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Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by NICOGRAVITY: 11:03pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Pray for your wife to be fervently and earnestly, she needs to be transformed by the renewing of her mind. Anger rest in the heart of fools, so the bible says. Let her always say am not a fool each time she is tempted to get angry. She needs assurance and undiluted love from you, she needs help to overcome her past life in the area of family rejection. She must totally forgive her family, then she can be restored. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by zubinike(m): 11:04pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
chocolateme: Sorry ma oh, if this dude is talking about third parties, who are we to him? His families or a greater third party than I thought...the truth is if what he did is worth sharing he wont hesitate to tell us straight. Or stop her from calling whosoever she wanna call. Advice him to use the theory of the thump...He should desist from what he knows could ring an alarm in his home. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by komododragons: 11:04pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
x240:which NAIJA WOMEN will agree that she has a mental disorder? thank you for this statement! you said the truth and many won't agreed. if you can't handle a woman, she will handle you. show her that you are the man! do beat her on occasional basic but not always. she will calm down by force |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by echodrum(m): 11:05pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
This lady is the type every man needs. Religious, good cook, prayerful and she gives me advise on so many occasion. isn't it funny If that is the case why are you seeking for second opinion?? Knowing how to cook and being religious is not a criteria for a good wife. What kind of advice does she gives to you when she can not even take your own advice?? Yet she is too religious. And by the way what did bible say about anger?? Lol. Well brother, if u are not the type that have what it takes to tolerate her temperament, you better hold your brake and think twice. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Gaskia: 11:05pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Bros, a hot tempered woman is a time bomb in marriage. Either she changes or shows genuine sign of self recognition and willingness to change OR you increase your patience level or vow to yourself to stand anything that comes out of it before you say I do. Very few know the danger of high temper in a relationship...could be worse than infidelity at times. Its a recipie for violence, broken home, distrust, disrespect, hate, and many others. Above all, pray and watch. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by stagger: 11:05pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
mencade5: Brother, you will see plenty with these qualities minus the anger. Whatever you see now will be multiplied in marriage. Some of us have been in this dance for years so you can take my advice to the bank. You better pull out of that relationship because one day, the provocation may be too much and you may use physical force. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by krak101(m): 11:06pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
mencade5:well go through her surest third party n plead with him/her to advise her to always iron things out first with her hubby. If it doesn't work out then they both can mutually bring in a third party. Am sure those third parties she's always running to have their own problems |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
What kind of a pastor will always come inbetween two ppl who are dating . 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by godoluwa(m): 11:08pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
mencade5:marriage is a life contract & you will regret any silly mistake that you made today. shes still a kid considering her age bt if u gve her ur manhood, she wont turn her ear to you that you should put your thing inside it which means she knws right frm wrong. let her realize that you dnt want a family that will be driven by 3rd party, she must also make amendment about her anger. a woman stabbed her husband to death out of anger around february this year in ibadan. if you cant tolerate her anger & shes not ready to change, let her go her way. never marry a woman out of sympathy. be warned! |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by zubinike(m): 11:09pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
travelxpat: You deserve cold big stout..... And 4mac Donald's hot dog. Well spoken bro |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by hansad: 11:09pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
yinkslinks: ..... and you; another angry fellow; didn't they teach you from the Bible not to call the name of thy Lord in vain? |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Neverquit: Jesuzzzzz! You are very wicked! U see babe wey dey rant with her mouth alone and you are telling the OP to recommend martial art for her? So his teeth will disappear within few year of marriage |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by eagleccentric(m): 11:12pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
You wan marry woman with anger issues?? I pity you, dats all!!! Worst thing a woman can ever have is a hot temper. Pls bro, don't go down dat road. Abeg 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by SAEJO: 11:15pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
She should fast and pray for God to deliver her of that evil demon and you should join in the fast, she should go for deliverance in a very strong church |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by muller101(m): 11:17pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Op run way. Last warning. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by sokera: 11:18pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
x240:thank you ... Picked mine from your lines |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Neverquit(f): 11:19pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Omg! The training will not be directed @ him. Those classes actually teach self control...you're funny though. ilawanson44: |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by alizma: 11:21pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
markone and others had said a lot that I believe are enough to guide u on your next step. having said that, I want you to understand that whatever is enticing you now will not keep the relationship if not her character and I don't mean her character when the going is good but her character during those tough time of every marriage. that period when you seems to have every reason except character, to tell each other u had made wrong choice marrying each other. will there be inner beauty to look at when physical beauty is gone? I don't mean to scare you, spend sometimes reading post at crime forum you will discover that most people that injured or even killed their partners did such out of anger and only realise the weight of their action later. hold the proposal thing for now and try to solve the problem on ground first. most importantly, be less emotional because marriage is not a child's play, it is a life time commitment not 5yrs project. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by kaziblake(f): 11:21pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
So because of ordinary temper issue you are thinking of changing your mind? Marry her I bet she will change. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
komododragons:why beat any woman. Any relationship ur in dat involves beating is unhealthy. Any man that beats a woman is an excuse for a man |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Mrbigman1(m): 11:22pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Ginaz: Sorry. U can have my shoulder for the time to lay on. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Mrbigman1(m): 11:24pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
kaziblake: What re u betting with? |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Neverquit: Hmmm! I doubt it o....one day, she may look for "human target" and husby is likely to be victim |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by menix(m): 11:25pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Some guyz dey try oooo.. Person see hell fire nd still contemplating playing with it... Guy, if she is behaving like this now, I wonder what u will see when u re both married.. She will slap u publicly, disgrace you nd be sure she will also be married to her pastor nd her friends will be her Special advisers.. Well continue, I won't discourage you cous she is a virgin nd you ve small penix.. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Rotab4life: 11:26pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Hmmm anger is a bad thing and will probably get worse when u marry her. Deal with it now or move on to avoid stories that touch. It might lead to violence if not curtailed |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by eenai(m): 11:26pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Bros can't you find a calm girl that is compatible with you, that is simple at heart always take things easy with you believing that she is save in ur hands and trust you? see forget all these 'she is prayerful and godly' someone that show that level of anger at a small issue should be a no no. don't say you were not warned. complex ladies are better avoided cos you will end up regretting. just my thoughts. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by Rotab4life: 11:27pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
alizma: |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by SkinnyDude(m): 11:28pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
mencade5 where have you been? welcome back bro |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by kaziblake(f): 11:29pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Mrbigman1:Nothing but she will change. |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by patiencezee(f): 11:29pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
This op can lie ehhhnn... Stop telling false stories abeg |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by ifihearam: 11:29pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Oga..i am going through thesame situation right now..my own even destroys properties sef...that for sure i know i cant marry because 2 mad people cannot be in the same house....they might be good and loving but when offended the cant calm down nd spark like a tigress...some of you said talk to her and anger management class what if she subsides the anger and after marriage say after 2 kids the thing returns nkor? what to to...oga there is nothing like a humble nd quiet woman who does not get angry easily oooooo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by vislabraye(m): 11:32pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
mencade5: What's the point being religious but so wild ? If you know you can't tolerate her attitude, it's best you call it quit. No one is perfect but there are certain qualities you can manage. Be careful so that we don't hear your story in "snap: women who kill" or "wives with knives". Btw, does she apologise for her actions ? Does she think she's always right ? These are important questions to think about. 1 Like |
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