Hello nairalander, I have a girlfriend and we're both in love with eachother, we've really spent time together and I trusted her... She showed me love that she even surprised me with a big gift last week on my birthday. I thought she would be everything to me so I went ahead and bought her an expensive phone just this week Monday but later that night I realized that she's a cheater and her online bf used to request for nude pics from her so right now I'm so confused and I'm heartbroken cause I can't trust her anymore so I wanted to breakup with her and collect back my phone from her please your advice is needed here.

Depends on what you want.. but we were all raised with the saying that a gift is a gift

What of the ones she gave to you are you going to return it as well? If you can honestly define to yourself the reason you have the gift then it will help you to know if you really need to take it back

excellencyabia1:
What of the ones she gave to you are you going to return it as well? If you can honestly define to yourself the reason you have the gift then it will help you to know if you really need to take it back

excellencyabia1:
What of the ones she gave to you are you going to return it as well? If you can honestly define to yourself the reason you have the gift then it will help you to know if you really need to take it back

the truth is that I hate buying phone for ladies, I've bought her several things but just thinking that this phone I just bought for her would upgrade her cheating level cause her phone camera was bad before, so now she has a new phone.... Just so confused either to let go of it or I should collect it back from her and ask her to get a new phone from her so called online lovers

MemeTroll:
Depends on what you want.. but we were all raised with the saying that a gift is a gift

just confused either to let go of it or to have it back from her

kingteeee:
just confused either to let go of it or to have it back from her

just leave it.. the God that gave you to give her will multiply it

MemeTroll:
just leave it.. the God that gave you to give her will multiply it

Thanks man!

kingteeee:
the truth is that I hate buying phone for ladies, I've bought her several things but just thinking that this phone I just bought for her would upgrade her cheating level cause her phone camera was bad before, so now she has a new phone.... Just so confused either to let go of it or I should collect it back from her and ask her to get a new phone from her so called online lovers

i hope you know both of you are not married yet. And besides why giving out what you can't let go. She is your friend.

excellencyabia1:
i hope you know both of you are not married yet. And besides why giving out what you can't let go. She is your friend.

nice one!

excellencyabia1:
i hope you know both of you are not married yet. And besides why giving out what you can't let go. She is your friend.

Not that I can't let go of it but just thinking she doesn't worth it, since she's a cheater

kingteeee:
Not that I can't let go of it but just thinking she doesn't worth it, since she's a cheater

that is why it is a sacrifice because those that recieves it often are not worth it.

I can't help but pity You... sorry she cheated but it will be childish of you to collect the gift back from her . just let go, the best revenge is moving on.....

ladibright:
I can't help but pity You... sorry she cheated but it will be childish of you to collect the gift back from her . just let go, the best revenge is moving on.....

nice one. Thanks

excellencyabia1:
that is why it is a sacrifice because those that recieves it often are not worth it.

wise word, it's just sad to know that this is the type of girl she is

kingteeee:
wise word, it's just sad to know that this is the type of girl she is

time to change the things that attracts you to the wrong ones so that your good gestures will yield fruit

khristals:
oh it depends.....

can u give back all the sex uve had?

can she give back all the sperm that she recieved?

Leave the phone for her and break up with her

you shouldn't,you can't say you didn't get anything from her so,let it go

golojaban:
you shouldn't,you can't say you didn't get anything from her so,let it go

firstking01:
Leave the phone for her and break up with her

excellencyabia1:
time to change the things that attracts you to the wrong ones so that your good gestures will yield fruit

Big thanks to you all, I really appreciate your advice...

kingteeee:
Big thanks to you all, I really appreciate your advice...

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