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Well, I dunno.

i think she should think again and be sure its not just a relationship problem like seun said before thinkin bout leavin him . by the way seun wot is obantalaripipi(sorry if d spellin is wrong)?

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it is very possible to marry a man and realize that u are not inlove with him, i mean jeez, most women in nigeria dont marry for love anyway, the men marry for lust, women marry for security, so if she is not in love with him, well all i can say is goodluck, if she finds someone better then byebye to husband number one, but if she doesnt then she should try not to cheat, and if she does, well we understand she never loved him anyway.

funny she dated him for a year and never realised she loves him,she realised just after making the vows. or was she among the desperados who had passed 30 and want to hook up fast?

but how many women are really in love with their husbands?

okwanuzo3:

but how many women are really in love with their husbands?

excellent question in need of honest answers

okwanuzo3:

but how many women are really in love with their husbands?

It's very possible not to be in love with their husbands. Women fall in love too easily and they think they are in love so they just go along with the feeling but then after the marriage, they realize that they cannot stand his little habits and his little quirks and then they realize it wasn't love in the first place. Happens all the time.

j-girl:

It's very possible not to be in love with their husbands. Women fall in love too easily and they think they are in love so they just go along with the feeling but then after the marriage, they realize that they cannot stand his little habits and his little quirks and then they realize it wasn't love in the first place. Happens all the time.

ok, so what typically happens next after women realize it wasn't love in the first place?

blacklion:

ok, so what typically happens next after women realize it wasn't love in the first place?

Some stick it out and turn the marriage into hell for both husband and wife. Some leave the marriage, some cheat, some just remain miserable for the rest of their lives. The winners make the marriage work and learn to fall back in love with the guy.