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Understanding Women:my Perspective by Nobody: 5:24pm On Mar 11, 2016
Warning: This is a long Post
The maxims that comprise the bulk of this article are designed to
educate men on the nature of women, as well as the nature of
themselves in relation to women. Being a loose collection of
maxims, the article is easy-to-read by merit of its broken down
format. I’ve likewise adopted brevity here in the hope that the most
prominent points will stick more easily.
The maxims listed are inclusive, but not exhaustive. As such,
these maxims do not compromise the totality of wisdom available
on this topic. There is far more. With time, I may add additional
maxims or pen a follow-up article.
2.) The Maxims:
IM MAXIM #1: “The tougher the men around her, the softer she is.
The softer the men around her, the tougher she is. The toughest
woman is the fatherless woman, for the fatherless woman seeks a
surrogate by whoring herself.” [See here for more. ]
IM MAXIM #2: “A woman never wants you to need her, only to
want her. The moment your want becomes need – she no longer
wants you.”
IM MAXIM #3: “Women’s love is admiration built upon respect.
Women are drawn to men of experience and power. Man’s love is
respect built upon desire. Men are drawn to women of innocence
and vulnerability. When a woman no longer admires, and a man no
longer sacrifices, love is lost. It is a delicate balance, for respect is
lost when either fails in their capacity. Man sacrifices, woman
admires, that is love.” [ See here for more. ]
IM MAXIM #4: “Women love children how men love women.” [ See
here for more. ]
IM MAXIM #5: “The feminine wants a guardian and the masculine
wants to guard. The problem is, neither can happen without trust.
The sexes have always found it difficult to trust one another, but
courtesy of feminism, they have never trusted each other less.”
IM MAXIM #6: “There is an immutable animosity between
the sexes that serves as the conduit for all distrust. This
animosity flows from the inability of the sexes to reconcile their
fundamentally opposed sexual strategies. For a man’s optimal
sexual strategy to thrive, the woman’s must suffer. For a woman’s
optimal sexual strategy to thrive, the man’s must suffer. Each sex
is determined not to suffer, and so both inflict suffering on
the other in a perverse determination not to suffer themselves; this
is the battle of the sexes, this is reproductive war.”
IM MAXIM #7: “The sexes desire to trust one another, but they
wish to actualise their sexual imperatives far more. As such, trust
is predicated on the degree of one’s control far more than it is any
sense of blind loyalty.”
IM MAXIM #8: “Women are followers, not leaders; they follow
trends, status and power, not a sense of innate loyalty.”
IM MAXIM #9: “The average man is ignorant and misled. His
mental construct of women is far greater than anything the typical
woman aspires to. This is not his fault for his biology deceives him
and society lies to him, as such the deck of deception is stacked.
Nevertheless, the reality remains.”
IM MAXIM #10: “You conflate her beauty with good character.
These things are distinct, but mesmerised by beauty, you think they
are identical.”
IM MAXIM #11: “You have been lied to about the nature of women
all your life, disregard what you think you know because it’s
probably wrong. Ignore the top-down preaching that society
espouses, reconstruct your understanding from the bottom-up.”
IM MAXIM #12: “Cultures have always had a preferred sex. In
some eras, men are celebrated; in others, it is women. There is no
equality in prosperous cultures, only a cooperation where one sex
recognises the superiority of the other. To realise which culture you
live in, ask yourself who it is more acceptable to criticise. The sex
it is least acceptable to criticise is that culture’s preferred sex.”
IM MAXIM #13: “Women aren’t loyal to you, they’re loyal to your
power.”
IM MAXIM #14: “Conventional loyalty implies honour. Honour is a
male abstraction. Female loyalty is predicated entirely on the belief
you are powerful, we will call this opportunistic loyalty. Man can be
loyal in the female sense (opportunistically) or he can be loyal in
the truest sense of the word – sacrificially. In matters of men,
women are capable only of the prior, the latter is reserved for
her children.”
IM MAXIM #15: “Sacrificial loyalty is not predicated on the potency
of one’s power, opportunistic loyalty is fixated on it.”
IM MAXIM #16: “Female loyalty is not loyalty in the truest sense of
the word, for it is far too conditional to be considered such a thing.
The conventional understanding of loyalty demands a bond beyond
an enamour with power.”
IM MAXIM #17: “Opportunistic loyalty is an instrument of
pragmatism, sacrificial loyalty is typically not. Therefore in contrast
to sacrificial loyalty, opportunistic loyalty is something akin to “half-
loyalty.”
IM MAXIM #18: “It is precisely how women love which vitiates
their capacity for loyalty to that of bastardised half-loyalty. A loyalty
dictated by hypergamy rather than honour. A Machiavellian self-
serving loyalty, yes. A noble one, most definitely not; this is reality,
accept it.”
IM MAXIM #19: “All past sacrifice is null and void if your
continued association does not provide her with a tangible benefit.
To simplify: if you cannot help her now, she does not care if you
helped her before.” [See Briffault’s Law ] Refer to Maxims #16-18.
IM MAXIM #20: “Your mother is the only woman who will love you
for you, rather than your power. Corollary: if your mother was a
heartless narcissist, you have never known and shall never know a
woman’s least conditional love.”
IM MAXIM #21: “If you compare a potential love interest to your
mother, your love interest will disappoint you. Corollary: unless
your mother was a narcissist, in which case you will get exactly
what you expect.”
IM MAXIM #22: “Women don’t care about your struggles, only your
successes.”
IM MAXIM #23: “Women want the final product, but successful
men value a woman who was there for the journey. Women detest
risk, so they have the propensity to hold back ambitious men with
their petulant insecurities. Should he become too powerful, she
fears she will lose her monopoly over him. She sabotages him to
secure him, for the crab bucket mentality is intrinsic to women.”
Refer to Maxim #22.
IM MAXIM #24: “As her control increases, her attraction and
respect decreases. As her control decreases, her attraction and
respect increases. If a woman is with a submissive man trying to
become dominant, she will utterly oppose him. She has accepted
he is submissive and so she revels in the power her control gives
her. If he becomes dominant, she loses the power and resources
her monopoly granted her. And she will never forget his old ways,
she will never really believe he is a worthy leader.”
IM MAXIM #25: “The optimised female sexual strategy
compartmentalises the roles of men. We call this female sexual
plurality. Women have a dual nature to control and be controlled,
for their fluidity permits great perversity. With the dominant, she
can satiate her masochism. With the submissive, she can satiate
her sadism. In this way she indulges her lust for power with the
submissive man, and her lust to feel feminine with the dominant.”
IM MAXIM #26 : “If she is with a submissive man, she prioritises
her happiness. If she is with a dominant man, she prioritises his.
With the dominant man, making him happy makes her happy. The
submissive man’s happiness has no such effect, so she deems it
irrelevant.”
IM MAXIM #27: “Women will not go backwards in commitment,
men will not go backwards sexually. Corollary: unless the man or
woman in question has no better options, in which case they will,
with misery . ”
IM MAXIM #28: “Women bargain for control of a man’s
commitment, men bargain for control of a woman’s body.”
IM MAXIM #29: “Work on the presumption that the women you
date are promiscuous. Your inclination will be to assume her
innocence, but you are wiser to assume her guilt.”
IM MAXIM #30: “It is not so much a question of if she is a LovePeddler,
but rather, a question of if she is not.” Refer to Maxim #29.
IM MAXIM #31: “Prudence necessitates one requires evidence of
womanly innocence rather than assuming the existence of such.
The assumption that innocence is an intrinsic feminine quality is an
almost universal tragedy that has cost many men a great deal.”
IM MAXIM #32: “A woman’s truth is whatever she needs it to be. If
the abstract truth does not serve her psyche, a dissociative one will
be manufactured in its place.” [ See here for more. ]
IM MAXIM #33: “Feminism didn’t make women something that
they weren’t, patriarchy and religion did. Man’s governance made
women better, not just for the sake of men, but likewise, for
themselves. Feminism is female self-governance. Such self-
governance has revealed the nature of women to lack a non-
superficial civility. By removing the societal shaming mechanisms
that nurture women to be noble, feminism has exposed the feral
nature of women. Everything that is negative about the female
disposition is thus doubly so under the fist of feminism.”
IM MAXIM #34: “Men must become powerful to be loved; women
and children need only exist.”
IM MAXIM #35: “Men remember being boys. Man has a
lucid perspective in comparing the diminished affection of his
adulthood to the greater bounty of his childhood. Women do not
experience such a significant loss of affection. As such, man is
forced to realise he will never again be loved so profusely, for the
boy gets his fill, but man loves the most to be loved the least. The
profundity of maternal love is longed for, but forever gone. A
girlfriend cannot provide that, and is loathe to do so should a weak
man demand it. This is perhaps the bitterest of all the pills.”
IM MAXIM #36: “Marriage is for women and the lined pockets of
divorce lawyers, not husbands.”
IM MAXIM #37: “Marriage is security for women at the expense of
man’s freedom. Traditionally man was given certain powers to
compensation the increased burden and loss of freedom. He
no longer is.”
IM MAXIM #38 : “Marriage is the only legal contract in existence
that permits a person to violate contractual terms and then
subsequently penalise the party who upheld said terms.”
IM MAXIM #39: “Woman, much unlike man, does not see marriage
as a legal contract or responsibility. She sees it as security, and the
celebration itself, the actualisation of a childhood fantasy.”
IM MAXIM #40: “Some believe marriage is necessary to properly
raise children. In a bygone era, it was. Times have changed.
Feminist legal politics have transmuted what was traditionally an
asset into a liability.”
IM MAXIM #41: “Divorce destroys children. You can’t ruin your
kids with divorce if you never get married to begin with.”
IM MAXIM #42: “Women want to get married because, in the
majority of circumstances, they have everything to gain and
nothing to lose. For you, this is the opposite. Ultra high-net-worth
women are perhaps the exception, that should reveal all it needs
to.”
IM MAXIM #43: “Security and commitment is the female end-
game. Marriage provides this. Marriage fulfils the feminine
imperative by providing a woman her highest desire. The
equivalent end-game for the male imperative is a harem of
beautiful women.
IM MAXIM #44: “If you’re (ever) in an elite social class that
necessitates political marriage, keep the bulk of your assets secure
in a trust fund. This is your security. What isn’t technically yours
cannot be taken from you.”
IM MAXIM #45: “Women are Machiavellian as water is wet.” [ See
here for more. ]
IM MAXIM #46: “Women weaponise sex, for it is their trump card,
and often, their only card.”
IM MAXIM #47: “It is inextricably womanlike to control the
attractive man with sex. When libido wins, she bleeps for pleasure.
When a lust for power wins, sex is rationed like a drug and used to
condition a man with Pavlovian precision”
IM MAXIM #48: “When a woman manipulates a man she does not
find attractive, she does so through feigned frigidity and sex appeal
rather than through sexual act.”
IMMAXIM #49: “It is in a woman’s interest to give deliberately
mixed signals. There is great power in even a potential for sex. As
such, it is in woman’s interest to have men believe they have a
chance. For as long as he believes this, she exercises power over
him.”
MAXIM #50: “If you try to debate with someone whose mind
prefers emotion to reason, you will engage in a grand exercise of
futility that exhausts the patience. As such, do not argue with
women. It is pointless. You cannot argue with feelings, you can
only manipulate them.”.
So Guys let's discuss. Which one is your favourite or which one do you think is wrong

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Re: Understanding Women:my Perspective by Nobody: 5:26pm On Mar 11, 2016
ify told you I read it tell me I'm lying

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Re: Understanding Women:my Perspective by raystar96(m): 5:28pm On Mar 11, 2016
we get fuel scarcity problem already ... u come dy give us headache with this long note....
Re: Understanding Women:my Perspective by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 11, 2016
Try and Read. it won't Kill you

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Re: Understanding Women:my Perspective by geez18(m): 7:04pm On Mar 11, 2016
deep...,quite deep! methinks most of the points made are quite astute. OP,are these your personal findings?
Re: Understanding Women:my Perspective by Nobody: 3:06am On Mar 12, 2016
Very enlightening. Thanks for posting.

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