;DGenuine intimacy is the unique bond between two people that links them together emotionally, spiritually and sexually, they become soul mates. The meshing of these elements forms the cornerstone of a monogamous relationship and explains in part, its distinctiveness to the human species. It also explains why its absence foretells non-exclusivity, suggesting that successful and healthy relationships require more than sex to function.

It is the feeling of connectedness that forms the basis of intimacy making it possible for relationships to grow and sustain the challenges that are often brought on its way like sexual temptations, stress, and illness, work and family problems. Intimacy is the glue that holds relationships together taking over when the intense passion of a new relationship transforms into a more enduring union based on common values, love, value and commitment to one another.

@ stbaby

I couldn't have said it better myself!

One thing to add though - It ain't easy. Attaining "genuine intimacy" as defined above is laborious and demanding. It amounts to a re-creation of both parties. Letting go of well-entrenched behaviour and latching unto new patterns by displacing the mental block of cognitive dissonance in the process.

The result, after unrelenting attention and efforts by both parties, is grand and enviable.

Well said.