halfricanadian:


lol i will decline it fast

I care bou his heart soul nature nt his money

Ok so after d money he cheats abi?
Or turn me to punching bag?

Im d girl dat blivs i can make my own money too so use love to impress me not money

you are missing the point. Even if you get $50 ring you are still bought at price (in this case a very cheap one) Its redundant to think that paying bride price is irrational but buying an engagement or wedding ring isn't, either way it still places a price tag on you.

MarryMeee:
you are missing the point. Even if you get $50 ring you are still bought at price (in this case a very cheap one) Its redundant to think that paying bride price is irrational but buying an engagement or wedding ring isn't, either way it still places a price tag on you.

lol u no wan gimme hope atall continue

Tay16:
you can't pay for love but you spent money on a wedding, im still trying to make sense out of this. If you do not mind me asking, when did you finish paying back all the money lended to you to have your white wedding?


Maybe you might not be aware that before white people came to Africa, paying bride price was what signified the union between 2people and white people had a wedding ceremony to signify the union between 2people. Its funny how you think your own tradition is archaic when its purpose is just the same as a white wedding that you are now having in the 21st century. If white men start wearing skirts on a daily basis i bet you will be the first follow, so you wont be called archaic for following your own culture or tradition

The beauty of Asian and Native American people is that they have their own minds and they still embrace their own culture. Although they have been influenced Western ideas, they never through away their culture because a white person doesn't believe in what they believe in. Unfortunately the same cannot be said about some African men, he cannot engage in anything a white person doesn't understand or approve of.

1. Money was not lent to me. You must be broke and cheap.

2. It's simple commerce. I pay for a woman in the name of BRIDE PRICE! PRICE!! PRICE!!! Who is fooling who? Open your eyes It's a price. That's cost for a comodity. It's not same as a white wedding. White wedding there is no fixed price it's what I want. What I want to spend. But in africa there is fixed price for the woman. Soon dollar go affect am

3. I did not marry an Asian. Your post is off point.

In this our country and other countries I believe that paying of bride price is essential and compulsory. You cannot just marry a girl without paying her bride price, if is not done so. What you should have said is that you are appealing that bride prices be reduced. For instance, when my sister got married the guy was given the list of things to buy and told to bring N10, 000 cash. On the day of her wine carrying he brought all he was told to bring and the only cash my dad took from the 10, 000 he was told to bring was 1,000 and returned the balance to the family of the man. So as far as marriage is concerned bride price must be paid.

halfricanadian:


lol u no wan gimme hope atall continue

I'm not trying to make you lose hope, I'm just telling you its the same damn thing, done in different ways.

whogoscam:


1. Money was not lent to me. You must be broke and cheap.

2. It's simple commerce. I pay for a woman in the name of BRIDE PRICE! PRICE!! PRICE!!! Who is fooling who? Open your eyes It's a price. That's cost for a comodity. It's not same as a white wedding. White wedding there is no fixed price it's what I want. What I want to spend. But in africa there is fixed price for the woman. Soon dollar go affect am

3. I did not marry an Asian. Your post is off point.

do tell the purpose of a white wedding please, since according to you they do not come with a fixed price