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What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 9:33am On Mar 26, 2016 |
I have heard many ladies use these words and i really want some ladies to clear the air on this matter. Its amazing that some ladies juxtapose staying with a struggling guy with doing him a favour and I tend to wonder why this is so. I believe that a lady should be with a man because she wants to regardless of whether he eventually hit it big In life. I once dated a lady and each time i gave her what i can afford she will quickly say"im struggling with you now o and nobody is seeing it" and i try hard to remember if we went out together to hustle. So the question is;when a lady says "i was there for him when he had nothing" please what exactly does she mean? 1..Does it mean she stood by him by actively contributing to his life by bringing him food or food stuffs,by giving him her money or helping him in one way or the other materially or monetarily? or 2.Does she mean she remained his bae when he was struggling and suffered with him by drinking the little garri he managed to buy with the little stipends he gets or because she usually collects the little he gives to her from the very little money he fortunately makes from his hustle. Please ladies i really need to know your definition of being there for a man in times of struggles Over to you ladies. 61 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by YorubaWoman: 9:37am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Aimoye ojo to ti ro Owo to ti wo gbo Provision rira nipa pe keyan na le contributu Gbogbo nkan teyan nse, ise oluwa ni Boowu ko gbori duro Bi pe eyan n fun onibaara lowo ati awon alaini ni o se je semi I don't say 'boowu e ko gbori duro, oun leyan ba e jiya yi' No no no, eniyan nrin oun sowo nu 44 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Nobody: 9:38am On Mar 26, 2016 |
For me its both 4 Likes |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Michellla(f): 9:39am On Mar 26, 2016 |
it means she stood by him by actively contributing to his life by bringing him food or food stuffs,by giving him her money or helping him in one way or the other materially or monetarily 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by magicalBae(f): 9:39am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean. A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding. U suffered with him b'cos *u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ? *u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ? *u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit? * u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!! U're nothing but a liability to him. 289 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Baseverb(f): 9:39am On Mar 26, 2016 |
It can be both ways 1 Like |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 9:40am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Michellla: I totally second this. 2 Likes |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Nobody: 9:42am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Oyah, ladies |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 9:43am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Baseverb: How can? 1 Like |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 9:49am On Mar 26, 2016 |
adepeter26: What is your own definition? I would have asked lalasticlala his own definition but the guy dey vex me these days and to even write another OP name sef heavy me for hand.The guy don use oturumopo for me but GOD pass am. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Omotayor123(f): 9:51am On Mar 26, 2016 |
It means she was there for him in his trying moments. According to a Yoruba adage :"The presence of people in your life is worth more than any money". Being lonely kills faster than being poor! 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by tosyne2much(m): 9:52am On Mar 26, 2016 |
In as much as I'm not a relationship expert like oga Toks2008, lemme try to say something too. Nigerian ladies are brought with the ideology that it's a taboo for a woman to provide a man's needs nor get acquainted with a man that is passing through trying times. Most ladies believe that, in as much as they are dating you as a broke dude, you are ungrateful if you end up dumping their ass. However, some of them many not even the qualitied of a virtuous woman but for the fact that they dated you asa broke dude, they might even consult a native doctor or strip unclad raining curses on the guy when you later fail to marry them. 49 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Bluezy13(m): 9:55am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:It depends on the girl's perspective of your relationship 1 Like |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Mznaett: 10:00am On Mar 26, 2016 |
IT SIMPLY MEANS SHE WAS THERE FOR HIM FULL STOP 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 10:00am On Mar 26, 2016 |
tosyne2much: No worry, i go soon marry now and i no go get time to dey write for nairaland again when i dey less busy because i will have a new website to browse and write serious practical articles on. For now you guys should just bear with me. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by jimmyolasun: 10:01am On Mar 26, 2016 |
No you getting it wrong. The phrase "I was there for him" simply mean that whenever he asks for "it" I give it without hesitating. Even if I'm miles away, I rush down just to satisfy his crazy urge... *guess I nailed it* 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Henrypraise: 10:03am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Dat line wen used genuinely is meant to make a man rethink n try to influence a man's actions. Sum ladies av bin around during tyms of sickness, legal/ police problems, et all trials. Most naija girls use it as a tool of manipulatin guys. Especially guys in d friendzone, immediately d guy hammer big, most naija babes go be like: I was dia for him wen he had notin, Infact we were an item but now, see how he is treating me. Lol. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Taiwo20(m): 10:04am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Maybe It means she attends PTA meetings for you....... No woman can tell me she was there for me o....women wey no dey gree spend money....if them spend them go collect am,one way or the other and still make reference to that later..... Those species no fit help except if the are our mothers, wives or sister. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Thylord(m): 10:04am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Beware of Gold diggers. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 10:05am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Omotayor123: Oro sunuku @ the embolden letterings. Nevertheless i believe the one who really deserves more respect is the one who makes physical contribution to his life and not the one who was a burden on him regardless. Its so unfortunate that many ladies who claim they were there for a man fall into the second category which makes it so annoying. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 10:06am On Mar 26, 2016 |
jimmyolasun:you don kolo 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 10:09am On Mar 26, 2016 |
magicalBae: u sure ur a girl 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by oglalasioux(m): 10:11am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Being there for a man is beyond material or sexual provision. For me a woman who I'll regard as being there for me is that woman who didn't look down on me when I failed at something but encouraged me to move on. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Nobody: 10:14am On Mar 26, 2016 |
tosyne2much:Dats jst it. #finish 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by jimmyolasun: 10:14am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:yea sure.. A bae can't say she hustled my money for me or a link to me making doe. so I guess dats the only part they played in the hustle.. So.... |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by magicalBae(f): 10:16am On Mar 26, 2016 |
EnigmaticEnigma: Yea... that's don't depend on any guy to have a good life. 5 Likes |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 10:23am On Mar 26, 2016 |
magicalBae: LOBATAN! Coming from a lady 3 Likes |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Nobody: 10:23am On Mar 26, 2016 |
It simply means she is dating the guy out of pity and shame with a consolation he will be the next Zuckerberg..... Or she actually saw the relationship as an investment for the future and on pay day won't want to go empty....... E no fit pass this two, girls na lie.. 7 Likes |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by NiRfreak(m): 10:25am On Mar 26, 2016 |
It means she provided a steady pvvssy when no other woman will endure giving him cos of his hardship/poverty 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by Toks2008(m): 10:26am On Mar 26, 2016 |
tosyne2much: Me and |
Re: What does a lady mean when She Says "I Was There For Him" by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 10:28am On Mar 26, 2016 |
magicalBae: That's what's up! I really don't like it when girls you barely know (like under a year), start asking for stuff. Such a turn off |
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