Crystallss:

I told him that since we cant have everything we want we have to compromise but he said i should stop contending with him as the man and im supposed to agree with his decisions not query them.

Crystallss:
do you think im being unreasonable? And what is the probability that i will meet someone else that wants what i want too?

ednut1:
if u cannot submit to his desires dont marry him . look for some else to avoid stories dat touch. at 23 u still hv time to develop ur self nd plan. not jumping into marriage dat is doomed ab initio

Crystallss:

I can assure you that its not money cos even with the little i make it is still more than what his dad pays him. Plus im not materialistic. I dont ask him for money or fuss about gifts. most times im the one giving gifts and recharging his phone although he tries to pay me back but i dont allow him do that.

Crystallss:

We have been trying to settle this since last year. I even gathered the courage to talk to his dad abt it last year and he said i am just looking for excuses not to get married. This is not true. I was just stating my concerns but was misunderstood and Required to go for 3 days deliverance which i did because i didnt want to cause any trouble.

Crystallss:
Im scared of breaking up. What if i regret my actions later if i cant find someone else to love and by the time i realize that he already has someone else? On the other hand what if we do get married and i get angry and fustrated later in life because i couldnt meet up with my goals. I dont want to make a mistake that will hunt me the rest of my life

Crystallss:
If i suggest postponing the marriage they will say im bringing up another issue. His dad made it clear that if we are not making any plans to get married this year then everyone should go their seperate ways

Crystallss:

We have been trying to settle this since last year. I even gathered the courage to talk to his dad abt it last year and he said i am just looking for excuses not to get married. This is not true. I was just stating my concerns but was misunderstood and Required to go for 3 days deliverance which i did because i didnt want to cause any trouble.

Crystallss:
his dad made the arrangements. He said i have the spirit of indecision because i dont want us to break up or live in agbarho

Crystallss:

We have not had sex yet. We are waiting till marriage. That was the first thing his dad asked me when he introduced me to him 4 years ago. You are right about him inheriting the church. My mum told me that was bound to happen sooner or later since he is the only child left in this country and that could be the reason why he wants us to live there. He said he can let me go for a short course abroad as part of continuing education since im a nurse but he wont let me live there. My initial plan was to travel out to work and while i do that i can get to the peak of my career by getting my doctor of Nursing practice degree then come back to nigeria to start my private practice. I was estimatimg 5 to 7 years abroad within which we can have our children too and he agreed to this plan until recently when he changed everything.

Crystallss:
do you think im being unreasonable? And what is the probability that i will meet someone else that wants what i want too?

adren:




babe.. something is fishy!!

call that relationship quit ASAP!!

BTW.. it is no longer a relatiinship.. it is a "one-man show"..


if you are not bold enough to work out or too emotional to understand your happiness is at stake here.. just drop a note and move ahead overnight..


no matter how ugly you are.. there is one man out there good for you.. and as long as u have "barca and chelsea", u go find suitor..


and u are a nurse.. ur good command of english makes me conclude beyond reasonable doubt that u are beautiful..


dump that guy.. or him papa and himself go finish you..



lalasticlala fit help you

Crystallss:
Im scared of breaking up. What if i regret my actions later if i cant find someone else to love and by the time i realize that he already has someone else? On the other hand what if we do get married and i get angry and fustrated later in life because i couldnt meet up with my goals. I dont want to make a mistake that will hunt me the rest of my life