i luv my fiancee so much n working towards to marry her,bt am afraid n uncomfortable cos she can lie,keep secret n very selfish.i luv this girl bt afraid,pls i need mature minds here,how can i change her

If she's unselfish, how's that a bad thing?

Yepa

Unselfish in what terms

Wait...she can lie.?? As in she tell lies Alot Save your life.

A chronic lying spouse is suicide.
After reading this, please delete her number and go for Thanksgiving.

wait ooo,is being unselfish bad?

my i dont need apc kind of change,i need a real change

She could be lai mohammed's daughter..you better run for your dear life and thank me later..!

What is ur own definition of unselfish?
Being unselfish to me is not an issue 2b scared of.

A Liar? Selfishness? Mehn! That's too bad. Your marriage go suffer like Nigeria.

afripope:
i luv my fiancee so much n working towards to marry her,bt am afraid n uncomfortable cos she can lie,keep secret n very selfish.i luv this girl bt afraid,pls i need mature minds here,how can i change her

you cnt change people, you can only succeed in making her comform to ways you want her to be which with time she 'll return to her vomit...for people to leave a certain way of behaviour, it has to do with persnal conviction, so, you either manage her or let her go, or pray to God to change and convict her for you.

afripope:
i luv my fiancee so much n working towards to marry her,bt am afraid n uncomfortable cos she can lie,keep secret n very selfish.i luv this girl bt afraid,pls i need mature minds here,how can i change her

u don't need any mature mind...u need to get out of infatuation and move on....

Why your gf carry all bad attributes like this, naa only she? Your case is kinda strong.. Lemme consult inner mind cuz am sure she might be cheating also.. Well think man, think!

let me consult ogugu i will be back......

She LIES

she keeps SECRETS

shes very SELFISH.

yet you wanna marry her. My brother, God gave us brain to reason and not for decoration