This is to my fellow guys that are planing on getting married soon.
If you didn't disflowerd ur girl or u didn't meet her/she no longer a virgin and u intend marrying her, i don't think you should pay/complete her bride price. Afteral, sm1 else has taken the dignity that u were suppose to have, her pride has been stolen away.. Ladies go just dey mess around, changing/sleeping with guys anyhow, when the whole body don collapse/scatter finish, them go con dey fine who dem go settle down with... Only but very few ladies marries as virgin these days! May God help the ladies of this our generation....

not every lady wants bride price sef no lady is to be bought!

Marriage should be a mutual thing

Not a lady be tagged as a price tag wen am not an alexander mcqueen bag or a channel purse

Ladies too should not be totally submissive to a nonvirgin hubby its EQUALITY

E be like say u never she ladies bashing for this romance section before. Dem go bash u ehn, u go see food u no go fit chop am

U na virgin?

osaslord500:
Modify your thinking please

meaning what na? Are u a lady?? Y d tin con dey pain u na

RadicallyBlunt:
E be like say u never she ladies bashing for this romance section before. Dem go bash u ehn, u go see food u no go fit chop am

U na virgin?

i dey wat dem..

What of the girls da have disflowered.. See leave that thing

I agree

vicstar:
op u must be castigated for diz "bull'scrap" pls adjust your perverse thinking










Virginity overrated bullshiiit

but y is ur head boiling na? Did i mention ur name..? Bullshiiit meaning wat na? American slangs... Mtchww..

@ OP, it's not all non virgin girls dat mess around. I knw of a guy that married his wife as a virgin, only for him to discover later that three of d four children they had are not his. It's not about virginity bro, it's about honesty....

Haybk:
@ OP, it's not all non virgin girls dat mess around. I knw of a guy that married his wife as a virgin, only for him to discover later that three of d four children they had are not his. It's not about virginity bro, it's about honesty....

i read that story too, but did u blv dat? Well, he meet her as a virgin and he was the one that took her pride b4 those occurencies. All am saying is, since they *feminies* have lost their virginity to someone else, d pride is no more there. A woman is suppose to keep herself till her wedding night. Sotherefor, bride price should not be completed!

Dericman:
This is to my fellow guys that are planing on getting married soon.
If you didn't disflowerd ur girl or u didn't meet her/she no longer a virgin and u intend marrying her, i don't think you should pay/complete her bride price. Afteral, sm1 else has taken the dignity that u were suppose to have, her pride has been stolen away.. Ladies go just dey mess around, changing/sleeping with guys anyhow, when the whole body don collapse/scatter finish, them go con dey fine who dem go settle down with... Only but very few ladies marries as virgin these days! May God help the ladies of this our generation....

And what about men that are not virgins?

If you are going to compare the worth of a woman to mere money, you're probably not worth it at all.

This is 2016 and we should stop this dowry nonsense. Women are not articles to be bought and sold.

raayah:


And what about men that are not virgins?

I am fighting for the men, you should be in better position to say what happens to them!

Dericman:
but y is ur head boiling na? Did i mention ur name..? Bullshiiit meaning wat na? American slangs... Mtchww..

hilarious prat!

raayah:


And what about men that are not virgins?

If you are going to compare the worth of a woman to mere money, you're probably not worth it at all.

This is 2016 and we should stop this dowry nonsense. Women are not articles to be bought and sold.

Fine, but una parent, culture go agree?

Dericman:
I am fighting for the men, you should be in better position to say what happens to them!

Why do you think a woman without a hymen is better than those with hymen.

and if the man is not a virgin,ladies don't give him your full submission and respect .

Dericman:
Fine, but una parent, culture go agree?

Me personally, I'm not doing traditional marriage, I'm not going to be bought. My parents and boyfriend are very aware of this.

Lol who really cares about bride price in this generation.Some People just accept it for tradition sake.

raayah:


Me personally, I'm not doing traditional marriage, I'm not going to be bought. My parents and boyfriend are very aware of this.

i like ur reasoning dear.. Only but if u are a benin or a yoruba gal, that is wen i can say yes, d bride price will not be much. But my dear, honestly speaking, will marry a man who didn't pay ur bride price

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Smh

this topic is for LAWMA

hypocrisy everiwia....u pester a girl for sex and u want to marry a virgin...

but then again, wot do i know

...diff strokes...diff folks.

owoade25:
While I totally agree that this question needs to be pondered upon but still waiting for someone to address the issue, my thoughts provoked another question: What about if I have made a lady to lose her virginity,should I go and pay her bride price though she's about to get married to another guy (who might also be thinking like whoever started this post)? or should we just leave this topic for lawma?

you took her dignity when anoda man has paid her pride price.. Hmmm. Well, i think your question is contrary to what i posted! If you defile another man's wife knowing fully well that the man has paid her bride price and u still went ahead to still her dignity, u are laying a curse on urself. That is all i can say. The man who paid her price knew she was a virgin, and if he eventually get to find out that she's no more a virgin on their wedding night, na only him know wetin him reaction go be!

owoade25:
While I totally agree that this question needs to be pondered upon but still waiting for someone to address the issue, my thoughts provoked another question: What about if I have made a lady to lose her virginity,should I go and pay her bride price though she's about to get married to another guy (who might also be thinking like whoever started this post)? or should we just leave this topic for lawma?

Let's leave the topic for LAWMA.

...

Your mates are busy making money you're here looking for how to slash bride price.



Egbon if its groom price that you want come and collect it

lalasticlala please ban this guy for one century

owoade25:


let me rephrase: what happens to the girl(s) you have also deflowered, are you saying whoever wants to marry them should reason like you? are you going to pay bride price for them? Or is a curse going to be on your head....think about these.

my dear, i jus tink u shud go back to d top and re read.. I said if u want to marry her and she's no more a virgin, u shud not pay all d bride price, i didn't say don't marry her ok? And mind u, am not talking for all guys neither are u. So any guy who feels like, good for him. By d way, na ur sis i disflowerd? U know verywell dat a girl pride price has been paid and she was abt getting married soon, yet u went ahead and slept with her. Is that not a curse

so in your confused mind all virgins will make faithful wives abi ?

Guy, you need your brain checked !!!

This topic was made FP days ago and the topic was treated.

So ain't discussing the topic again.

Diddyydiva:
so in your confused mind all virgins will make faithful wives abi ?


Guy, you need your brain checked !!!


This topic was made FP days ago and the topic was treated.


So ain't discussing the topic again.

Bae, e dey pain u say u no be one? Lmao.... Good/faithful wife or not, dat is not my concern all i know is dat ur hussy always and forever respect u for dat! Dat is d only priceless gift u can give to ur man. Na fact!