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Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by franugo(m): 9:14am On Mar 22, 2016 |
swaggprofessor: no need bros, i would think d op is mature enough at 29 to be able 2 distinguish btw pity n love, |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by dan2976: 9:21am On Mar 22, 2016 |
I am married and hope you don 't only listen but you listen very well. your wife to be is already giving you signs of what she is going to do when she enters your home. please don't be blinded by the love drama being acted out. it will always be cloud your judgement. I have been there. even if she doesn't know how to cook, you will only get to find out after the wedding and believe me you will find out much more. if you decide to be head strong just like me and go on with it. then I will advice you to always pray a prayer I was taught. pray that God should unite both of you body, soul and spirit. why? because if you two function and synchronize as one, then you won't have any problem. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Biafrarep(m): 9:25am On Mar 22, 2016 |
komododragons:I dont concur with you. Op should not try that for his own good!! Anger, aggresiveness & violence work together & the end result is destruction. Out of frustration, I tried to beat my girl one certain time she lost her mind but the experience was terrible, I ended up with three deadly bites on my chest, a shattered standing mirror & worst of all she threatened me with a knife & I had to pick race!! All the neighbours gathered & were shocked at the commotion. As a gentleman, I was thoroughly embarrased yet I love this gal so much. They should go for anger therapy as was suggested. I am facing the same problem with him & I want to marry asap!!! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by fireforfire: 9:25am On Mar 22, 2016 |
APC breaking homea n causing anger issues for decades |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Guyman02: 9:40am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Amhappy: Abeg give us address of an anger management class, everybody says anger management but none has provided any contact. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by georgeobi: 9:49am On Mar 22, 2016 |
mencade5:. Mr man pls run too am talking from experience o, before is too late o 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 9:51am On Mar 22, 2016 |
dear take it easy o... epe ke lenu Hajia? doveda: |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Guyman02: 9:53am On Mar 22, 2016 |
tuscani: The attributes above apply. She is easily angered, dissatisfied, irritated, negative, or resentful. She can find something negative about any event, and she frets and talks most about that. She is not satisfied. She is hardly ever content, seldom your sweet lover, but always irritated and stressed out. My wife has anger problem too, it has really taken a toll on me physically, emotionally, financially, spiritually, I have spent years agonizingly trying to work around it and many times wonder why I had to go into the union. Instead of living home with a kiss and wish for a wonderful day at work, you receive abuse and a frown because she is still resentful of yesterdays argument and this can affect the rest of your day and perhaps your output at work or business. If you think marrying her will change her will be your worst mistake in life. If she doesn't change totally before marriage, then she will not change in marriage except by divine intervention. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Amhappy(f): 9:57am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Guyman02:If you check with therapist you will get one. I did not attend the class just downloaded the manual online ,started reading and practicing. Also bought a book 'Forgetting your past' by Bob gas and Joel Osteen 'Everyday a Friday' |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by AspDrone(m): 9:59am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Left to me I can never roll with hot tempered ladies... They will cut my life short. Even if you told her u want to marry but not until she changes she would chill till you get married and she'll retain her anger..... Madness doesn't leave totally. Love doesn't make me stupid. She doesn't need a gentleman believe me. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by AspDrone(m): 10:02am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Guyman02: I just dey imagine Wat u r going through....... It's a big big temptation. I can't tk much from a disgusting attitude bride o.... I pray for the best bride. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 10:05am On Mar 22, 2016 |
daretodiffer:what the hell are you saying?. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by fortune1968: 10:10am On Mar 22, 2016 |
What are u talking ?She is prayerful, religious ,can cook .Deceit !Balderdash !Somebody who will not control her anger and always invite third party ?Did you read the story of a female lawyer who recently killed her husband in ibadan ? look if u want to dig your grave;go ahead and marry her ! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Tuktuk: 10:10am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Guyman02: All of this agreed. but i have a question though, Who is a Contentious Man/Husband? who is an Angry Husband? |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by toksbisola: 10:11am On Mar 22, 2016 |
@Op; during courtship is a time to decide whether you can tolerate your partners' attitude or not. If you know that you can’t endure a particular attitude during courtship, then address it there and then as it’ll only become worse when you marry. Now let me give you some quotes below to ponder over; here we go; When a relationship becomes one you are enduring; it’s time to walk away When a relationship becomes a violet one; it’s time to walk away When a relationship becomes a selfish one;it’s time to walk away When a relationship makes you unhappy; it’s time to walk away When you become afraid of your partner in a relationship; it’s time to walk away When in a relationship and the apologies comes from only one side; it’s time to walk away When you walk on egg-shells in a relationship; it’s time to walk away Note my words above and I’ll say this finally that be sure to be married to someone who you see as one you can spend the rest of your life with in happiness, love and unity. We are not perfect but we can still make adjustments in our attitude towards our fellow human. I rest my case 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by AspDrone(m): 10:14am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Montaque: You are not a good advisor.... Accommodate hot temper? She has years b4 marriage to mold herself and if he is really gentle and not hot tempered I think it's d lady who is supposed to work on herself or he should flee.... Bro flee |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Lolladey(f): 10:33am On Mar 22, 2016 |
You no get the number of her mumu button? |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by AspDrone(m): 10:34am On Mar 22, 2016 |
komododragons: If na my sister you dey date, a swear I will make you HATE your ideology. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by AspDrone(m): 10:35am On Mar 22, 2016 |
komododragons: If na my sister you dey date, a swear I will make you HATE your ideology. Believe me |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by komododragons: 10:43am On Mar 22, 2016 |
daretodiffer:you crazy. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by tottinova: 10:44am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Wife to be Thank God it's not yet permanent wife. My advice, don't enter into that marriage until you've fixed her. If she is permanently broken, just find a new woman. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by komododragons: 10:45am On Mar 22, 2016 |
doveda:this is what WOMEN always know how to do! talk talk talk and abuse. who will even marry you! have a nice day |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by komododragons: 10:46am On Mar 22, 2016 |
AspDrone:who will even date your baboon sister getaway! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by komododragons: 10:53am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Biafrarep:this world is not for the gentle! why don't you use something to hit her or rather send her parking!. why I'm saying this is because I was once in an abusive relationship similarly to the OP. but at the end I deal with her and she will always remember me on that faithful that. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 10:54am On Mar 22, 2016 |
mencade5: |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by AspDrone(m): 10:59am On Mar 22, 2016 |
What she is following the topic? What if? Mr komodragon abi what is your pathetic name even if it's not my sister you are dating, and I come across you i will still mk u hate your ideology. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 11:20am On Mar 22, 2016 |
franugo:Do you think since I believe prayer works, I would walk into fire and pray not to get burnt? No I would not that would be testing God and I don't fancy doing that |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by shaibu123: 11:31am On Mar 22, 2016 |
She is still a young girl and you are still a young man.But i don't see her changing her temperament very soon,maybe when she is in her 40 's then she will understand this life and start to think twice in some certain things. No matter what you do now,as a you girl she can't understand what anger causes her. But stay with her because you can encourage her to change. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by EmperorTayo1864(m): 11:45am On Mar 22, 2016 |
If u want her,take her as she is nt for who she is |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by kenchop: 11:49am On Mar 22, 2016 |
1. HOLD ON A BIT WITH YOUR PROPOSAL. 2. I FEEL 23 YEARS IS STILL YOUNG AND IMMATURE. 3. CALLING IN A THIRD PARTY IS A DANGEROUS SIGN OF THINGS TO COME. 4. HAVE IT IN MIND THAT IT GETS WORSE AS SHE GETS OLDER, EXCEPT TO LORD CHANGES HER. 5. SHE MAY GRADUATE TO VIOLENCE( HITTING AT YOU OR THROWING OBJECTS AT YOU OR BREAKING ITEMS. 6. IF YOU CANT LIVE WE IT ALL THE LISTED, BROTHER JUST WALK AWAY NOW, COS ITS STILL EARLY DAYS.. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 11:53am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Flee! ( x1,000,000,000,000,000) |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by xtervaganza(m): 12:02pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
She wants to report you to her pastor? Hahahhahahahah Hahahahahahah I hope u won't marry her then make another topic about how your pastor is sleeping woth your wofe? People who involve pastors in their family affairs have no mjnd of their own and are mostly religious donkeys Marry her at your own peril |
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