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Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 8:26pm On Mar 07, 2016
Anyways i am tired of people asking me how i am still single. Its not a bad thing to be single.
Infact i love being single, i have more time for myself, i can talk to anybody i want to without feeling guilty. True, i get lonely sometimes but i rather be single than be in an unhealthy relationship.I'd rather be single than waste
my time on somebody who's not
gonna take me seriously. I'd
rather watch other couples be happy than
be in a relationship where I'm gonna be miserable. I'd rather
feel lonely than feel alone even when I'm with somebody.I'd
rather wait until someone comes along & genuinely wants to
be with me, than rush into something with someone who just
wanna play games with me. Bleep all that nonsense. Too many
people just wanna 'have fun' nowadays, which is fine cause
at our age, it's normal. But i dont want to be hurt while they are at it.

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Greene66: 8:27pm On Mar 07, 2016
Good girl.

I love that.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Maxity02(f): 8:30pm On Mar 07, 2016
enjoy ur single life sis
no time to waste on negative people
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 8:32pm On Mar 07, 2016
Maxity02:
enjoy ur single life sis
no time to waste on negative people
Enjoying every moment of it now.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Marlvin(m): 8:35pm On Mar 07, 2016
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Kondomatic(m): 8:35pm On Mar 07, 2016
I have no problem with people that decide to stay single, it is none of my boring business but I have a problem with them owning pets. I mean if you cannot find a good man among all these many people on earth then why own a pet? Huh? Because the poor thing has no choice?

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 8:35pm On Mar 07, 2016
Op,b ready to get countless pms from nl guys!because dis thread to dem b like#i am single,pm me cheesy

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 8:35pm On Mar 07, 2016
Enjoy your solitary life at ur own expense. There is no point creating a topic to discuss it since u're okay with it.




Perhaps, you are typing ironically.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 8:38pm On Mar 07, 2016
prettythicksme:
Op,b ready to get countless pms from nl guys!because dis thread to dem b like#i am single,pm me cheesy
Its far from it.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Maxity02(f): 8:38pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
Enjoying every moment of it now.
wow!
thumbs up to u dear!
enjoy ur life no time

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by AlexCk: 8:40pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
Anyways i am tired of people asking me how i am still single. Its not a bad thing to be single.
Infact i love being single, i have more time for myself, i can talk to anybody i want to without feeling guilty. True, i get lonely sometimes but i rather be single than be in an unhealthy relationship.I'd rather be single than waste
my time on somebody who's not
gonna take me seriously. I'd
rather watch other couples be happy than
be in a relationship where I'm gonna be miserable. I'd rather
feel lonely than feel alone even when I'm with somebody.I'd
rather wait until someone comes along & genuinely wants to
be with me, than rush into something with someone who just
wanna play games with me. Bleep all that nonsense. Too many
people just wanna 'have fun' nowadays, which is fine cause
at our age, it's normal. But i dont want to be hurt while they are at it.


The more u start listening to people, the more u get agitated.
Remember it's ur life, not someone's, do what mk ya happy, u owe no1 any explanation.

People will always talk.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 07, 2016
prettythicksme:
Op,b ready to get countless pms from nl guys!because dis thread to dem b like#i am single,pm me cheesy


Exactly my thought. This is just a childish way of saying "I'm single and searching"



Because I don't know how someone's lonesomeness will be subject to a discuss on a forum like this.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:

Its far from it.
Just watch grin
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 8:43pm On Mar 07, 2016
AlexCk:



The more u start listening to people, the more u get agitated.
Remember it's ur life, not someone's, do what mk ya happy, u owe no1 any explanation.

People will always talk.
Lets just say i was trying to release all the pent up emotions. I m just tired of the qstn.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by AlexCk: 8:50pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:

Lets just say i was trying to release all the pent up emotions. I m just tired of the qstn.

Its understandable. there are times when u just wanna "Aargh".
But hey, what doesn't kill ya, can only make ya stronger.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 8:51pm On Mar 07, 2016
AlexCk:

Its understandable. there are times when u just wanna "Aargh". But hey, what doesn't kill ya, can only make ya stronger.
Thank you.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by AlexCk: 8:53pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:

Thank you.

You're welcome ma'am.

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by ThreeGEEKS(m): 8:55pm On Mar 07, 2016
Kondomatic:
I have no problem with people that decide to stay single, it is none of my boring business but I have a problem with them owning pets. I mean if you cannot find a good man among all these many people on earth then why own a pet? Huh? Because the poor thing has no choice?
They will claim they are looking for the perfect partner, as if the pet is
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 8:56pm On Mar 07, 2016
Team single cheesy
We rock

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
prettythicksme:
Op,b ready to get countless pms from nl guys!because dis thread to dem b like#i am single,pm me cheesy
As dogged as I am in my quest to defend the male cause, I've gotta say some of us can be real wool-headed simpletons tongue

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 9:02pm On Mar 07, 2016
In my country Nigeria it is a curse and a taboo. It means so many things at once;

1,you are running away from responsibility.
2,You are yet immature in spite of all the resources and training wasted on you.
3, You are not cultural
4, You are a misfit
5, You are a tough person and not compatible
6, You don't want to bear children
7, Your behaviour is unnatural
8, You may not live long.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 9:06pm On Mar 07, 2016
Stupedinluv:
In my country Nigeria it is a curse and a taboo. It means so many things;
1,you are running away from responsibility.

Hahaha. The mindset sha. Responsbility, i av enough already, so m definetly not running from dat.

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 9:09pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:

Hahaha. The mindset sha. Responsbility, i av enough already, so m definetly not running from dat.
Enough you say? Lol Like what and what pls?

btw modified my first post smiley
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 9:12pm On Mar 07, 2016
prettythicksme:
Op,b ready to get countless pms from nl guys!because dis thread to dem b like#i am single,pm me cheesy
Ehoha! grin
I was just comin' ta amen with the op but you got me thinkin' twice.

That's all true Op... I get an feel you
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 07, 2016
Op is single, okay.


Why did you create this thread?

To tell us you are single or to advice us to stay single ?


Why?
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 9:17pm On Mar 07, 2016
Stupedinluv:

Enough you say? Lol Like what and what pls?

btw modified my first post smiley
Being an only daughter and having 3 brothers that i always clean up after, i think thats enough for me. And btw, ur post made me laugh. Being single means i dnt want to bear children. lol. No. If u go through my post a second time u wld see that i said i rather be with someone who genuinely wants to be with me. I havent seen that man yet.
Being single means i may not live long elaborate plz coz i dont understand how they both relate.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 9:29pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:

Being an only daughter and having 3 brothers that i always clean up after, i think thats enough for me. And btw, ur post made me laugh. Being single means i dnt want to bear children. lol. No. If u go through my post a second time u wld see that i said i rather be with someone who genuinely wants to be with me. I havent seen that man yet.
Being single means i may not live long elaborate plz coz i dont understand how they both relate.

Now i understand where your coming from but these three brothers will grow up soon and you will be relieved of the responsibility of cleaning them up. Funny tho how you will term that enough work already.

Its not easy but your parents would not mind finding someone else take over from you if you wish to marry. And the energy you need to take care of three brothers maybe be same or slightly above what you will expend on a relationship.

Well being single may cost you some friendship, good appointments/roles and you will get worn out explaining to people why you chose this type of life. You may loose some "levels of respect". All these can tell on your health negatively.

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 9:33pm On Mar 07, 2016
Stupedinluv:


Now i understand where your coming from but these three brothers will grow up soon and you will be relieved of the responsibility of cleaning them up. Funny tho how you will term that enough work already.

Its not easy but your parents would not mind finding someone else take over from you if you wish to marry. And the energy you need to take care of three brothers maybe be same or slightly above what you will expend on a relationship.

Well being single may cost you some friendship, good appointments/roles and you will get worn out explaining to people why you chose this type of life. You may loose some "levels of respect". All these can tell on your health negatively.
Lolz. Loose some levels of respect because i am single. Funny.
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by firstking01(m): 9:53pm On Mar 07, 2016
And who caresundecided....for opening this thread it means yua getting tired of being lonely and singlegrin

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Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 07, 2016
prettythicksme:
Op,b ready to get countless pms from nl guys!because dis thread to dem b like#i am single,pm me cheesy

From my experience Maybe thats what the OP wants sef. Think am
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Elkings123(m): 11:06pm On Mar 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
Anyways i am tired of people asking me how i am still single. Its not a bad thing to be single.
Infact i love being single, i have more time for myself, i can talk to anybody i want to without feeling guilty. True, i get lonely sometimes but i rather be single than be in an unhealthy relationship.I'd rather be single than waste
my time on somebody who's not
gonna take me seriously. I'd
rather watch other couples be happy than
be in a relationship where I'm gonna be miserable. I'd rather
feel lonely than feel alone even when I'm with somebody.I'd
rather wait until someone comes along & genuinely wants to
be with me, than rush into something with someone who just
wanna play games with me. Bleep all that nonsense. Too many
people just wanna 'have fun' nowadays, which is fine cause
at our age, it's normal. But i dont want to be hurt while they are at it.


You think so cus you have not met someone dat will love you unconditionally... only but thenwill you wish he has been there all this while.....
Re: Being Single Is Not A Curse!! by Leriebloom(f): 11:11pm On Mar 07, 2016
Elkings123:



You think so cus you have not met someone dat will love you unconditionally... only but thenwill you wish he has been there all this while.....
Until i meet that person

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