Lets talk about it is simply an avenue to ease ur mind off mind bugging issues...see peoples suggestion...and probably people who have faced similar issues

A lot of fairy tale books have inscribed tall dark and handsome as criteria for hooking up and getting married..but is dat gud enough?

Wat i do is think of it

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Ok

KweenSisan:
A lot of fairy tale books have inscribed tall dark and handsome as criteria for hooking up and getting married..but is dat gud enough?

Well, those qualities are just bonuses if they are available but they are FAR from good enough. What is TDH if he is not mature or stable emotionally, financially, can't defend, love, care etc for his family?

I'd like to think of fairy tale qualities as representing abilities than mere looks......only shallow minds limit themselves to looks

KweenSisan:
Lets talk about it is simply an avenue to ease ur mind off mind bugging issues...see peoples suggestion...and probably people who have faced similar issues

:-/

when ladies start focusing on wat is within then they will have less problems to deal with in marriage

KweenSisan:
A lot of fairy tale books have inscribed tall dark and handsome as criteria for hooking up and getting married..but is dat gud enough?

Why do ladies always fantasize over the Tall Dark Handsome Men? "Dark" in particular. Is there a particular stuff that makes Dark men attractive?

learning sha...

I love a girl bt i cant tell her i love her simply because i am so scared of getting a NO and mostly loose wat we got going on has friends

Nturguy1122:
I love a girl bt i cant tell her i love her simply because i am so scared of getting a NO and mostly loose wat we got going on has friends

Are you really sure its the fear of rejection holding you down? Or the fear of yourself; Doubting if you're good enough?

pinceprinz:

Are you really sure its the fear of rejection holding you down? Or the fear of yourself; Doubting if you're good enough?

Really i think its the fear of being rejected cos i've been with more beautiful girl bt bro u knw hw love happens nw..i've been friends with her for 8 months now and we talk everyday

pinceprinz:

Are you really sure its the fear of rejection holding you down? Or the fear of yourself; Doubting if you're good enough?

Really i think its the fear or rejection

Nturguy1122:
Really i think its the fear or rejection

Really i think its the fear of being rejected cos i've been with more beautiful girl bt bro u knw hw love happens nw..i've been friends with her for 8 months now and we talk everyday

Nturguy1122:
Really i think its the fear of being rejected cos i've been with more beautiful girl bt bro u knw hw love happens nw..i've been friends with her for 8 months now and we talk everyday

. Being rejected is part of living. Don't fear it, Live it and feel how it feels lol. That's the bottom line

pinceprinz:
. Being rejected is part of living. Don't fear it, Live it and feel how it feels lol. That's the bottom line

i swear u dnt knw wat this 20words has done in my life..tnx brov

Nturguy1122:
i swear u dnt knw wat this 20words has done in my life..tnx brov

Aww! I'm flattered!!!

I av a male friend i am very comfortable with,we've been friends for a very long time ...I don't av to look gud when am with him,sometimes we eat together(like eba ,garri etc)..But he just asked me out and since then i av not been comfortable anymore....Don't know y?

This is what i always say...a man shouldn't be scared of getting a no from a lady...you know...truth be told..in as much as we claim to be strong..and are strong...women are weak in some spheres..and she has a lot of fears just as u do...you know what..u being scared of a 'NO' is even little...a woman may tell u no..if she thinks u are not the best for her...i.e..not what she wants for her self..and if she is scared..or uncertain of the future..or if she is not ready to be commited...either ways..the problem is not yours..all i can tell u is build your self and your confidence...she says no..plz dnt impose..if u can maintain d friendship..plz do..if its too difficult to..just give her a little distance..till u are over it...funny enough there are people who told their current husbands a whole lot of 'NO's'..but today...they are married...big ups man..if ure an asset and not a liability...'No' shudntaffect you so much...and from a personal point of view..pray for u and pray for her too..besides everything should work out for your good if you love God..b confident man..dats it

KweenSisan:
Lets talk about it is simply an avenue to ease ur mind off mind bugging issues...see peoples suggestion...and probably people who have faced similar issues

KweenSisan:
Lets talk about it is simply an avenue to ease ur mind off mind bugging issues...see peoples suggestion...and probably people who have faced similar issues

...ain't gooono ask but pliss change your color to lightskin yellow...you have 2week!

Yemoxi sweedy..settle the issues in your heart...most times...whomever a man spends time with..thats whom he ends up loving...and i do not blame him at all if he has fallen in love with u..but as u know..luv is a feeling..so chek him out..and chek u out...sweedy...its not compulsory u must marry the person u date...sometimes..the person u are dating is only in your life to prepare u for the person u will marry...so there...is dis guy cool?..are u ready?..do u want it?..does God want it?..plz..if u've answered positively to this...just act like the doubts aint there and give it a go..and from my own personal point...dnt stop being who u've always been..i mean..the lady he has fallen in luv wit..all the best

KweenSisan, you have too much sense. Your words to f advise are on point. Keep it up.

Leaving relationships a little..wanna hit on personality ...Tim lahaye in his book says we have the sanguine..the choleric..the phlegmatic and the melancholic temperaments...from constant study of good books...have learnt that most great men/women are not loud talkers...as a matter of fact..statistics show that cholerics fare more as leaders...so then...if we seem to cling to this temperament thing so seriously..because have heard people give excuses like..'it's my nature'...so how can an extroverted person handle leadership...being so much of a TALKATIVE...in simple English...is it alright to be a talkative..and continue being a talkative because you feel thats who u are??
To butress this question..i'll tell a short story...one day..sometime in school..we had this tutorial that lasted for nearly three hours..and there was just dis girl behind us talking to her two friends...i tell u the girl talked for the whole 3 hours...talkinq and demonstrating and laughing...not minding dat we were having tutorials and her voice was on the high side..i was quite upset...because at a point i realised her friends were no longer intrested in her gist..but she just went on and on and on..and wasn't sensitive to that...my friend said i was judging her...and i said it wasnt right to talk that much..but my friend started it off with me saying it was her personality..and that made it right in the girls head..plz o my people...because u r mister sparky sanguine..or extroverted..does it main we cnt make our weaknesses become a strength..i mean..Tim talked about the holy spirit temperament didnt he??..wats ur take on this abeg?

Been waiting for ur repliessss....whats keeping itt?#eyes blinking..

Am i the only one who is trying to know why i'm here...walks outa thread with his head and shoulder high

yemoxyl:
I av a male friend i am very comfortable with,we've been friends for a very long time ...I don't av to look gud when am with him,sometimes we eat together(like eba ,garri etc)..But he just asked me out and since then i av not been comfortable anymore....Don't know y?

Why?

Why else? Because you don't have sense. A guy who has made you his priority seeks to have greater access to your heart and you're not comfortable? No sense at all.

Swithrt...dere are better ways to talk ayy...humans have feelings..dnt tamper with them..

Nice words kweensisan..

firstking01:
Am i the only one who is trying to know why i'm here...walks outa thread with his head and shoulder high

i dnt understand this thread....

juhan:
i dnt understand this thread....

so confusing