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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Engrpj(m): 4:33pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
menix: sorry to say but it's like you don't have experience when it comes to women...... Try it and see. Only 1 out of 100 women will never brag or try to control you simply because you are under her own roof. Even if she is tour Mum, she must try to colonize you talk more of WIFE... hmmmmm 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by HenryLiverpool(m): 4:34pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Over my dead body would such thing happen to me..its a taboo in yoruba's culture 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by HenryLiverpool(m): 4:35pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Over my dead body would such thing happen to me..its a taboo in yoruba's culture..except its built in my own name as husband concern and at d same time made my own impact in it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Kay17: 4:55pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Apparently the problem seems to be with culture and tradition. Marriage is a power relationship with the woman taking the inferior role, and the man on top. If the question was if a man could live in another man's house -- no problem, all men are equal. But in a woman's house, it is a curse to receive charity from an inferior being. Herein lies the problem -- women are inferior! Unfortunately even women think they are inferior. Classic case of self indoctrination. And some men prefer their wives failing when they are unable to succeed financially. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Nixiepie: That's a big no boy and hey your Papa correct 1000,000 %. when you grow up u go understand 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Izen: 4:58pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
sukkot: I didn't cone here to argue with you o. I just found your comment ironic. So women are not allowed to have egos, it becomes a crime. But men are allowed to. Issorai. 5 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Kay17: So you think women are not inferior bah |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by menix(m): 5:28pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Engrpj: I ve loads of experience about em, i will say again marriage aint a do or die affair.. The truth is that if the man is good to go financially, u will be in control... |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Fanirandele: 5:39pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
RadicallyBlunt: You are are joke, higher in brain but she's richer than you? He he he what did you use your mumu brain for? You are also higher in brain than your female superior or boss abi? The girls that beat you hands down in school nko? Be deceiving yourself. Higher brain ko Many thanks throw their wives but of the house so why would a women not be able to do the same? The sam way you have rude rich men is the way you have rude rich women. You guys need to grow up 5 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by esonuu(m): 6:05pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Taah alu..house wey i no sabi whether she got part of d money 4rm men(women can do anytin jst to achieve a silly goal)..moreova,a woman being d sole provider depreciates a man spiritually/otherwise |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Orlarmie(m): 6:07pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
menix: I am very very sure you are still a single man. Get married, know women and their ways and comment later 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Orlarmie(m): 6:12pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Ravenna:It's not about not wanting a better life/world for your wife. Note- no matter how humble a woman is, she would still exhibit the woeman in her in one way or the other. They are naturally wired to act so. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Fanirandele:Its you that needs to grow up. With ur one liner interpretation and myopic view. I talked for myself and those who know what I mean know it. Ode 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Orlarmie(m): 6:16pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
knackz:Correct talk knackz |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Orlarmie(m): 6:22pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Izen:Ego and Men dey follow from bible so na normal thing |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by dazzy2(f): 6:23pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
awoluyi: I get wat u trying to say, u said u hav ur house she has her own, and u even building anoda, she wunt try shit wit u coz u hav urs too. now just imagine u dnt hav a house and u depended on her |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by ebukapaul66(m): 6:26pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
please let ask u girls can u eat food ur husband cook.... |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Tolatutu: 6:26pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Fanirandele: God bless you jare. Too many deluded weak men in Nigeria . Better brain ko, better brain ni 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Tolatutu: 6:28pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Orlarmie: In any human being Ego is a flaw. Rich people have egos no matter the sex. It's okay for you to kick your wife out and say thinks like don't bring that woman into my house for maybe her friends you don't like abi yet you think it's strange when a woman does the same? Many , many women have better brains than you and that's a fact of life 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by ebukapaul66(m): 6:29pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Nixiepie:can u eat food way ur husband cook |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by AreaFada2: 6:29pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Memejem:Meme j, I like your mature response. Of course many families live peacelly, even Iya Suleman, Nne Nkechi hawking fish to feed and pay rent for her kids and her jobless hubby. Chasing sway your wife wasn't really that easy in traditional societies without very good reason until about 25 years ago. The inlaws often waded in to settle the matter. I still witnessed lot of that growing up. At the end of the day, we should all be concerned by the increasing level of marital discord among Africans both at home and in diaspora. Especially some killing their spouse. It seems our freedom to chose own partner isn't necessarily doing the trick. I hope my friends eventually gets justice. Another friend of mine got no justice until he suddenly died. Despite his being Vought redhanded commuting adultery while pregnant for my late friend. By the way, I am not more pessimistic than the average person out there. Have a nice day. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Tolatutu: 6:31pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
AreaFada2: And your friends are saints abi? I am sure if the women tell their side you'll be shocked. Both parties are at fault it's just always easy to pick the side of one's friend or family 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by omron(m): 6:47pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
This is not a new thing It happens in my parent home My mum built a 5 room apartment at somewhere in lagos and during the time she was building the house she carried my dad along and because of love relationship that exist between them they always go to the site together for site development So it got to a stage where the house has been completed. It was not eazy for my dad to follow her to the place he thought it looks somehow and degrading to him so he ask my mum and we the children to go there and live while he remained at the rented apartment where he married our mum... My mum and my other sister planned for him since he said he won't follow us go new site so hey packed all the property bought by my father to the new house without his consent when my father came back from work he was curious he came to the new site with Fuel and matches and set the house ablaze but thank God neighbors came to our rescue the whole house would have been consumed by fire it is a memory that will linger in my mind till the end of time though after much persuasion from people and families they begged my dad to come to the new site with us and after like a year he came to the site to leave with is peacefully for like 11 years before he died And my mum has never for once raised the issue of who build the house or not during any argument and I remembered a day my dad locked my mum outside the house and my mum was begging my dad to open the door..... She didn't because it's her own house talk to my dad anyhow I think for that kind of situation to work There must be understanding and genuine love between the two parties Then the woman must be someone who can control her mouth even when angry That is it But for me I dnt pray such tins happens to me I can't say if I will follow the woman there oooo Cos as a man u shud shelter ur woman and not your woman sheltering you Though my dad built his own house sha before he died 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Izen: 6:50pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Orlarmie: Please guy, that is a heresy. There is nothing like ego in the bible. The bible only talks about pride and we all know how God feels about it. Please for your sake, don't say what you don't know. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Izen: 6:56pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
omron: What?! What exactly is your advice? That we should be like your mom? We should keep quiet like her while being treated with such disrespect just to respect our husband so that peace can reign and we can stay married? I'm sorry but what did your mum gain at the end of the day? Her house being set ablaze or her getting locked out of her home? You sound like you agree with how your dad treated your mum. I see no genuine love and understanding here, I'm sorry. Chai! Good help us women. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by petkoffdrake2(m): 7:04pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Nixiepie: Op buildba house, then come nd marry me and see if I'll agree or not.... Let's be experimental!
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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Memejem: 7:07pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
These end time friends you have that just keep having marital problems up and down all over the globe. I pray it doesn't reach you ooo. Just joking. Are you saying you think arranged marriages are better? AreaFada2: 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Orlarmie(m): 7:26pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Tolatutu:Kilagbe kileju woeman |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by emiloluwa: 7:50pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Izen:My dear a woman dat want 2 build a good home buy it, at all cost nt by merit |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Rhea(f): 8:40pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Nixiepie: Men and their chauvinistic thought process. You can entrust your wife to carry your baby for you in her womb for 9 months, but you cannot live in 'her' house. Irony of our warped way of analyzing issues. Anyway, if indeed she is your wife and two has become one, then it shouldn't matter who built which house. Even if it were her house before marriage, your marriage should make the house both yours (unless of course you signed a pre-nuptial agreement). 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Davidson5(m): 8:41pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Hmm ko tun walo je ijebu.. mogbe oo.
abeg no ijebu lady kom attack mi here o. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Emitayonte: 9:50pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
What type of marriage exist between you? Whatever belongs to d husband belongs to the wife and vice versa So who builds d house does not matter. |
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