she is all about, SIMPLE AS THAT