3DCYCLOPS:
op yhu expect me to read that epistle all because of some silly gold diggers?

falconey:



I don't know why they complain op after all she dig their gold they dig her fanny.


truth be told I 'd enjoy from my sister's digging all those MR BIGGS goodies.



in fact any man that complains about gold digging should be arrested!!!!!!

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falconey:


I'm owing house rent that should answer your question.

amokeme:
But its not a crime if the lady has all the comfort by herself. She doesn't have to wait for a man to do that for her.

queenfav:
Whereas many young guys these days would like to criticise young ladies and argue for themselves that "most girls don't want to struggle with a guy who still a work in progress, rather they want a finished product." I have a different view.
my first response is this: what would you want for your own sister at home? Would you prefer for her to bring home a man who is still struggling to get a job, instead of a man who is financially stable and can take care of her basic needs? Would you prefer her to be trekking under the hot sun everyday with a "work in progress guy" instead of a guy with a decent car that can carry her in comfort; or at least pay for a cab to take her where she wants to go? Would you prefer to see her looking haggard and tired everyday from the stress and financial strain of joint contribution for upkeep of the home, rather than looking younger everyday from a man who can take such burden off her shoulder and put her in comfort?
A woman is not a burden bearer: a man is. Forget all this modern bullshit talk about gender equality: the only reason why women are crying out for equality is because many men fail in their responsibilities so women need equal opportunity to fend for themselves.
A good woman deserves a man who can take care of her basic needs: put a roof over her head, and provide for her. Any man who is not capable of doing that should not be professing his love to any woman otherwise he will put her in unnecessary hardships.
What happens when she gets pregnant? Then they both start staring at each other wondering how to buy pampers and baby food?
I have come to realise that a lot of guys thoroughly misunderstand the female folk. I came to understand that most women are not gold diggers. Nor do they even want you to have a huge bank account or drive the most expensive car on the road (trust me guys, the average girl doesn't even know the difference between a Honda, Toyota and a Nissan: her only concern is whether the car is clean, looks decent, has air-condition and sound system... Lol) Women just need to have a sense of security- that you can take care of yourself and be a rock for her to lean on.
A man need not be a 'finished project' but he should be in advance stages of 'development' before taking on a wife. Just as a house need not be fully painted before you move in- but it must have left foundation stage. If a guy is still in foundation stage, he should be concerned about building up himself rather than looking for a woman who will 'understand'
Let men be men for real. Play your part and stop complaining.

NB:This was written by my friend,NLS study partner and learned colleague..#respectbro..He nailed it!Nairalanders, share your thoughts.
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falconey:



I don't know why they complain op after all she dig their gold they dig her fanny.


truth be told I 'd enjoy from my sister's digging all those MR BIGGS goodies.



in fact any man that complains about gold digging should be arrested!!!!!!

Histrings08:
Pfft

divinehand2003:
Truth be said sha, '' most Naija babes are serious GOLD AND DIAMOND DIGGERS". Mind you, my sister's not left out.