Good afternoon fellow nairalanders, there is this young lady that we work together in the same place, she is always over me & I like her as well, we got close to the extent that the rumour of us dating became wide spread among our colleagues, I'm not a type that like keeping friendship with ladies(either we are together or not) but she asked me 1 day that do I like her & I said yes(nit relationship type of likeness but to feel eachother, s*x), she now told me that had she not ask me I won't tell her. I defended myself sha. Each time I persuade her to see outside of work place so that we can have private time together she will always give an excuse(maybe because I always invite her to guest house/hotel) I'm this no time type & further investigation shows that she has a daughter. I want to get her off me because I don't believe in unnecessary friendship with ladies(no disrespect meant) but yet she is always over me & angry when I'm not giving her attention. Nairalanders Plz how can I go about freeing her or How do I go about working things out with her & give her sweet candy?
Note: She ain't relationships type & she once told me she doesn't believe in marriage too

lawnreigh:
Good afternoon fellow nairalanders, there is this young lady that we work together in the same place, she is always over me & I like her as well, we got close to the extent that the rumour of us dating became wide spread among our colleagues, I'm not a type that like keeping friendship with ladies(either we are together or not) but she asked me 1 day that do I like her & I said yes(nit relationship type of likeness but to feel eachother, s*x), she now told me that had she not ask me I won't tell her. I defended myself sha. Each time I persuade her to see outside of work place so that we can have private time together she will always give an excuse(maybe because I always invite her to guest house/hotel) I'm this no time type & further investigation shows that she has a daughter. I want to get her off me because I don't believe in unnecessary friendship with ladies(no disrespect meant) but yet she is always over me & angry when I'm not giving her attention. Nairalanders Plz how can I go about freeing her or How do I go about working things out with her & give her sweet candy?
Note: She ain't relationships type & she once told me she doesn't believe in marriage too

Bleep clean mouth

If you don't want her anymore ignore and distance yourself from her its that simple.

Do her friends with benefit na, haba

You are being friend-zoned. Maybe she just need a father figure for her daughter. Ask her what she wants from you.

U dnt have a house or wat, why will u invite her to a guest house or hotel thereby making it obvious u jst want to chop and clean mouth.


Even if u dnt want a relationship frm her, treat her like a lady and u will enjoy d dividend

Stop pitying her and do what you gotta do

uckennety:

Bleep clean mouth

hmmm I think it's the best and that's my plans too but she is not making the plan workout by avoiding seeing me outside work place everytime I try to invite her over

uckennety:

Bleep clean mouth

hmmm I think it's the best and that's my plans too but she is not making the plan workout by avoiding seeing me outside work place everytime I try to invite her over

grad2012:
If you don't want her anymore ignore and distance yourself from her its that simple.

I've tried that but she has this cunning way of getting my attention vis a vis official matter

Dolypson04:
You are being friend-zoned. Maybe she just need a father figure for her daughter. Ask her what she wants from you.

hmmm nice 1 I think asking her what she want will give a good clarity & I'd understand her motive better

sunnydayasaba:
U dnt have a house or wat, why will u invite her to a guest house or hotel thereby making it obvious u jst want to chop and clean mouth.


Even if u dnt want a relationship frm her, treat her like a lady and u will enjoy d dividend

dividend indeed, someone that doesn't believe in marriage, relationships etc

lawnreigh:
dividend indeed, someone that doesn't believe in marriage, relationships etc

U dnt want relationship either, so wats ur own, The dividend u need is her giving u everything ur longing for. Jst treat her like a lady bro

lawnreigh:
Good afternoon fellow nairalanders, there is this young lady that we work together in the same place, she is always over me & I like her as well, we got close to the extent that the rumour of us dating became wide spread among our colleagues, I'm not a type that like keeping friendship with ladies(either we are together or not) but she asked me 1 day that do I like her & I said yes(nit relationship type of likeness but to feel eachother, s*x), she now told me that had she not ask me I won't tell her. I defended myself sha. Each time I persuade her to see outside of work place so that we can have private time together she will always give an excuse(maybe because I always invite her to guest house/hotel) I'm this no time type & further investigation shows that she has a daughter. I want to get her off me because I don't believe in unnecessary friendship with ladies(no disrespect meant) but yet she is always over me & angry when I'm not giving her attention. Nairalanders Plz how can I go about freeing her or How do I go about working things out with her & give her sweet candy?
Note: She ain't relationships type & she once told me she doesn't believe in marriage too

Is not a must you have sex with her, since both of you are colleagues at work, then is normal for you two to be close, you don't necessarily need to have sex with her, just play along just the way she's playing......don't pressurize her for sex, sex isn't everything.

lawnreigh:
Good afternoon fellow nairalanders, there is this young lady that we work together in the same place, she is always over me & I like her as well, we got close to the extent that the rumour of us dating became wide spread among our colleagues, I'm not a type that like keeping friendship with ladies(either we are together or not) but she asked me 1 day that do I like her & I said yes(nit relationship type of likeness but to feel eachother, s*x), she now told me that had she not ask me I won't tell her. I defended myself sha. Each time I persuade her to see outside of work place so that we can have private time together she will always give an excuse[b](maybe because I always invite her to guest house/hotel)[/b] I'm this no time type & further investigation shows that she has a daughter. I want to get her off me because I don't believe in unnecessary friendship with ladies(no disrespect meant) but yet she is always over me & angry when I'm not giving her attention. Nairalanders Plz how can I go about freeing her or How do I go about working things out with her & give her sweet candy?
Note: She ain't relationships type & she once told me she doesn't believe in marriage too

the bolded part all point to one thing, you just want to have sex with her...just let her know cus is a yes or no answer and if you can't tell her then move on or you continue to be her friend with no sex involve and maybe one day she might decide to give in to you or maybe not..

sunnydayasaba:
U dnt have a house or wat, why will u invite her to a guest house or hotel thereby making it obvious u jst want to chop and clean mouth.


Even if u dnt want a relationship frm her, treat her like a lady and u will enjoy d dividend

plz expantiate the bolded.

crotonite:

plz expantiate the bolded.

Its simple, u dnt make its very obvious u want to get her laid, even when she knows what's up. Jst make her feel wanted that's all.

lawnreigh:
hmmm I think it's the best and that's my plans too but she is not making the plan workout by avoiding seeing me outside work place everytime I try to invite her over hmmm I think it's the best and that's my plans too but she is not making the plan workout by avoiding seeing me outside work place everytime I try to invite her over

Fashi hEr matter naaaa!babes plenty!or stage am 4 a Frnds house!claim dt it's ur housE!shE lyk u!and wants somEtin serious wid u!4Gt all thosE rubbish shE tells u!dts just to know aw u feel abt hEr!n she thks u wanna just Bleep hEr nooooo!cuz if she comes your house dts mks a ur gf not a Fling