Am a man, I grew up with sisters and brothers but my feelings are
sometimes a bit different and I can't help it. When I was younger, everyone thought I was just playing and being effeminate like any other child but no, that's how I felt. I am a guy that's not always comfortable in men's clothing, that's the truth. Many times I want to cross-dress if only the society won't look at me like a woman wrapper. It has nothing to do with being a wrapper or being a skirt and blouse man pikin. Do you know I can comfortably walk in heels and I fantasize all the time about just walking across the street or dressing up on a Sunday morning with some high heeled ladies shoe to church? I can't do it because I know no one will have that in this country.

For the records, let me clearly state here that I am not homosexual, I am a straight guy, married with 2 kids but I still fantasize all the time about cross-dressing. I love to dress like a woman, sometimes touch up some lipstick and face powder and polish my nails with a not so obvious colour. I have used my wife's mascara before and was caught in the act and "oh my" she threatened fire and brimstone. Am trying my best to make her understand I am no homo, I don't have feelings for men and will never, just that urge to sometimes cross-dress but she won't even let me land before raising her voice and casting out devils. What has the devil got to do with my wanting to cross-dress a few times, even if it's in the privacy of our home?

My wife used to be very understanding but all that changed when I tried to confide in her. I love so much and wish she'll just let me do this one thing and be truly happy. It won't cost her nothing but she just refuses to show understanding and has become very defensive and suspicious. Lately, when I try to have a conversation, she becomes edgy and nervous, looks at me like " Am ready to explode in your face if you dare say that again"

Honestly, I have been very understanding and always had my wife's back. This is the only one thing I desire yet she refuses to show understanding. It breaks my heart because this to me is not a joking matter. My wife who should have my back and keep my secrets is now the most difficult to deal with. What do I do?

She has completely forgotten that I have always had her back. I never wanted to say this even anonymously on any blog but I just have to right now, to help drive my point home. ...I married my wife pregnant, yes and no one knows about it. She told me the truth, how she was jilted by her ex before she realized she was carrying a baby. I assured her I'll adopt, she should keep it between us. Now I have my biological son and you won't believe I love them both equally. The adopted remains my first son forever because I made that promise to my wife and that is also because I truly love her. Am ready to do anything for my wife, I mean anything, unless of course it will hurt someone. Am ready to take the bullets on her behalf, why can't she show a little understanding? Is it too much to ask? If I wear ladies' panties sometimes in our bedroom and feel good with myself, is it a crime? Does that harm anyone? Why does she think I'm sick and that I need help. Ok now, that means I have always been sick cuz growing up, I wore my sisters' dresses and shoes from time to time and they just laughed and made fun of me without even knowing I felt good in those attires.

The problem isn't my massive pendulous man sausage hanging down in a ladies pink pant, I know how to handle that. If I wear a female swimsuit or skirt, what I do with my balls is my bees wax for goodness sake.

I can put on all this stuff and feel incredibly sexy, but it doesn't get me off. It may seem like a fine line, but really, it's the same way that any woman can put on a beautiful dress and heels and feel powerfully sexy, but that doesn't mean it gives her a sexual thrill in and of itself. It's a look, not a fetish wharreva. Wearing women's clothes and shoes cannot make me homosexual. That's completely different and I have tried to explain but she won't listen. How do I make my wife a bit more understanding? If anyone on the blog is like my wife and wants to fire shots at me? That's your business! I don't really care about how people feel if what I'm doing is right and doesn't feel wrong. Who are you to tell me other wise? I need honest advice.
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Your wife is cool

You already said you don't care what people feel is right or wrong about you......so what do you need advice for??

Which i had a man with a heart like urs in my life
Cross dressing na Small thing i personally will buy u heels make ups and all

U need 40 dirty hot slaps to reset ur brain

end time husbnd

U dnt need any advice from us, call denrele.

halfricanadian:
Which i had a man with a heart like urs in my life
Cross dressing na Small thing i personally will buy u heels make ups and all

May your wishes come true

skarlett:



May your wishes come true

amen for d heart bt cross dressing? We gon work it out he just need mama skills on him

I'd say live your life but then again, you have a wife who is not in support.

my monday _ sunday outfit is a jean(with some men shoe or boot) skirt,dress? No No.

Dunno what to say but we all have something we want
I don't see anything in cross dressing sha
I wore my man my wig
Made him up
Asked him catwalk
Its nothing really

Maybe I am weird sha
Or I see things differently

Your desire sound odd but I feel your wife should have given in to what you want. I guess she is just scared that her man might be a homo but since she doesn't have any evidence to justify her assumption and you have confided in her about how important it's to you, If she really loves you, she should give in.

austine4real:
U need 40 dirty hot slaps to reset ur brain


end time husbnd

and 12 hot strokes of koboko from teacher chike

There is a difference wearing ur "man" makeup n wig vs him wanting it himself. How can u explain a grown man wanting to wear heels n pink skirt When we were little, we did alot of crazy stuff bit now we are adults. Adulthood is about responsibility, it's about sacrifice. Pls stop! It's outrageous!

gbens2000:
and 12 hot strokes of koboko from teacher chike

lolx

Aww.. .... Serious something

Dyt:
Dunno what to say but we all have something we want
I don't see anything in cross dressing sha
I wore my man my wig
Made him up
Asked him catwalk
Its nothing really

Maybe I am weird sha
Or I see things differently

Was it not done indoors? Will u allow him out like dat?

quintybabee:
Your desire sound odd but I feel your wife should have given in to what you want. I guess she is just scared that her man might be a homo but since she doesn't have any evidence to justify her assumption and you have confided in her about how important it's to you, If she really loves you, she should give in.

Really?
If to craze go make my man happy, I should allow him? lol

It is well

End time is here indeed. .

Soon guys will start wearing heels, wearing gowns, tying wrapper and gele
All needed is like minds esp. in d developed countries and the awareness/fight for right kicks off!!

God help us...

thelish:


Was it not done indoors? Will u allow him out like dat?

Maybe I didn't read about him dressing like that in public
Funny cos we are so worried about what the world will say
Its normal sha cos I will laugh if I see that too

halfricanadian:
Which i had a man with a heart like urs in my life
Cross dressing na Small thing i personally will buy u heels make ups and all

Dis is an expensive joke, pray it would be ur portion.

Dyt:

Maybe I didn't read about him dressing like that in public Funny cos we are so worried about what the world will say Its normal sha cos I will laugh if I see that too

hahahahaha.

I'll personally flog you mercilessly if I ever catch you. I hate men who behave, reason and act like women.

I've seen so many like that, some carry lady's bags, put on tight jeans and cat walk. Things like that aren't normal.

yvelchstores:
There is a difference wearing ur "man" makeup n wig vs him wanting it himself. How can u explain a grown man wanting to wear heels n pink skirt When we were little, we did alot of crazy stuff bit now we are adults. Adulthood is about responsibility, it's about sacrifice. Pls stop! It's outrageous!

Na so craze the start oh. Hian wear heels and follow your wife? Wtf. Lipstick, and all that. Bruh you are gay.

Oloriburuku ni eleyi o...

:O:O #Gay Alert#

you might have traces of haemophrodite without knowing. have you tried talking to your doctor about your situation, a test can be run to rule out any symptoms of you been an haemophrodite. if dats d only u problem you have in ur marriage, my brother you have no problem at all.

You need rehabilitation and counselling.Go see a psychologist.

Na like this Bruce (the brucer) jenner start o! Sneaking to wear kim's clothes and using their make up, now to total transformation to woman. Guy abeg stick with your man clothes and shoes and paraphernalia.

Dyt:
Dunno what to say but we all have something we want
I don't see anything in cross dressing sha
I wore my man my wig
Made him up
Asked him catwalk
Its nothing really

Maybe I am weird sha
Or I see things differently

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5minsmadness:




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Yes
That's how crazy we both were
And even more