daretodiffer:


It is fair. asked you because of the statement you made. . I would not have asked if you did not hold such belief.

How would you know that your mature lady is a virgin?

niyi123:


A lady need not lie about her virginity for me, If i discover that she is not, that is the end of the marriage. Because I would not touch her for deceit and I think no lady will want to put herself in such a mess. No lady can fake virginity for me because I am not a baby.

daretodiffer:



Contrary to what people think, not all women find the first sex painful, not all women are not born with hymen, not all women might not even bleed but they will have hymen. If you will be settling down with a mature lady, she might not bleed or she might have a weak hymen which means that you might not feel much.

I am just telling you because I think you feel like you do not know much about virginity. How would you tell if your woman is a virgin when she does not bleed or cry?

If a lady has previously had sex before, I will know that is my point, someone is not having sex doesn't mean one should be novice. Hymen is not the ultimate determinant. Even mere asking some ladies about there previous relationships, if one is observant and very sensitive there is a way one can know.

daretodiffer:


I insist that you cannot know

She could be knowledgeable about the act itself without having sex or engaging in 'dirty' practices.

Also sex is natural, you do not need to be taught to know what you might appreciate

You haven't explained to me how you would be able to tell . I am very curious, Sherlock

niyi123:


Lets leave that for now, I am a researcher but not a leaner, all what it takes to know if a lady has never had a penetrative sex are known to me. That's all. But are you a lawyer? because the way you questioned self.

daretodiffer:


If you know it, you should be able to tell me

Do you have a sixth sense or what?

niyi123:


yes, I don't need to tell you, there was a question that you too refused to answer after I answered mine. Thanks

daretodiffer:

You did because you were obliged to given your opinion concerning the issue. You did not want to sound like a hypocrite which was exactly what I was fishing for .

As for me, you do not need my answers. I haven't expressed my opinion on this issue and giving you an answer does not mean that I am for/against you stand.

niyi123:


That's is good of you, for not against my stand as everyone is entitles to his/her opinion. I thought you are going to sound the way one hypocrite girl that used to contribute a lot on Islamic section, which I thought she might be devoted Muslim not until that day she said ''virginity is lack of opportunity'' but when i questioned her being muslim and saying such she couldn't reply again. If you are not one, you have no right to condemn others. It is just personal purity, worth and dignity.

daretodiffer:

Lol

Pele, did you have a e-crush on her?

niyi123:


Not at all, but I just don't just like such hypocrisy when someone will be quoting a Quran and Hadiths on topics concerning Islamic perspectives, but such person will blind his/her eyes when he/she is doing what is against the teachings of same quran. Rather than to accept not being perfect but trying to justifies his/her silly mentality.

daretodiffer:


okay

niyi123:


Thanks. But I will like knowing you more better.

daretodiffer:


That is not a good idea

niyi123:


Ok. No prob

daretodiffer:


But you need to stop your obsession with women choosing to do what you don't appreciate. It si between them and God. I do not see you attacking men the same way. It is definitely an obsession

niyi123:


I DO NOT ATTACK ANYONE, UNLESS SOMEONE IS TRYING TO FAULTS MY OPINION UNNECESSARILY.

daretodiffer:


Nope!

I went through your posts.

You are always calling out deflowered women

niyi123:



Noted, Thanks. But you too like to faults guys unnecessarily concerning any issues relating to gender, so try and adjust too. Goodnight

daretodiffer:


Not my fault, I don't do it with bias however you do yours with bias just like the ones I attack

niyi123:


I am not a bias person oooo

daretodiffer:
You are