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10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by tosyne2much(m): 6:38pm On Feb 15, 2016
Studies have revealed that a generation of ladies are highly rejecting men all in favour of a life of ease and luxury. And it's believed that ladies normally enjoy the thrill of the chase by guys which gives them confidence or certainty in their beauty and market value. Therefore, it inflates their ego, giving them false sense of self importance that they tend to start misbehaving, thereby, playing kites and chess with the lives of prospective chairmen as well as kind hearted guys

No offense taken; ladies, in general, are somewhat greedy in the sense that they crave a companionship that is solely based on financial circumstances and what would profit them most.

Now to the matter; just as guys fault ladies for their inability to find girlfriends. Ladies on the other hand will also not find fault in their live style but will fault guys for their single status.

Now, I shall discuss these excuses laid by ladies for their inability to find boyfriends

10 Excuses Ladies Use To Justify Their Inability To Find Boyfriends

1. Guys can't do without Demanding for Sex

For God's sake, not all dudes insistently and peremptory request for kitty-cats in relationships; so the earlier the better for you to stop dwelling in the philosophy that all dudes cannot date a lady without tumbling beneath the sheets. Though, I can't speak for all dudes but I can at least speak for myself. I have dated quite a few number of ladies and I can tell you that I never demanded for a kiss not to talk of kitty-cat cool

2. I don't have Time for Guys

I have overheard many ladies saying they don't have time for guys. They are like, " I don't have time for boys jawe because they aren't worth the stress" This is not a valid excuse at all and I will really like the ladies to enlighten us if there's a specific time when a lady will publicly announce that she now has time for boys

3. Guys are too Stingy

One of the favourite excuses that so many ladies use for not dating is, accusing guys of being stingy or prudent in spending on them. Well, it’s easy to say that guys are too stingy" when they have no idea of how guys struggle to meet ends need. I can't afford to buy Brazilian hair for a lady when I know that if I add 50k to the money, I will definitely get a plot of land in Mowe or Ibafo . More so, you can't just expect a guy to hustle hard and expect him to spend his little savings on perishable things. As for me, it's not that I'm stingy or something but I have dated more than 20 ladies since 1995 and the highest amount I have ever given to a lady is just N150. Don't blame me, I'm saving for a rewarding future cool

4. I haven't Found a Guy who can Satisfy me

The fact that you are always unfortunate to be acquinted with guys that can't last more than a minute does not mean some dudes can't last for an hour. Some dudes are veteran on the bed so stop thinking all guys are lazy in bed. At least I can speak for myself cheesy

5. Guys are Distractions

Ladies, don't blame your inability to find boyfriends on the philosophy that guys are distraction. You are the one that is a distraction to yourself not guys. A lady who will not remain focus will not be, even though she starts using cutlass to chase men away

6. All Guys are the Same

Hey listen, I don't agree with you that all guys are promiscuous. The fact that you met a dude who revealed his true nature as sodomizing as player who deceived you, tumbled beneath the sheets and dumped you afterwards does not necessarily mean that every dude would do the same. Don't let anybody deceive you that all guys are programmed to act the same way. Not all of us cheat on ladies. Some of us are very faithful to our girlfriends

7. I will only Date When I'm Ready To Marry

What if men don't come when you are ready to marry? Do you think OLX will save you? That every Tom, Dick and Naijaboiy is chasing you does not mean that the chase will remain forever. Please stop living a life of procrastination. Don't let anybody deceive you, there's no specific time for dating

8. Men are Irresponsible

Why would you find a responsible man when you are irritating, nauseating coupled with repulsive attributes such as immoral dressing and attitude problems. The way you appear determines the quality of men you would attract. You can't dress like Cossy Orjakor and expect Pastor Adeboye to ask for your hand in marriage. Work on yourself and stop dwelling in the erroneous belief that guys are irresponsible

9. I have High Taste

I won't shy away from the fact that life is all about high taste. But it is paramount to know that everything should be done with moderation. The standard you have set for yourself might be too hard for a layman like. Lalasticlala to meet up to. This implies that you may like to have a rendezvous at Silverbird, and Lalasticlala can only afford Iya Ngozi spot



10. Feel free to add yours cool


I drop my pen at this point

Original Writer: Tosyne2much

Source: http://tosyne2much..com/2016/02/10-excuses-ladies-use-to-justify-their.html

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by naijaboiy: 6:39pm On Feb 15, 2016

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Affable0709(m): 6:40pm On Feb 15, 2016
That guy up there could be given a medal in space booking...



10. They've not met with a 4G mugu money spender.

11. They are still waiting for that perfect, pictured dream guy that will sweep her off her feet.. that Valentine, Jack, kind of guys (keep dreaming, movies has affected you,)

12. I've not seen my type: madam who is your type and what type are you? (after your mistakes you'd tag it as nobody is perfect)

13. I'm still hurting from my past relationship: This is a reasonable excuse.

14. Would he go out with me? a baby-mama?

15. I drop my pen here...add yours.

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Strahovski1(m): 6:41pm On Feb 15, 2016
Very true
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Elosky20: 6:41pm On Feb 15, 2016
story story story

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by naijaboiy: 6:42pm On Feb 15, 2016
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Nobody: 6:44pm On Feb 15, 2016
No 10- Guys are control freak, I want to be self dependent so nobody would order me around.


Well, Truth is Ladies don't know what they want till age 26 and above. Reason is, At that age, they no longer act on freewill (choices), they now start to act with the society mentality in them as Sigmund Freud puts it SUPER EGO.

Society requires them to get married and have a family of their own so at that phase of their life. (I want a God fearing intelligent man) and she never misses church service, attends virtually all social functions, dresses modestly but sometimes reveals cleavages telling guys she available and ready.

She's always online on social media trying to reconnect with old friends especially the males who had crush on her back in the university or high school.

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Nobody: 6:44pm On Feb 15, 2016
My mom said guys are devil. super stories
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by AyamConfidence(m): 6:45pm On Feb 15, 2016
10) I'VE NOT MET A GUY HANDSOME ENOUGH TO MATCH MY BEAUTY: many ladies keep saying this forgetting that that not-so-handsome guy might just be the one to take you to the next level...many ladies are still single and searching (albeit unseriously) because they refuse to see the beauty behind the ugly face of the man. BTW who fineboy don help?.....nobody should quote me o...i'm not campaigning for ugly guys cos i'm not one of them
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Cholls(m): 6:46pm On Feb 15, 2016
my brothers and sisters you go see partiality to night.






my sister ssoftappless what is that?
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by ssoftappless(m): 6:48pm On Feb 15, 2016
HMM TRU @OP, well im single so no boyfriend for now though nt 4 d reasons op stated.
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by ssoftappless(m): 6:50pm On Feb 15, 2016
Cholls:
my brothers and sisters you go see partiality to night.






my sister ssoftappless what is that?
what is what sir? i said im single but not for the reasons op stated.
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by cruzita(f): 6:51pm On Feb 15, 2016
grin oga ten things
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by warripekin(m): 6:53pm On Feb 15, 2016
Girls are confused, they want Ramsey Noah while segun arinze is the only responsible available option. The wise ones know what to do.

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Cholls(m): 6:53pm On Feb 15, 2016
ssoftappless:
what is what sir? i said im single but not for the reasons op stated.
my sister your Dp.
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Nobody: 6:54pm On Feb 15, 2016
Guys are too Rough
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by warripekin(m): 6:55pm On Feb 15, 2016
cruzita:
grin oga ten things
U must be a robot. I see u everywhere.

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by ssoftappless(m): 6:56pm On Feb 15, 2016
Cholls:
my sister your Dp.
oh its just a pic i took just for fun
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by cruzita(f): 6:58pm On Feb 15, 2016
warripekin:
U must be a robot. I see u everywhere.
mtn everywhere u go
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by ClassCaptain(m): 6:59pm On Feb 15, 2016
grin
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by wristbangle: 7:03pm On Feb 15, 2016
shocked Naijaboiy weldone oo! Double space booker

Especially that point of "all guys are the same", I just hate that statement. They will be talking as if they are different from each other.

If all guys are the same, then all ladies like money, fact!

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by vizkiz: 7:03pm On Feb 15, 2016
naijaboiy:

only you just book double space. Abeg sell one give me now sad
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by warripekin(m): 7:03pm On Feb 15, 2016
cruzita:
mtn everywhere u go
U mean u are empty hen. I get that.

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Hurlstarling: 7:03pm On Feb 15, 2016
In the golden days, when men were boys: we do the chase and not vice versa. But now, things indeed, have really fallen apart.


As per the OP i saw your lies bro. But anyway, its permitted.
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by SexyCeline(f): 7:03pm On Feb 15, 2016
Lol.. How about 5inches and below dìck size?
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by klenton(m): 7:05pm On Feb 15, 2016
warripekin:
U must be a robot. I see u everywhere.
maybe she is on research on nl...lol
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by bulldogpuppy(m): 7:05pm On Feb 15, 2016
i dont know why they tag all guys as players and cheaters when they have not dated all guys and it gets annoying having to prove you are different from others for Gods sake all guys are not the same and one thing i also hate is this playing hard to get and also some of them messing guys up who approach dem in public forgetting that it takes lots of courage for some guys to approach they end up messing a guys confidence and making him angry i know becos i have being a victim

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Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by warripekin(m): 7:14pm On Feb 15, 2016
SexyCeline:
Lol.. How about 5inches and below dìck size?
Is that Ur excuse?
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Countrygirl(f): 7:15pm On Feb 15, 2016
OP u try
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Countrygirl(f): 7:18pm On Feb 15, 2016
bulldogpuppy:


i dont know why they tag all guys as players and cheaters when they have not dated all guys and it gets annoying having to prove you are different from others for Gods sake all guys are not the same and one thing i also hate is this playing hard to get and also some of them messing guys up who approach dem in public forgetting that it takes lots of courage for some guys to approach they end up messing a guys confidence and making him angry i know becos i have being a victim













Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by tosyne2much(m): 7:18pm On Feb 15, 2016
Countrygirl:
OP u try
Which of the categories do you fit in? cheesy
Re: 10 Blames Ladies Put On Nigerians Guys For Their Inability To Find Boyfriends by Countrygirl(f): 7:19pm On Feb 15, 2016
bulldogpuppy:


i dont know why they tag all guys as players and cheaters when they have not dated all guys and it gets annoying having to prove you are different from others for Gods sake all guys are not the same and one thing i also hate is this playing hard to get and also some of them messing guys up who approach dem in public forgetting that it takes lots of courage for some guys to approach they end up messing a guys confidence and making him angry i know becos i have being a victim













Eyah,sorry 4being a victim

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