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A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by mcvaeey(m): 10:50am On Mar 25, 2016
This is NOT a female bashing topic. It's just one of those things we have to discuss. If you read this write-up and it makes no sense to you, then it's just one of those things we are talking about.

So many low IQ ladies will rain curses on me but who cares ? We are NOT only here to make fun and crack jokes, sometimes we need to hurt people's feelings by saying the truth

Though my write-up sounds like bashing but if you are wise enough, you should sieve the bashing, pick the sense in it and make adjustment if you are guilty of charge.

Take it or leave it, many 9ja ladies are rude, proud, pompous, arrogant and disrespectful yet they want the best men for themselves. Characters endowed ladies ladies now seem to be as scarce as diamonds and the moment one comes across our way, we hold firmly onto them because they are rare gems

There's actually no reasonable point to justify why a guy should beat a lady but many ladies seem to take advantage of the fact that it's a taboo on the land to beat a lady. Can you just imagine my elder brother missed his steps and mistakenly stepped on a lady in the lecture room and before he said "sorry" she registered a slap on his face. I mean "whatdafck is that?" Yet these same ladies are quick to refer to guys who retaliate as being foolish, bastard, women hater and all that

Even our virgin ladies who always claim they are blessings to humanity are not exempted from these lackadaisical attitudes.

Without wasting your time, let's analyze the reasons why many of them are ill-mannered

Just take a deep breadth and relax cool

Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-Mannered

1. Upbringing
She was probably brought up in such a way that her parents always supported her and wanted her to be on the right side even when she was wrong. Her neighbour corrected for wrong doing but she went to her mom and reported, her mom tooker her to her neighbour and warned him/her never to correct her daughter even if her action warrant correction. **That is where it starts from**

2. She Has So Many Suitors
YES !!! This is common among our teenagers. 80% become disrespectful and ill-mannered the moment men of different species of your age start stalking them. Someone that grew up in your presence will suddenly stop holding conversation with you because people older than you are stalking her. Many at times, she talks to people older than her without any regard

3. I Don't Care What People Say Attitude
I personally detest ladies with this attitude and try as much as possible to refrain from them. Her friends, school mates, hostel/villa mates keep complaining about her but she wouldn't just turn a new leaf. She snatches the boyfriend of her friend and she wouldn't even show any sign of remorse. She"s like, "I don't care what people say"

4. 1 Don't Take Nonsense Attitude
This attitude most times lead them to their husbands' house and the reason why they end up messing up the family not knowing that there would be a particular stage in your life when you have too take, eat and bath with that nonsense you don't want to take . She doesn't want to take poo from mother-in-law, Sister-in-law, neighbours and church members. When it comes to abusing people, you can never win her because her mouth sharp like razor. Where will this attitude take you?

5. Educational Achievement
She is privilege to attend one of the reputable university/polytechnic in the country, then what happens ? PRIDE begins. She starts raising shoulders to old time friends and neighbours because she wants to show class and Behind-ness making other people feel intimidated

6. Beauty
I won't deny the fact that many pretty ladies are dumb and ill-mannered. Many pretty ladies are ill-mannered probably because of the chase and compliments they receive everyday which seems to becloud their right sense of reasoning. When a lady is beautiful coupled with good characters, she is seen as a treasure

7. She's A Gold Digger
In as much as she has the components of gold digging in her veins, ill-manner will automatically follow.

8. Her Father Is Rich
She was born with a silver spoon, therefore, she refrains herself people that comes her way because she is full of herself. She makes it look she doing a great favour talking or associating with people

9. She's Adamant To Correction
You can't just correct her. A white man says " A fool is always right on his own path"
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by jaymejate: 10:59am On Mar 25, 2016
[size=18pt]Technically, it means your mom is there too[/size]
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by mcvaeey(m): 11:03am On Mar 25, 2016
jaymejate:
[size=18pt]Technically, it means your mom is there too[/size]
you're such a fool and that's why you'll never account to anything good in life.

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Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by thesicilian: 11:05am On Mar 25, 2016
For most girls (they don't actually deserve to be called 'ladies') it is a combination of all the reasons above.
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by halfricanadian(f): 11:05am On Mar 25, 2016
Well i'm not a saint i'm only human

But d girl dat slapped ur broda is a very very foolish girl

Do u kno ow many people hurt me yet i av never laid a finger let alone touch them undecided dat girl go beat her hubby trust me
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by jaymejate: 11:08am On Mar 25, 2016
mcvaeey:
you're such a fool and that's why you'll never account to anything good in life.
I swear, i didn't mean it that way.
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by Cutehector(m): 12:14pm On Mar 25, 2016
Lord knws i"d neva settle for an ill mannered woman!
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by Marinza(m): 12:23pm On Mar 25, 2016
Any girl that hits me ceases to be a girl in my books, she becomes a fellow man, a beast and a threat and it's only logical I do all in my power to neutralize that threat. That girl that slapped your bro is very silly. I don't even know how I would react in that situation.

Yes some girls are capable of bringing out the height of evil in any man but then again society supports their ecxeces. Lord help any man that marries a feminist, I guess it comes with the package, it's an evil necessity.

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Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by chriskosherbal(m): 1:28pm On Mar 25, 2016
To a large extent you are not wrong but there are still some good ones out there.
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by ettaetta(m): 1:39pm On Mar 25, 2016
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by agriboom: 2:05pm On Mar 25, 2016
jaymejate:
[size=18pt]Technically, it means your mom is there too[/size]

Guy! What's wrong with you? angry

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Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by jayloms: 4:27pm On Mar 25, 2016
Girls can be really touchy and unpredictable a times. I never stand with a girl when she's ranting and I've advised my buddies to do same.

I have actually seen a girl slap a guy once. It happened really fast but I caught her right in d act. It happened in d car park of the rowdiest faculty in my Alma mater.

Now, on a normal day that car park is d true definition of rowdy cause people keep moving either to d back gate, which leads to an off campus settlement or towards their faculties to receive lectures. Then there are those who come to d park to relax with friends/baes/boos on the steel made chairs positioned under the almond trees at different locations around the car park.

If I remember vividly, they were like three (2 girls and a guy). I was chatting with a pretty girl seated beside me when my eye caught them moving in a way that suggested they were tryna bring a squabble under control and right before our very eyes (myself and d girl I was now chyking), this particular girl landed a dirty slap on d nigga's cheek.

Apparently, we weren't the only ones who saw it, as a guy just exclaimed in pidgin "chisos! da girl land da guy now now o!", pointing his buddy to d direction.

Mehn!! that day I really felt embarrassed for d nigga cause it appeared more ppl saw it compared to those who missed it. We all just watched them anticipatorily as they headed for d back gate. And from d nigga's countenance, you could see a gentle rage under control as he lagged behind d girls.

That event became d subject of discourse between I and d pretty babe beside me. And I must confess, I enjoyed every bit of that convo with her, same way I enjoyed...............afterwardscheesy

But seriously girls, y'all need to get your tempers in check.
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 25, 2016
halfricanadian:
Well i'm not a saint i'm only human

But d girl dat slapped ur broda is a very very foolish girl

Do u kno ow many people hurt me yet i av never laid a finger let alone touch them undecided dat girl go beat her hubby trust me

In your opinion if he retaliated would he be in order?
Just asking
no right or wrong answer
Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 25, 2016
# yawn. undecided




Okay

Noted




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Re: A MUST READ: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-mannered by Mskrisx(f): 4:50pm On Mar 25, 2016
jaymejate:
[size=18pt]Technically, it means your mom is there too[/size]



What do u want as a gift for Easter? This post removed the frown I had on my face after I reading the op's post.

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