My friend wants to start dating a sickler (SS) course mates of his, back from the uni. To him, he feels pity for the girl anytime he sees her. The babe is even yet to know of his intentions. The dude is even talking marriage too

What should be my advice to him?

Are u sure he juz feel pity for this girl? Then y he is talking abt marriage? Maybe he felt more than that...juz chill & support him.

Love is blind,so they said,...allow em to get marry

Wount you mind your bleeping buisness.

God knows best, but marrying or giving birth to a sickler, hmmm is like fetching water in a basket. My opinion

MzOnajin1:
God knows best, but marrying or giving birth to a sickler, hmmm is like fetching water in a basket. My opinion

Thank you for this. U see beyond now

Thylord:
Wount you mind your bleeping buisness.

My friend and his happiness is my business

If he enjoys her company. If he has something for her. If they understand each other. Then let him effing do it.

There is nothing wrong with marrying a sickler. Except if your friend is also a sickler or has the sickle trait.

This can be confirmed through blood tests.

If he has AA Genotype, he can marry his sickler boo jor. No shaking!

wat is bad in marrying a sickler? highest them go born another sickler

OP, are you male or female??

If you are male, I like you already.

But if you are female, there are two things involved.

Its either you are really concerned about ur friend or you are jealous he's marrying another lady.

If you are concerned about him, I love you already.

But if you are jealous of him and the girl especially......(To be continued)

Everybody deserves some love. be it Sickler ooo, HIV ooo, Ashamatic ooo, cancer patient ooo, etc.


From pity it can be love.


It wasn't their fualt they are sick.


We all need love.

What is your friend's genotype? If it will match the lady's..... Give them your best wishes. Na one thing go lead to marriage. You might think it is pity while it is Love.

There are so many things involved in taking a sickle cell patient as a life partner...

Firstly, your friend must, prior to starting any relationship with the lady, confirmed that he's a AA genotype.

Secondly, your friend must be sure that what she has for the girl is love, not pity. Because if it's pity, he will, in no time, get tired of her (especially when she commits some minor mistakes that could be overlooked).

Thirdly, if he really loves her, he also needs to be super strong. Cos whenever crisis takes over her, her health condition at that time is very critical. And your friend also need to know about SS patients so that he can learn how to live with her effectively.

Last, but not the least, we all crave for partners that we will live and age with. Can your friend cope with that uncertainty? Ask any SS patient, they live their today thinking tomorrow will not come.

If they were meant 2b 2geta, they surely b.. So kip ur calm.. And let God lead.

phetty:
There are so many things involved in taking a sickle cell patient as a life partner...

Firstly, your friend must, prior to starting any relationship with the lady, confirmed that he's a AA genotype.

Secondly, your friend must be sure that what she has for the girl is love, not pity. Because if it's pity, he will, in no time, get tired of her (especially when she commits some minor mistakes that could be overlooked).

Thirdly, if he really loves her, he also needs to be super strong. Cos whenever crisis takes over her, her health condition at that time is very critical. And your friend also need to know about SS patients so that he can learn how to live with her effectively.

Last, but not the least, we all crave for partners that we will live and age with. Can your friend cope with that uncertainty? Ask any SS patient, they live their today thinking tomorrow will not come.

My broda, u ve said it all. Thanks soo much

OP fvck your so called friend. Do ppl with sickle cell tell you they need ur pity ? U Nigerians and the way you patronise ppl with sickle cell

lepasharon:
OP fvck your so called friend. Do ppl with sickle cell tell you they need ur pity ? U Nigerians and the way you patronise ppl with sickle cell

Are u a sickler??

dubemnaija2:


Are u a sickler??

Yes I am a 'sickler '

lepasharon:

Yes I am a 'sickler '

Sorry if what I wrote hurt u