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Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 7:00pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Beating up second wives really? Won't but don't have problems with people that do. You come as second, I shift aside and make you the Ist, am a peace lover like that . |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: I don't support mistresses. I oppose the stupidity that women display when they attack other women who don't give a fvck about them but open their legs to their cheating husband a night later. And I don't support infidelity, I support polygamy for those who want it. And there is nothing inconsistent about it. Being against violence and brutal methods such as the knocking off of teeth is nowhere near inconsistency. It's pure logic, not sentiments that are the result of insecurity and jealousy. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: You want your husband to die from heart attack? I enjoy the debates with you on NL but I don't want to become a violent pacifist with you as sister wife. It would be inconsistent. You are a peace lover? Maybe in your next life time. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 7:26pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Polygamy is brutal enough, dentures can solve broken teeth but the damage from polygamy? now that's the definition of life changing emotional brutality. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: This is NOT true. Polygamous marriages can be as happy or unhappy as monogamous marriages. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 7:29pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Why dying nah? that should stir some excitement that the 1st wife is a peace loving fellow that chose to go without fight. Common you can be both . |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 7:32pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: There is nothing like a happy polygamous home joor . Taking turns to errrhmm... , I no fit shout . |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
byvan03: What's wrong with taking turns? |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by byvan03: 7:49pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
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Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
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Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by raumdeuter: 7:59pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: You know a man is stronger then why would you attack anyone stronger? Even toddlers ate taught and not encouraged to hit people when they are angry, Its only females who get cheered on when they hit others when they are angry Let me ask, You see someone stronger, you are angry at them, do you hit the person? If you wont, why? As some of you may be aware, Whoopi Goldberg has received backlash, from both feminists and traditionalists alike, after voicing her opinion on Solange’s elevator brawl with Jay Z. If you are not familiar with the story, you can view her original comments here and her later clarification here. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: Again, I don't hit people. I even feel bad when I become verbally abusive on NL (mostly in politics section, chai!). Let me ask, You see someone stronger, you are angry at them, do you hit the person? If you wont, why? Stronger or weaker, I don't hit people. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by raumdeuter: 8:07pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: So what should happen to women who hit men first in an argument https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5aFNHWdIVe0 |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
So many factors have to be considered before any kind of reconciliation. For me family meeting will be called everyone has to agree that a line was crossed and things are now icy..... I will temporary vacate the persons life until they can face their own demons if things turn physical I really can't imagine my children when i have them being exposed to violence the cycle will never end. You can break the chain you just have to find a way to communicate...don't belittle your spouse even when your irritated to the brim. In a heated argument agree to disagree nobody is better than anyone if so why did you two get married ...there's no competition in true companionship everyone is treated equal if you are not. Wait till you find that kind of partner. If he has a temper soothe it don't pour kerosene on it if she has a fuse shut it off... We all have to play our part and rely on God for direction. For every action there is a reaction but you are responsible for how you react to the actions of other people. In other words if you want to handle delicate matters such as an argument barbarically go ahead but not be surprised when you face the same fate later in life. Love is powerful thing and with God and true respect things will change learn the trigger and kill it there Forgive.....Meditate and Overcome your problems as a Couple Aggressive people will always be a part of our society we gotta find a way to love them too |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
raumdeuter: The same that should happen to men who hit women. You file a charge or you leave her or both. Honestly, the chick in this video is very annoying. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by justme2000: 12:21am On Apr 25, 2016 |
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Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by bukatyne(f): 12:00am On Apr 26, 2016 |
raumdeuter: Bros, this ain't applicable to Nigeria. Tell 19 people that a man beat his wife/woman and the first question 11 will ask is 'what did she do'? Hehehe... I honestly do not know how to place Solanges's case however it is strange that a wife would watch her sister beat her husband... There is hypocrisy everywhere and people will not ask questions if a wife slaps her husband before he is advised to divorce her in Nigeria. Just a flip side of the coin. While I agree some cases of physical abuse is actually two lovers fighting, some women are genuinely abused. As per the MIL thingy, most people have different rules of engagement for family & non-family. And yes, I believe men & women can/do fight..... And I yam a part of society. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by Becalm(m): 7:26am On Apr 26, 2016 |
It can be worked out. Everything is possible under the sun. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by raumdeuter: 6:06pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
bukatyne: Any boy caught fighting a girl from Nursery to University if he is gaining the upper hand would be shamed "How can you be fighting a girl" or beaten by onlookers, if the girl is gaining the upper hand he would be mocked and laughed at When one radio presenter DJ freeze came out to say his wife was beating him and showed us scars people mocked him andsaw the hilarious side to it. But if it was a woman beaten that way I am sure the reaction would have been different In a lot of cases women assume because they have some God given right, they can attack first and nothing would happen, there was a story I wanted to post here before spambot slammed me on Sunday A girl in a new York train saw a 6ft 6 bouncer and she started abusing him the guy didnt respond, she mocked his jacket that its like whats made in 1990, the guy didnt respond, she went on and removed her stilleto to hit the guy on the head, The guy now beat her back. On that train some were already shouting "How can you hit a girl". The question is she knew she stood no chance in a fight with the 6ft6 bouncer yet insulted him and used her shoe to hit him? What would make her have that kind of liver if she didnt believe in her right to attack and not be touched which we are taught now This is the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Czb4rImsph0 While the girl was abusing him and hitting him no one said anything, the moment the guy gave her a slap, 3 people got up to fight the guy |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by nanalady(f): 8:47pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
justme2000:i hope this is not real..just one of the super stories.. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by mcdoweller(m): 11:51pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
No she better run. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by mumtriplet2: 6:20pm On Apr 29, 2016 |
it really hurt seeing someone who profess love hurt u. I pray that God give me grace to forgive my husband. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by bukatyne(f): 11:06pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
raumdeuter: I still think you are mixing both Nigeria & the West. In some quarters, it is not so bad to beat your wife and wives are still pleaded with to bear abusive husbands. I however agree with you that anyone who goes about punching people especially stronger ones shouldn't cry foul when punched back or knocked out. |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by bukatyne(f): 11:12pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
raumdeuter: I still think you are mixing both Nigeria & the West. In some quarters, it is not so bad to beat your wife and wives are still pleaded with to bear abusive husbands. I however agree with you that anyone who goes about punching people especially stronger ones shouldn't cry foul when punched back or knocked out. Responded on the other post too about marriage/cohabitiy |
Re: Can A Physically Abused Woman In A Marriage Work Things Out With Her Husband ? by macchanger: 8:01pm On May 04, 2016 |
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