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Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:21am On Feb 26, 2016
1. Being too Authoritative:
Most guys as so authoritative.
The moment you accept their
proposal, they will begin to act
like a God over your life. Some
will go as far as sizing your
phone, buying you new sim
card and forcing you to break
the old one and start using the
new one they bought.
Such attitude pisses girls off
and may make her reconsider
other toasters proposals.



2. Asking for sex too early:
Many guys think that because
you've accepted their proposal
you've automatically become
their sex machine. They'll
start touching you everywhere
at every chance they get. If
you mistakenly visit them in
their house, you're on your
own. Guys should understand
that creating an atmosphere
that would make the girl
comfortable is the only way to
win her heart, not acting like a
he goat at every opportunity
you get.


3. Initiating sex chat all the
time: 80% of guys are guilty of
this. You exchange number
with them, they add you on
BBM or whatsapp, the next
thing you'll here is send me a
hot pic of yourself, snap your
boobs let me see how it looks
like, how does your waist look
like? what's your best
Position, do you suck dic*k?
and all that. Haba all girls are
not porn stars, and that
attitude would just tell the girl
that you're only interested in
her body.



4. The beggar: Its true that
some girls rely on guys for
almost every material thing in
her life, guys are also guilty of
the same. Some guys will beg
and beg and beg, no shame, I
have a coursemate like that,
her guy uses her phone to
make calls, comes to her
lodge to eat, collects her food
stuffs and worse of all is that
he isn't even faithful to the
girl. Guys like that are worse
than mosquitoes and can
make any girl feel irritated.


5. Abusiveness: Most guys act
as if they're professional
boxers, they'll slap, punch,
kick,and beat you to a pulp at
every slight misunderstanding
you have. In fact, if you visit
them for a week, you'll look
like someone that survived an
accident between your okada
and a dangote trailer. Guys
you people need to stop this
attitude. Any guy that lays his
hands on a girl regardless of
what she did doesn't deserve
the love and care of any
woman.


6. Unfaithfulness: Men are
polygamous in nature, but its
so irritating when you
introduce you guy to your
friends and in less than a
week he has slept with all of
them. He even goes as far as
asking your siblings, cousins
and female members of your
family out. Its so annoying.
You cannot even leave him for
5minutes alone with a female
without him misbehaving.
Most girls get turned off by
this attitude and begin to
consider other options.



7. Comparing you to their ex:
Believe me no girl loves this.
Most guys behave like kids,
they compare everything you
do with the way their ex used
to do it. From your cooking, to
your dressing, even the way
you talk. Please just allow the
girl express herself. Trying to
force a girl to become what
she's not will get her
frustrated and as a result she
could begin to look elsewhere.



8. Refusing to get matured:
We have many guys in their
early, mid and late 30s but
their characters are like that
of teenagers. You say hello to
a friend on the road, problem,
if you smile while saying hello,
they'll say both of you have
something in common if not
why did you smile, if you give
him a peck, that one is
another problem. If they take
you out, they'll expect you to
remain silent like a
monument,don't reply
greetings and don't talk to
anyone till you come back
home. Guys ladies have much to
offer if only we treat them right!

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Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Nobody: 6:28am On Feb 26, 2016
Op how am my sure you read what you wrote

dedicate this FTC or wether na FTP to my unknown girl friend
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Khd95(m): 6:30am On Feb 26, 2016
Op,for where ur lies dey,lai muhammed be learnergringrin


haba,99%(virtualy all guys niyen) of guys asks for sex too early,God will judge usad

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Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:31am On Feb 26, 2016
undecided undecided
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by SexyStrawberry(f): 6:32am On Feb 26, 2016
And to think its a guy that created this thread....hmmmmmmm.... that's nice.

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Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:33am On Feb 26, 2016
undecided undecided undecided[quote author=Khd95 post=43260020]Op,for where ur lies dey,lai muhammed be learnergringrin
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:34am On Feb 26, 2016
SexyStrawberry:
And to think its a guy that created this thread....hmmmmmmm.... that's nice.
thank u dear
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by KingRex1(m): 6:36am On Feb 26, 2016
Maxi112:
1. Being too Authoritative:
Most guys as so authoritative.
The moment you accept their
proposal, they will begin to act
like a God over your life. Some
will go as far as sizing your
phone, buying you new sim
card and forcing you to break
the old one and start using the
new one they bought.
Such attitude pisses girls off
and may make her reconsider
other toasters proposals.



2. Asking for sex too early:
Many guys think that because
you've accepted their proposal
you've automatically become
their sex machine. They'll
start touching you everywhere
at every chance they get. If
you mistakenly visit them in
their house, you're on your
own. Guys should understand
that creating an atmosphere
that would make the girl
comfortable is the only way to
win her heart, not acting like a
he goat at every opportunity
you get.


3. Initiating sex chat all the
time: 99% of guys are guilty of
this. You exchange number
with them, they add you on
BBM or whatsapp, the next
thing you'll here is send me a
hot pic of yourself, snap your
boobs let me see how it looks
like, how does your waist look
like? what's your best
Position, do you suck dic*k?
and all that. Haba all girls are
not porn stars, and that
attitude would just tell the girl
that you're only interested in
her body.



4. The beggar: Its true that
some girls rely on guys for
almost every material thing in
her life, guys are also guilty of
the same. Some guys will beg
and beg and beg, no shame, I
have a coursemate like that,
her guy uses her phone to
make calls, comes to her
lodge to eat, collects her food
stuffs and worse of all is that
he isn't even faithful to the
girl. Guys like that are worse
than mosquitoes and can
make any girl feel irritated.


5. Abusiveness: Most guys act
as if they're professional
boxers, they'll slap, punch,
kick,and beat you to a pulp at
every slight misunderstanding
you have. In fact, if you visit
them for a week, you'll look
like someone that survived an
accident between your okada
and a dangote trailer. Guys
you people need to stop this
attitude. Any guy that lays his
hands on a girl regardless of
what she did doesn't deserve
the love and care of any
woman.


6. Unfaithfulness: Men are
polygamous in nature, but its
so irritating when you
introduce you guy to your
friends and in less than a
week he has slept with all of
them. He even goes as far as
asking your siblings, cousins
and female members of your
family out. Its so annoying.
You cannot even leave him for
5minutes alone with a female
without him misbehaving.
Most girls get turned off by
this attitude and begin to
consider other options.



7. Comparing you to their ex:
Believe me no girl loves this.
Most guys behave like kids,
they compare everything you
do with the way their ex used
to do it. From your cooking, to
your dressing, even the way
you talk. Please just allow the
girl express herself. Trying to
force a girl to become what
she's not will get her
frustrated and as a result she
could begin to look elsewhere.



8. Refusing to get matured:
We have many guys in their
early, mid and late 30s but
their characters are like that
of teenagers. You say hello to
a friend on the road, problem,
if you smile while saying hello,
they'll say both of you have
something in common if not
why did you smile, if you give
him a peck, that one is
another problem. If they take
you out, they'll expect you to
remain silent like a
monument,don't reply
greetings and don't talk to
anyone till you come back
home. Guys ladies have much to
offer if only we treat them right!
Funny enuf ladies keep falling nd running afta such guys

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Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:37am On Feb 26, 2016
Khd95:
Op,for where ur lies dey,lai muhammed be learnergringrin


haba,99%(virtualy all guys niyen) of guys asks for sex too early,God will judge usad
mejority of them do!
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by dhenri(m): 6:38am On Feb 26, 2016
nice one

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Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:38am On Feb 26, 2016
KingRex1:
Funny enuf ladies keep falling nd running afta such guys
u might be right.... but not all of them
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:40am On Feb 26, 2016
Jmaxx:
Op how am my sure you read what you wrote

dedicate this FTC or wether na FTP to my unknown girl friend
I don't no what u are talking abt... with all due respect
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Julietcutie(f): 6:40am On Feb 26, 2016
love this thread... plz tell your fellow guys to learn OP
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by KingRex1(m): 6:41am On Feb 26, 2016
Maxi112:
u might be right.... but not all of them
Just like ur post might be right but nt 99.9percent of guys. Such fallacy
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:45am On Feb 26, 2016
KingRex1:
Just like ur post might be right but nt 99.9percent of guys. Such fallacy
i concur with u lemme make amend

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Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:47am On Feb 26, 2016
Julietcutie:
love this thread... plz tell your fellow guys to learn OP
I will
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by SolexxBarry(m): 6:50am On Feb 26, 2016
9. When u don't have money cry

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Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 6:54am On Feb 26, 2016
SolexxBarry:
9. When u don't have money cry
lolz! not every babe is after ur money...

let not go there cause if I do, I might turn out to be enemy to some guys here
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Nobody: 7:02am On Feb 26, 2016
U make sense bro

Concerning guys demanding sex very early, It's a huge turn off to ladies especially when they want to have a gud relationship wit u. Let me say dis, a woman can beg u for sex on her second visit if not d first sef. This is based on experience and it will work on any girl so long as she is not a "No sex relationships type".


When u invite her for d first time, b a gentleman. Play, laugh, discuss and watch movies wit her but shy away from anything dat suggests sex as it will make her feel u love her as a person and not because u want sex. Why? It makes u more attractive to her because she sees u as being different and unique from other guys. Now while playing wit and making her laugh, 'intentionally' brush or touch her breast in a 'mistaken way'. When u do dat smile, apologize to her and shift away from her a bit and of course continue wit d discussion and act as if nothing happened. Believe me, she will melt inside grin grin


Na she go begin change topic to issues abt sex. Begin drag how many girlfriends wey u get etc. U go just dey smile for inside...lols
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by FlawlessRebirth2(f): 7:05am On Feb 26, 2016
WHO STILL DOES THATSEXx CHAT?
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 7:39am On Feb 26, 2016
FlawlessRebirth2:
WHO STILL DOES THATSEXx CHAT?
good number of guys do!
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by FlawlessRebirth2(f): 7:47am On Feb 26, 2016
Maxi112:
good number of guys do!
.SERIOUSLY?...NAWAO
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 7:52am On Feb 26, 2016
FlawlessRebirth2:
.SERIOUSLY?...NAWAO
yeah!

some of the ladies here can tell u How many times guys have been hitting them for sex chat
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by nani212(m): 7:53am On Feb 26, 2016
Alejhandro:
U make sense bro

Concerning guys demanding sex very early, It's a huge turn off to ladies especially when they want to have a gud relationship wit u. Let me say dis, a woman can beg u for sex on her second visit if not d first sef. This is based on experience and it will work on any girl so long as she is not a "No sex relationships type".


When u invite her for d first time, b a gentleman. Play, laugh, discuss and watch movies wit her but shy away from anything dat suggests sex as it will make her feel u love her as a person and not because u want sex. Why? It makes u more attractive to her because she sees u as being different and unique from other guys. Now while playing wit and making her laugh, 'intentionally' brush or touch her breast in a 'mistaken way'. When u do dat smile, apologize to her and shift away from her a bit and of course continue wit d discussion and act as if nothing happened. Believe me, she will melt inside grin grin


Na she go begin change topic to issues abt sex. U go just dey smile for inside...lols

omo, it depends on the girl o. some will call u mugu and concentrate on depleting your resources.
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Nobody: 8:01am On Feb 26, 2016
nani212:
omo, it depends on the girl o. some will call u mugu and concentrate on depleting your resources.

Not really. What am saying is dat guys shud put d ladies in d mood for sex first before they demand it. It makes it easier and at d same time d lady won't b offended since she already wants it.
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Nina4u(f): 8:01am On Feb 26, 2016
Im a woman and i say all is correct exept nr 3 ..no biggi ..but bouth should feel comfortable with it ofcause ..it should b a partnership not a dictatorship lol
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by cruzita(f): 8:57am On Feb 26, 2016
first time this boy dey talk better thing. that no 1 is so on point ,that's the reason feminists are everywhere now
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 9:03am On Feb 26, 2016
cruzita:
first time this boy dey talk better thing. that no 1 is so on point ,that's the reason feminists are everywhere now
the kind of slap way dey wait for u still dey do press up...

go check my previous post b4... mind u I'm maxi112 not wiLdFLam
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 9:07am On Feb 26, 2016
Nina4u:
Im a woman and i say all is correct exept nr 3 ..no biggi ..but bouth should feel comfortable with it ofcause ..it should b a partnership not a dictatorship lol
wow! but some of the ladies here find that number 3 so annoying... e.g flawlessReirth2
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Nobody: 9:08am On Feb 26, 2016
Amen Amen!!
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Maxi112: 9:11am On Feb 26, 2016
QueenValerie:
Amen Amen!!
wharis this queenvelerie
Re: Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Dump /ignore Them by Nobody: 9:19am On Feb 26, 2016
Maxi112:
wharis this queenvelerie
Uh,here,you just quoted her.....Guy pay attention grin

No I'm playin'.You mean my profile pic?

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