J

Ehn. Tell her make una go visit the guy na.. and watch how the two of them treat each other.

But abeg no kill urself for one lady wey fit change her mind on you anytime anyday..

Bros mi you have been friendzoned

She told a guy in your presence that she loves him and you have the effrontery to come here to ask for advise...I don't know what to call you.

hmmmmmm.......ure to resume duty as d new president of d association of friendzoning 4 west-africa........pls U're to resume duty & take effect immediately

chilling as a side dude

When you start looking for advice online in a public forum like this concerning your relationship, you can only get more confused. Sorry about my comment am not trying to discourage you though. From what you said it means she no longer have respect for you or the relationship and I think as it stands now what you are to her is just friends with benefits. So if you are still thinking of dumping her yet, she may have dumped you in her mind. Move on with your life but you can retain the status of friends with benefits void of any commitment

elpochas:
I met dis gal in 2012 during my project work at her plaz.we HV been dating since then till now.the tin is DAT some time in 2014 she came visiting me.she was always on call wit a strange guy.I confronted her she told me his her brother.Lata in 2015 she started putting pics of the guy with pics of she and d guy on Facebook.I confronted her we had to querrel and break up.we Lara made up.wen she came visiting me in 2015 she was still on call always wit dis same boy.both day and nite not minding my presence.she even tells d guy she luvs him in my present BT yet weneva I confronted her she insist she has noting to do wit dis same guy.dis a gal I provide for wot Eva she needs.pls shud I still continue wit her?cos HV be
en tinking to dump her since

Let me tel you a story, lol.
The babe dnt wanna lose any of u. she sees one of u as her present nd d other as her future.
If u re spending on her, then its u she sees as her present.
Make ur decision urself, dts y u re a man

J

elpochas:
tanks for all ur advice.she has been begging me since yestAday o.BT am still tinking of dumping her. she says she has told DAT guy to go. we HV been togeda for four years now and I plan getting married to her.

The emboldened is another reason while you shouldnt take her back. she has told the other guy to go which means that the other guy isnt her brother but she lied to you that he is her
brother.
A woman who cheated and lied to you when dating isnt best to spend your life with as a wife because she also could cheat on you again.

A

elpochas:
wen we saw this year afta much questioning she told me d guy is her friend but they don't HV sex.hav called her bfor d guy picked her call and told me DAT I shud stop waisting my money on her DAT he has paid her bride price and they were getting married. I later confirmed DAT it was a lie from her mother.don't really know wot to do cos hw do I know she has left d boy.am wit his number

are u in any way spritually tied to this girl?

y asking chidekings? no

KINGinVAHALA:

The emboldened is another reason while you shouldnt take her back. she has told the other guy to go which means that the other guy isnt her brother but she lied to you that he is her
brother.
A woman who cheated and lied to you when dating isnt best to spend your life with as a wife because she also could cheat on you again.

Pls stop taking her serious. She is a chronic lier nd a cheat who has been using you for more than 4 yes for her financial gain. U mean nothing to her other than the fact that u re her ATM trust me. U can either get another girl nd stat up a genuine affair or marry her nd father another's man child from her lover because even I u marry her she wil till continue cheating nd having sex wit him. Now u know Wot to do.

If you don't know what to do, you probably need serious advice in your life as a whole n not just in your relationship

Pls do the needful n forget about all your financial investments.

Guy you mumu sha #no offense

guys tanks for advice.gonna tell her off tomorrow.dats been my plan.my only regret is DAT I did it late.God bless u all.

Now who be this friend zoned fela seeking advice

Now who be this friend zoned fela seeking advice being i

Kingsasian:
She told a guy in your presence that she loves him and you have the effrontery to come here to ask for advise...I don't know what to call you.

Call him ode cos dats wat he is

mizzkweenbee:

Call him ode cos dats wat he is

Your pattern of writing is enough for someone to FRIEND ZONE you