Nixiepie:
ignored

Memejem:
I need the statistics to your waste facts please. It is nothing more than an opinion. Have you met all the married couples in the world to know thier finances before marriage?

Facts only please. Stop with your stenimentality.

Nixiepie:
Had this argument with my dad,and he said is a taboo for him to live in a house built by his wife,so I really want to find out why this decision of a woman to build a house is a crime against humanity............ Plz I need more opinions thanks

menix:
Abeg I get 1 queshion..

Will her name be inscribed on the building for public to see

If NO, who gives a fork about the builder..

Once had a female colleague, who has 3 building in lagos nd she lives with his husband peacefully in one of the house she built....

Itaarh:


Compare to folorusho Alakinja

Naomite:

Well, I won't blame her, maybe that's the way she is been brought uup from her home, that wemen can not achieve anything on there own without the help of or contributions of a man!

I was brought up 2 understand that what a man can do a woman can do better and also women shod b treated equally in social economic chain and every sphares of life

Mindfulness:


I think you need some education first. If you think that all major tribes require of wives to include their husbands' names in their properties, then you know very little.



Who was talking of buying a property in the wife's name? And who told you that many men can afford more than one house?

Memejem:
Nigerian men and thier wahala. If a woman doesn't build house she must hear him say "under my roof" "in my house" "I built this with my hard earned money" "you didn't contribute to this"

The woman goes and builds house, some will now say she is an enemy of progress against tradition. If she built it why must the house be in his name? Una never happy. If your wife builds a house it's "our house". But if man builds house its "his" house abi?

Marriage includes both parities. I don't see it as a bad thing. But only a cultured and educated Nigerian man will accept it. If a wife builds a house it's "thier" house. If husband builds a house it's "thier" house. Simple.

House building doesn't take away respect, or submission. That character. Nothing to do with structure.

Nixiepie:
Had this argument with my dad,and he said is a taboo for him to live in a house built by his wife,so I really want to find out why this decision of a woman to build a house is a crime against humanity............ Plz I need more opinions thanks

Valeree:
so many things were a taboo for no reason during old days, things has changed now so there's nothing wrong with that. so far the wife still has all the respect for her hubby.

spill:
For me I don't see anything wrong living in a house built by your humble, respectful and well cultured wife.

But for the selfish wife without manners please don't live in a house built by her, because she will always frustrate your life with the "this house is my hard earned money", forgetting that wives are helpmates to their husbands.

ShakurM:
Yes I can, if it's in my name

ibedun:


True! I have daughters but you may not find happiness. Very few men will date a woman who have surpassed them in life. It is extremely destructive to a man's life.

spill:
For me I don't see anything wrong living in a house built by your humble, respectful and well cultured wife.

But for the selfish wife without manners please don't live in a house built by her, because she will always frustrate your life with the "this house is my hard earned money", forgetting that wives are helpmates to their husbands.

menix:
Abeg I get 1 queshion..

Will her name be inscribed on the building for public to see

If NO, who gives a fork about the builder..

Once had a female colleague, who has 3 building in lagos nd she lives with his husband peacefully in one of the house she built....

NigerianScholar:


If your wife is linda ikeji
Bros. B honest o

Kazrem:

I will live there, eat there, sleep with her there, impregnate her there even spend together the rent she collects from tenants if there are.

Memejem:
Nigerian men and thier wahala. If a woman doesn't build house she must hear him say "under my roof" "in my house" "I built this with my hard earned money" "you didn't contribute to this"

The woman goes and builds house, some will now say she is an enemy of progress against tradition. If she built it why must the house be in his name? Una never happy. If your wife builds a house it's "our house". But if man builds house its "his" house abi?

Marriage includes both parities. I don't see it as a bad thing. But only a cultured and educated Nigerian man will accept it. If a wife builds a house it's "thier" house. If husband builds a house it's "thier" house. Simple.

House building doesn't take away respect, or submission. That character. Nothing to do with structure.

AreaFada2:


My dear, statistics are important, but more important and realistic are the observations we make daily.

Would you dispute that armed robbers serving jail time in Nigeria or USA are overwhelmingly men?

I guess not. Yet you won't have exact statistics comparing male & female armed robbers by heart.

Fact is even in 2016, majority of women marry men who are economically better off than them.

Even the 200level babe dating the 500Level guy has already calculated that the guy will already be likely earning/employed by the time she completes her NYSC.
Many girls openly and unashamedly say that they cannot marry a guy without his own house, a good job/business and a good ride.

Even in the West where it's more common to live in a wife's house (due to many ladies now marrying in their 30s & 40s), the woman can effortless kick the man out of his own house during divorce, let alone when she already owns the house.

Either way, not a good situation for a man to be in.

franciskaine:
Funny question. Is my wife not my helpmate? What belongs to me belongs to my wife and vice versa. Only poor men reason like this, the question should be.. Wud Dangote live in a house built by his wife? Try answer this question and see how funny the initial question is.

ibedun:


You are already incompatible. The guy should not pursue the relationship and go find his own level. Honestly.

Nixiepie:
Had this argument with my dad,and he said is a taboo for him to live in a house built by his wife,so I really want to find out why this decision of a woman to build a house is a crime against humanity............ Plz I need more opinions thanks