Dear Bunmi,

My boyfriend is five years older than me. He is a great lover, but I’d only had sex a couple of times with my ex before we got together and I feel like Im lousy, especially when compared to his ex-girlfriends. He keeps asking me to make love to him, but Im terrified as I dont know what to do. He loves me and says Im wonderful in and out of the bedroom. I love him so much, and want to please him as much as he pleases me. Please, help!

Joke, By e-mail.



Dear Joke,

Experience is not always the secret of being a good lover. Men who are in love with their partners are turned on by who she is and how she feels about them. It wont be sexual tricks that will do it for your man but your body, your face, your smell, your taste. So, show him how much you care for him in the way you touch, kiss and respond to his love-making. Once you’re confident, ask him to teach you what he’d like you to do in bed. That will give him a good time and reassure you you’re getting it right.

Bunmi

The lady has just hit the nail on the head.

Are you asking us? Bunmi don answer the question na...

That lady needs to be self confident...once u have this, u can conquer everything u want to reach

Smellymouth:
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Abi.