Well my sister comes home yesterday and said she heard a lady in the saloon (which we all know is the best place for gossip) anyways the story goes, a happily married couple the lady got home 1 night and her husbands countenance has changed and she asks his family and him what happened and he said the truth will unravel the next day. So he calls her family members the next day unknown to the wife the husband don pack her load for her and he says i have something 2 show u all and suddenly a sex tape she did with an ex pops on the tv, and her screaming in a falsetto, everybody in tears and she packed her stuff 6 months after marrying the guy and her hubby asked for a divorce. The wife shocked that she didnt know and she gave explanations like the video wasnt clear cos the ex used a webcam 2 record it cos she noticed that the laptop was on the whole time, she didnt know cos she was facing it and the ex's back to the camera( i mean in the height of sexual pleasure how would she).

Her stupid husband sends the videos around his and her office so tey that gateman sef get am and how the husband saw the tape was during a boy's night out and sum1 showed him and all his friends had it on their phone before the wedding and just felt that dat shouldnt define their love and the guy said it did. My point was explaining 2 my sisters and mother that it dont matter cos from the story she did it in university and that was some 5 years ago(i guessed ) and that she's sorry and her ex probably did it 4 some stupid reason and if it was vice versa she would have forgiven him and nobody will ever hear about the video.

Sisters and mum go mad dat i am stupid and dumb dats live on fairytale NL  and 4 the best maybe not check nairaland too much as often as i do  dat i should wake up and smell the coffee dat this is the real world well dey rain insults on me 4 like 5 mins and said wat d guy did served the girl right, and stupid me brought out all our uncles cheating on their wives and their wives love them like white on rice hey another rounds of insults and saying cheating is different from having a sex tape(which is i guess) and events take over bring about the pros and cons of premarital sex and i was irritated so in stormed out i know premarital sex is not good but eveyone forgets her ex set her up.
Anyways my point how do i convince my family dat the lady does deserve a second chance at her marriage and there r worse things in life than a mere sex tape she made like zillion of years ago and also if u were in the guys shoes would u stick or scrambble

P.s pls try not to judge

oh why!
why dont u guys post with simple paragraphs?

oh well, distributing a sex tape is low for whoever
the husband that showed his wife's family before the wife is a fool

Cheating scumbags are not new. . .coming from real-life experiences I have seen myself!

But poster, why can't you just write simple, paragraphed sentences that communicate your points effectively? A few meaningful and structured sentences are far better than half a page of headache-inducing gibberish. C'mon, you can do better!

Kunbee:

Well my sister comes home yesterday and said she heard a lady in the saloon (which we all know is the best place for gossip) anyways the story goes, a happily married couple the lady got home 1 night and her husbands countenance has changed and she asks his family and him what happened and he said the truth will unravel the next day. So he calls her family members the next day unknown to the wife the husband don pack her load for her and he says i have something 2 show u all and suddenly a sex tape she did with an ex pops on the tv, and her screaming in a falsetto, everybody in tears and she packed her stuff 6 months after marrying the guy and her hubby asked for a divorce. The wife shocked that she didnt know and she gave explanations like the video wasnt clear cos the ex used a webcam 2 record it cos she noticed that the laptop was on the whole time, she didnt know cos she was facing it and the ex's back to the camera( i mean in the height of sexual pleasure how would she).

Her stupid husband sends the videos around his and her office so tey that gateman sef get am and how the husband saw the tape was during a boy's night out and sum1 showed him and all his friends had it on their phone before the wedding and just felt that dat shouldnt define their love and the guy said it did. My point was explaining 2 my sisters and mother that it dont matter cos from the story she did it in university and that was some 5 years ago(i guessed ) and that she's sorry and her ex probably did it 4 some stupid reason and if it was vice versa she would have forgiven him and nobody will ever hear about the video.

Sisters and mum go mad dat i am stupid and dumb dats live on fairytale NL  and 4 the best maybe not check nairaland too much as often as i do  dat i should wake up and smell the coffee dat this is the real world well dey rain insults on me 4 like 5 mins and said wat d guy did served the girl right, and stupid me brought out all our uncles cheating on their wives and their wives love them like white on rice hey another rounds of insults and saying cheating is different from having a sex tape(which is i guess) and events take over bring about the pros and cons of premarital sex and i was irritated so in stormed out i know premarital sex is not good but eveyone forgets her ex set her up.
Anyways my point how do i convince my family dat the lady does deserve a second chance at her marriage and there r worse things in life than a mere sex tape she made like zillion of years ago and also if u were in the guys shoes would u stick or scrambble

P.s pls try not to judge 

hmmm, let me see the sex tape then i will tell u what to say

the man is not matured yet,to expose your wife outthere thinking you have done her harm,you are doing yourself.why would the so called bf do such a thing?at list she should have settled the problem with him before living the usless guy. is part of her lesson shaa

post the danm tape lets see before I make my comments.

The husband is a fool.Of course as long as it was 5 years ago.I'll tell her that am f,.King not happy bout it and move on as long as it's not cheating.Plus guys we've had girlfriends and sexmates in the past yet ya feel it's not a problem when it's a woman's it's a different ball game.Well i think the husband is immature sending the video everywhere also it's the reason i don't roll with friends they'll interfere with ur marriage,and share your weed.P.s:everyone has a dark and scary past but not everyone brings that past along with them in the future.The real men no longer exist just the dependent on pple's advice that are around.

I feel 4 d wife, she doesn't deserve that, she was set-up, it happens yrs ago, i don't call that cheating, the so called hubby is a big fool

See how immature some pple r "post the damn tape before making a comment"

pc guru:

See how immature some pple r "post the damn tape before making a comment"

u know!!! so silly

There is one very important question in all this:

WHO HAS A COPY OF THE VIDEO FOR US TO WATCH? 

So having sex with one 5 years ago without meeting your husband-to-be is cheating nice school of thought bet you have a pretty high IQ.@just2nice no mind them

Thor:

There is one very important question in all this:

WHO HAS A COPY OF THE VIDEO FOR US TO WATCH?

Correct question. Who has it?

pc guru:

See how immature some pple r "post the damn tape before making a comment"

@ pc guru

Stop pretending as if that is not what is in you mind.

@ Thread starter: why in all honesty do u seem so particular about this lady and this matter?

or are you the lady in question?

@Caliber

Nice thought and you could be right

@Kunbee

Let's see you in action and then we will be in a better position to give advice

Serves the whoring scumbag right! THIS IS AFRICA!

yeah!!! She surely deserves a second chance, The husband shouldn't have sent her packing, It's not as if she did it after the marriage it was before they got married and morealso she was quite young by then andit was unintentional.

NAIRA LAND IS A PLACE TO RELAX.

basket mouth and co cant do better than nairalanders.

am so having fun, just so y'all know.

anxiously waiting for the next commentator.

Is the tape out?

So the girl loved screaming. She screamed at the sexual pleasure from penile thusts in D video. I guess she screamed when her husband found out. I know she must have screamed when she saw the video. Is she supposed to scream again when she heard the word 'divorce?'
now ladies are gonna be mad at me if i support the guy for kickin the girl out of his life but its reality we are talkin bout here. As for my opinion, the guy was alarmed and became emotionally unbalanced. Its normal but he shoulda kept his cool. We are always subject to blackmails as humans

@ poster,From ur long story its obvious u r the 1 but what the guy did isn't fair and childish, He should have heard ur side of the story before taking such a hash decision afterall it happened 5 years ago,

at poster i understand what the guy did because who knows if she did it while she was supposed to be with the guy or not. Besides all his friends had the video of his wife on their phones talk about embarrasment.

Its easy to crucify the husband and call him "immature" (I guess some people posting here aren't even married), but how many of you posting are sure that if they found

Their sister
Lover
Wifey
Mother of their kids
Confidante of their secrets

Caught on a SEX tape, screaming in sextasy with her ex (Which knowing SOME naija women, he might never knew existed),

How many of you are sure you wouldn't have done worse?

If you see something like that, I swear, you wont act rationally or think rationally,
Theres nothing like "it was in the past", what if your daughter got to see it?

I don't support him distributing the videos, because well, whatever affects the wife would affect him, but how many of you would be rational in that kind of scenario?
Food for thought,

Word!

Gyls need to be careful cuz they will always be the victim in a society like ours (African).
Just a single act that she is not even aware of has turned her into a porn start that she did not earn a cent from.
At the sametime sent her parking from her matrimonial home.

Bottom line dont allow any man film your naked body or take pictures of you.anything can happen tomorrow

No video,No comment.

Maybe the husband was just mad because the man in the video had a bigger penis. LOL. But seriously the man is stupid X 10. The woman should just move on. He even sent it to her job? That is actually a crime. She should not only divorce him but have him arrested

Outstrip:

Maybe the husband was just mad because the man in the video had a bigger penis. LOL. But seriously the man is stupid X 10. The woman should just move on. He even sent it to her job? That is actually a crime. She should not only divorce him but have him arrested

arrested for what? the video wasn't copy righted was it?

It does not matter if it is copyrighted or not. It was illegally obtained and she has already said that it was taped without her consent. Anyone distributing it with this knowledge will go to jail.

I guess it depends on if it is in Nigeria. In which case it is still a crime because it is porn

Outstrip:

It does not matter if it is copyrighted or not. It was illegally obtained and she has already said that it was taped without her consent. Anyone distributing it with this knowledge will go to jail.

I guess it depends on if it is in Nigeria. In which case it is still a crime because it is porn

the guy can not prove that she didnt consent to the public distribution of the tape since he wasnt there when it was made and surely he cant just have her word for it