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Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by Nobody: 8:31am On Mar 11, 2016
Kondomatic:
It doesn't make sense to cheat on a cheat. He's a cheat, you ain't so bow out off of the relationship and continue with your life.

She might cheat back and feel guilty for the rest of her life, every body ain't wired the same. Let her quit whatever she has with him before starting another with another man.

That's what responsible people do.

I agree with you!

However if she has always wanted to cheat, she has every reason to do so now
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by Kondomatic(m): 8:34am On Mar 11, 2016
daretodiffer:


I agree with you!

However if she has always wanted to cheat, she has every reason to do so now
Then there's a possibility that her story is false.

More like an attempt to justify her plans.
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by HaneefahRN(f): 8:36am On Mar 11, 2016
grin fake story.

But the man no get sense sha, why didn't he marry the ex since she is that important to him. And that ex too hasn't married yet after 15yrs abi. Madam continue fasting and praying undecided

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Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by misreal(m): 9:34am On Mar 11, 2016
EggovinMma:


My advice is the best so far please!
Is her husband the only man that has penis?
If the husband feels that she no longer suits him, she should look for another man's arm to bury her worries on, no cheating, everybody is atleast relieved.
Una wey be men just wicked, so na only him go dey enjoy extra marital bypass, the lady doesn't deserve some attention too? undecided undecided




Oh oooooooo, so that advice is now better than mine? She should keep quiet and suffer every minute from emotional blackmail? You see the wickedness wey I dey talk about?



Madam op, you are a big lady, don't cry over any man that has decided to share his penis. There's plenty men in this world. Infact, there are men that can sweep you off your feet and make you forget your worries. Make a decision c to make yourself appealing not only to your husband. Socialise more, travel more, flirt a little more.You will stop caring where your husband sticks his dick on in no time.
all this single girls coming to advice married fellows....hahahhahahahahahah
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 5:36pm On Mar 11, 2016
pcguru1:

Sorry but that makes no sense which right thinking man would choose an ex over his wife, what you wrote.........I don't want to says it's crap so I will say it's mundane
See...I don't like to be rude but your comments are baseless...

One time you are for the op,the next you are against.

Don't quote me instead profer a solution for a marriage of 15 years with kids (possibly).

Did you bother to listen to oga's side of the story?
Did you bother to know if op cheated first and oga decided to go karma on her?

Neee anya ka ngwa gi,If a woman leaves her marriage,another woman will walk in and drill her kids properly.

Leave all these opata yarn about "many fishes","financially stable"...,

#ugonwanyibudi(A woman's pride is her man).
In this Africa setting.

Op,go and settle your marital issues and sit your behind at home and care for your kids.

Aku fechaa odalu awo!

Soldier go;soldier come...barrack go still deh!

It hurts but just chill...We are talking 15 years...check am na!
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 5:41pm On Mar 11, 2016
I am not joking!
fem29:
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I hope you are joking!
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by thelish(f): 6:48pm On Mar 11, 2016
GodnGold:
I am not joking!
Are u applauding d man for cheating? Which one be soldier come, soldier go?
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 11, 2016
GodnGold:
I am not joking!

She should be quiet because she is a woman? . Why?

Her husband is doing something to jeopardise his family's stability and she should just keep quiet?

pray tell, if this was a man that brought this issue, is that what you would say. You would tell him to throw her out and do dna test on the kids!
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:30am On Mar 12, 2016
fem29:


She should be quiet because she is a woman? . Why?

Her husband is doing something to jeopardise his family's stability and she should just keep quiet?

pray tell, if this was a man that brought this issue, is that what you would say. You would tell him to throw her out and do dna test on the kids!
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:47am On Mar 12, 2016
fem29:


She should be quiet because she is a woman? . Why?

Her husband is doing something to jeopardise his family's stability and she should just keep quiet?

pray tell, if this was a man that brought this issue, is that what you would say. You would tell him to throw her out and do dna test on the kids!
I don't do sentiments dear.
Op is a woman and so am I and I happen to be married for long too.

Now these are my reasons for telling op to be quiet...
The deed is done.
What can be done?

Fight,nag,bicker,the guy chose his sidy over her,what can be done?

Nothing!

Suck it up,move on and deal with it .
That's all am saying.


You want her to move out?

Now that's a no-no for me because this nigga is mean and another woman will treat her kids dirty if she leaves.

My advice;salvage what's left of the marriage, mend your ways the best you can.

Forgiveness and looking after yourself helps too.

Always put your kids first because a child will never understand "why momma left".
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:49am On Mar 12, 2016
thelish:


Are u applauding d man for cheating? Which one be soldier come, soldier go?
No ma'am, am not.
Am judging the issue from the real side.
Soldier here is the OGA.
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by SAMBARRY: 1:01am On Mar 12, 2016
grin

I can see girls aren't smiling at all grin grin


#back to listening to Justin beibers songs# cool
EggovinMma:


wink cheesy cheesy

But truth is, nobody get time this period to dey complain about husband infidelity ke?
After 15 years, husband ex ke? ; grin
So I should get worried over that when I know say I get one big BOSS I can seduce to get mouth watery contracts ke? Babe me don move to dubai with BOSS ke? Make the idiooot dey naija dey fuccck him ex, me go use my own toto dey gather contracts cool cool

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Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by aforti(m): 6:18am On Mar 12, 2016
89% of marriages in the world would most definitely end in separation or divorce, there is nothing like forever. You see people who were married for over 40 yrs still one day end up separating due to differences they could not resolve after living together for 40whole yrs You see the primary purpose of man is not marriage, if you remember God created man long before he realised all the animals were not alone let man also have his kind. So God decided to create another male in a female body bcoz the master never repeats his work, thats the originality of creation. So op 15yrs is not too long to leave if you want to. Have you ever wondered why God gave you free will? So you can chose right from wrong, good and bad. You came alone on this earth and you will go back alone, not with your husband not even your beloved children. If you think I am wrong, have you ever seen a situation where a mother or father or child died and any of them volunteer to be berried with them?. Atlas you will be alone, chose your happiness now before you live your entire life pleasing your husband, children and society. Look for a greater purpose in life than marriage please. Marriage is part of life don't make life part of marriage. If this marriage is bringing the worse out of you it's time to let go before you feed the demons in you.

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Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by dust88: 6:55am On Mar 12, 2016
AwajisEJ:
I'm not married yet neither do I have girlfriend so I comment my reserve

Then gerrara here. Go to bed

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