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Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by edwife(f): 10:29am On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: Have known this longtime ago babes, that's why you see i don't do follow follow. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by HaneefahRN(f): 10:47am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 10:49am On Apr 24, 2016 |
edwife: Follow follow is always at followers detriment mehn...not healthy at all. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 10:50am On Apr 24, 2016 |
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Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Neverquit(f): 11:44am On Apr 24, 2016 |
You are absolutely right. The hypocrisy is rather unfortunate. I remember when Ray Rice punched his girlfriend in the elevator, peeps were calling for his head (the girlfriend was not even pressing charges o), asking for lifetime ban from football, but nothing happened to Solange. Men, if you are going through spousal abuse, please stop enduring. Leave o before una case ends up like the guy that was stabbed in the neck by 'dearest' wiffie. raumdeuter: |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: You preach violence in its most ugly form. If a wife behaves like a thug, divorce her. It's simple. Knocking out someone's teeth is definitely not normal. And such a couple has no business being married. I am yet to see how such brutality has helped any marriage. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by preggi(m): 1:44pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Izen: The issue the OP raised is concerning the woman. But anyway a man to can use the approach to strategically win back a woman and maintain a good relationship with each other. The essence is to enjoy ones home rather than endure it. Marriage is sweet but it requires the right work and approach to make it blossom. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 3:16pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I preach violence? Maybe there is a new meaning to preaching these days. If you dish violence, expect it in return, that's all I " preach ". |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: You defend the position that someone should get their teeth knocked out for pulling on someone else's top? It is ok to cause lasting harm to someone's body in retaliation for a piece of cloth? Are you not the one who also propagates the beating of mistresses? Yes, you preach violence! With all due respect, you should know better. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 4:46pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Keep your hands to yourself if loosing your teeth bothers you, don't grab anybody by the collar and expect a hug. Don't dish violence, if you hate violence, simple! You should also know better not to raise your hand on a man when you lack the skills to face a combat you initiated. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by mikolo80: 4:49pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
delishpot:not everyone wants live alone with societal ridicule |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by delishpot: 4:51pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
mikolo80: So leaving an abusive man means her life has been condemned to loneliness and ridicule? Ngwanu...she should kwontinue. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by ukandi1(m): 4:52pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
ify84: This is bondage. We are all equal before God. I'd rather my sisters and daughter remains single. As a man, I will never try this at home |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by ukandi1(m): 4:54pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
delishpot:What does she stand to loose again? If she finds happiness by leaving, she has my support. Even if my wife leaves now and says its becos she wans to be happy, bros, I will encourage her. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: It's not about me. I don't drag people by their collars. It is about your support of brutal retaliation methods. Knocking someone's teeth off is permanent damage. It is not normal to justify such methods. Especially when a man, who could do such because he is stronger, could free himself easily without inflicting such an injury. It's Sunday Byvan, are you not a Christian, what happened to "turn the other cheek"? |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by raumdeuter: 5:02pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Is there any form of responsibility on the woman who initiated the cycle of violence? She is free to be holding peoples collars all over without any repercussion What would you personally do to a who holds your collar with a vice-like grip? Kiss them? If you know someone is stronger than you then why should you go initiating violent contact with him? Is it because you know you are covered by law from retaliation? |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: You can push her away as you are stronger. Even slapping her would be a more "human" way to react. Knocking off her teeth is not only brutal but insanely stu.pid, too. Assuming you do not intend to end the marriage after the incident, you want to have a wife without teeth? Who is going to pay for the dentures if she is a stay-at-home mum? You want your kids to see their mother with blood dripping from her mouth? I can't believe anyone can even think that it is ok to knock your spouse's teeth off. And I never said that it is ok to drag anyone by their collar either. What is wrong with you people? |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by mikolo80: 5:39pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
more often than not. she was stoopid for choosing an abusive man in the first place,shows terrible judgement |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by raumdeuter: 6:03pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: While I won't support knocking off her tooth but any man who slaps a woman even in that circumstances is considered an abuser and a wife beater Every human should know that when you see a stronger person you don't attack him first. If you do, any response is fair game as long as you're not killed. If I slap Tyson and he knocks my whole dentition out its fair game. but women seem to believe they are immune from this fundamental law of not attacking first. A 5ft4 girl weighing 60kg would say she's angry and rain slaps on a man 6ft6 weighing 110kg and expect nothing to happen to her because she's a woman |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by AfroKnight: 6:10pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
sarutobie: So staying to contend with an abusive woman makes him a strong man? Interesting. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: Really? If I were the man, I would push her away or hold her tight that she can't move because I am stronger. In this way, I would defend myself without inflicting harm. Then I would leave the house or make her leave until we calm down. Then I would meet her and tell her that the next time she touches me, the marriage is over. I don't do sick relationships. Life is meant to be fun. Every male knows when you see a stronger person you don't attack him first. If you do, any response is fair game as long as you're not killed but women seem to believe they are immune from this fundamental law of not attacking first. A 5ft4 girl weighing 60kg would say she's angry and train slaps on a man 6ft6 weighing 110kg and expect nothing to happen to her because she's a woman It's either plain stu.pid or mad. I don't know. I don't support any form of violence but I don't believe in barbaric forms of retaliation either. What next? She will poison your food? Cut your Johnson off in your sleep? If civil communication is not possible, you better go for counseling or your separate ways, at least temporarily. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by raumdeuter: 6:17pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: The main question is why do some women initiate violence and don't expect any form of repercussions? That's what byvan3 was saying. The mantra is Men never touch a woman under any circumstance what of women don't touch a man regardless of how angry you get? |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: I don't know. Ask these women if you know any. That's what byvan3 was saying. No, she was supporting the knocking off of teeth IN MARRIAGE as a justifiable form of retaliation. I don't think that anyone should support such. It's too brutal and it's extremely disgusting. The mantra is Men never touch a woman under any circumstance what of women don't touch a man regardless of how angry you get? I have never met anyone who said that it was ok for a woman to hit her husband or drag him by the collar, have you? |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by raumdeuter: 6:41pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: You've not met any? Check a video of a woman beating a man see the responses. Most would find it funny and make meme about it Check another video of a man beating a woman and no one would find it funny and the man would be called names. Example the reaction to Solange vs Jay z compared to Chris Brown vs Rihanna If the reactions to two similar situations are different one of condemnation the other not so much what do we call that |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 6:41pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I am working with moses law, no turning of other cheek from this end . If one hates violence, the best is to keep the hands to oneself. Permanent damage? Dentures don finish for market? next time the person will know better. If a woman is fool*ish enough to start violence with a man, she better be wise enough to accept what comes with it. You can't decide for people how to retaliate when violence is meted on them . What happened, are you Christian now? Seriously a woman has to be unusually stup*id to do that , I don't think such a person will miss the teeth because she is just too crazy to notice . |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 6:43pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: I really wish Jay - Z dished her just one, next time she will think twice before acting like a thug. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 6:45pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: This is the point! Only a mad person will be bold enough to attack a stronger person. If you hate violence, don't start it. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 6:47pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: You got my point totally! |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: Religious folks as usual. Only accept what suits their needs. No surprises. What happened, are you Christian now? Seriously a woman has to be unusually stup*id to do that , I don't think such a person will miss the teeth because she is just too crazy to notice . I am not a Christian. I don't form holy and then cherry-pick which commandments suit me best. You have to be faithful because marriage is holy but I don't have to turn the other cheek when someone hurts me. So now you even support violence against mentally ill people? Good to know. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: The reason why people react like this is because they assume that men are stronger and could defend themselves whereas women cannot as they are physically weaker even Byvan is saying that it is crazy to attack a man as he is stronger. So if a woman is being attacked, she can usually not defend herself as easily as an attacked man can. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
By the way Byvan03, if you do Moses law then you must accept polygamy. No beating up of second and third wives. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 6:56pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Religious folks? You support mistresses, extol infidelity, why then do you think is wrong to hit back someone that initiated violence? See...even with no religion at all, you aren't far from the religious folks, same ol inconsistency and hypocrisy . You lost me there, I don't form holy either . Mentally ill people? You can twist the gist into Bantu knots, am sure you got the point fully. Ain't no turning of cheeks from this end. |
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