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Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by bukatyne(f): 3:34pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
modath: I thought the accused baby mama was an innocent woman? If Caroline says she wants to divorce her husband, then she is a very foolish woman. That's why I like to ask how the couple started... Your husband used to slap you while courting and you are complaining of domestic abuse... are you a learner? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Bolade005: 4:50pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
The only two women on this thread not living in denial are Modath and edwife. The rest are obviously living in denial. They're are just making disjointed arguments for argument sake thereby unnecessarily lengthening the number of pages of this thread. The OP is very right. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Babacele: 5:13pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
modath:Moodaaaaaaaathi! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by modath(f): 5:16pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
bukatyne: ... Na real learner!! Person dey date man wey dey fling cloth anyhow, marry begin cry "he doesn't clean up after himself" really? Some crazy learner men who had to flash car keys or buy Iphone 6 before getting just One date too go dey complain "she's too materialistic" when she waka when money finish!! Na una terms of engagement be that. Start as you mean to proceed!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by crackhaus: 12:33am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Lol.. Have you noticed that you have this thing you do on NL where you talk about yourself, your achievements, your happiness, your life basically..., especially when responding to a topic or quote where no one actually asked you a question that should naturally elicit such a response? Just an honest question sweet pea...I don't mean to fight 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by crackhaus: 12:46am On Apr 16, 2016 |
bukatyne:I'm a little confused as to what your dislike for Telemundo or TV had to do with how well you could have dealt with the scenario modath described. Let's go with this scenario..... The woman has been following one of this zee world/Telemundo menene, it somehow clashes with an Australian open semi final match that the man too has invested time in from the qualifying rounds..... How do we proceed? Please try this again Buka. I sincerely want to read a response you put some serious thought into before typing. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by crackhaus: 12:56am On Apr 16, 2016 |
edwife: 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by KanwuliaExtra: 4:40am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Kimoni: Abi ooooooo. . . . |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by SirShymexx: 7:27am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Bolade005: You can obviously see through...nice observation. That's basically why I left the thread and I did put a PSA on the first page. Most of them are just bitter overgrown kids who love creating a bubble for themselves just to mask how bitter they're. No sane person takes them seriously lol. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Bolade005: 7:44am On Apr 16, 2016 |
SirShymexx:They're just selling wolf tickets bro cause I am very certain they can't be all blind to the realities around them. I had better take them with a pinch of salt then. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by yetseyi(f): 8:01am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Interesting thread. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Nobody: 8:15am On Apr 16, 2016 |
crackhaus: Of course, I did. Just an honest answer. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by SirShymexx: 8:32am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Bolade005: Lol. You'll surely become acquainted with brigand of bitter overgrown kids on these sides soon. Take them seriously at ya own peril lol. How do you expect folks who lack the concentration level required to grasp the smallest things, to discern the realities around them? You're giving them too much credit and the only reality they know is to wake up every morning and look for guys to antagonise, hence I troll them whenever I'm bored with topics that will make cry and pull out their hair, while laughing like a mad man lol. I think the fundamental problem with most of them is that they were not raised right and they ended up getting in the mix without enough prep, hence they mostly depend on fairytales and things they read to guide them in navigating life. That's why it is always important for parents to teach their kids about the harsh realities of life and make them observe how mum and dad relate, so as to enable them learn from their mistakes and apply the lessons learnt to their lives/reality when they grow up. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Bolade005: 9:02am On Apr 16, 2016 |
SirShymexx:Yh I noticed most of your topics are directed towards a certain group of people and trust me, I'm already acquainted with the bitter overgrown kids. I know them like a kid knows his alphabets. Let them keep bringing it on, we will continue to put them in their place. You know their place na shey? |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by SirShymexx: 10:28am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Bolade005: Loool. I'm sure you saw my topic about how women are terrible drivers and the question I asked about banning them lol. Obviously, every road users know how terrible women are when it comes to driving (most of them can't even reverse and park properly) and despite the fact the over 70-80% of road users are men and men also drive more miles daily than women - the number of car accidents per mile by women motorists is almost 3-4x those of men. However, the society gives the advantage to women and when it comes to insurance policy, they pay the same premium as men. The unfair society or a society that treats people based on the normal requirements would treat women like young drivers cos the two groups are the biggest hazards on the road. Now back to why I created that thread. I know women can never be banned from driving and I'll never campaign for such. However, I just wanted to see if any of the females can raise salient points that show some of the perks women enjoy in a world they believe is unfair to them and discriminates against them, while making the crazy ones go nuts lol. As for this one: even a mad man knows that females marry up and males marry down. That is just how both sexes are wired. The exceptions are isolated cases mostly due to desperation. Most of the women that marry down do so cos they're desperate for a guy and won't mind any decent guy. While guys who do so do it certain benefits. As soon as you get to ya late teens, it isn't rocket science when you start seeing chics ya age go for guys older than you. Then early years in uni can become a leveller for everyone due to boredom. Then from age 21, chics move up again and leave their age mates behind. That is just how it works. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Bolade005: 10:58am On Apr 16, 2016 |
SirShymexx:I saw the topic about the driving the day you created it but I just decided to sit that one out. Everybody knows women are terrible drivers, they drive like they're not bold enough to be behind the wheels. When a road user makes a mistake or drives like the right leg is too heavy to press on the accelerator, without seeing the person I can always guess the driver is a woman and it 99.9% times turn out to be so. It's not women that drive cars, it's the car that drives them. Only a few percentage of women drives with courage and boldness. I understand you intentionally create these threads to throw subtle jabs but then again your topics are most times objective and the bitter truth so I got nothing on you brother. Continuing doing you, as long as you remain on the path of objectivity and truth, we got your back. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by crackhaus: 11:02am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Ohh good, you did notice. That settles that then. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Nobody: 11:37am On Apr 16, 2016 |
crackhaus: |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by bukatyne(f): 3:06pm On Apr 16, 2016 |
crackhaus: OK. |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by sukkot: 9:40pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
SirShymexx:Bruv wagwan. TGIF. where the ali tribute thread tho ? and while you are at it open a stephen keshi tribute thread lolzzz |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by SirShymexx: 12:39am On Jun 11, 2016 |
sukkot: I don't know that nyggah and he never impacted my life. If I were to pay tribute to everyone that dies daily, I would've to pay tributes to millions of people. Ali impacted my life directly cos his autobiography's one of the books that helped me in transforming my life from a dark place - to a better place. And he was an inspiration. Not speaking ill of the dead but I don't do bandwagon stuff. Regardless, God bless his soul and protect his family. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Nobody: 1:56am On Jun 11, 2016 |
jadelyn007: i tell you most solemnly! A woman's wealth is absolutely no determinant in a man's choice for a woman! Forget whatever anyone else would tell you! When i say MAN, i mean it in every sense of the word. The men who go for women of wealth are most times, not credible men. That she is Dangote's daughter, gives her absolutely no advantage in attracting a real MAN! When i say a real man, i mean that man who is educated, enlightened, exposed, with a good pay job relative to his mates, and can hold his own anywhere and anytime! This sort of man is of good character and does not play eye-service. I guess this is the sort of man ladies prefer the most. Now, when such a man is going out for women, a lady's wealth mean absolutely nothing to him! He goes for the most beautiful, and if you look, the most beautiful women are not the self-made women, unless she is a model. I think the reason for this is because they are used to getting things free right from a tender age, their meals get paid for etc. The only time the MAN would do otherwise, is if he has a strong control of his natural behaviour and can 'use his head'. One example of this kind of men is Mark Zukerberg. I don't know him personally but i think he is an example. As for "men go for ladies that are not financially established" part of your post, i will tell you my honest view which i think is true into in to to: when men go for such women, it is not because he wants someone to 'dominate', at least that's not the first thing! When he goes for such women like your 19year old self, it is because that's when you are most youthful and beautiful, bringing us back to the same thing i said earlier that a woman's wealth is absolutely of no use to the man. The first thing is your physical beauty! Anyone who tells you otherwise, is only being tongue-tight and doesn't want to hurt you! Have you ever seen a fairy tale where the typical bride for the prince is a wealthy woman? No, It is a beautiful lady! Many times, the prince' bride is another princess; but i tell you, that's not because of her 'high' status; It is because her father is a king, and by the virtue of that, he married a beautiful lady who is his queen and the queen gave him a princess who took after her mother's looks! If a real man like i discribed for you above is thrilled by a woman's wealth, then the prince in "Cindarella" would have been attracted to the other 'ugly' high-borns. So let Chimmamanda and all the other feminists understand it and stop thinking they can shame real men out of themselves so the real men can now begin to long for the woman of wealth and power by telling him he is intimedated by rich and successful woman. The reason the real man, the one i described above, does not go after the woman of wealth and power, has got nothing to do with him being intimidated! It's due to natural selection. Like i said, most self-made women of power and wealth are not the most beautiful, and i say this with so much respect to them. Ok, if you want to insist it's about him being intimidated, are you going to believe that the not too credible men these women of wealth and power end up with have more gut that the men i talked about? Lastly, i want to apologize if i have offended anyone. It is not my intention and please don't take what i have said to heart. But if you put yourself in men's position and watch how these feminists tear men down and attack men's psychology that men are not real men if they are 'intimidated' by wealthy and powerful women, maybe you will come to understand why we talk like this. Again i say, i am sorry. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Nobody: 3:09am On Jun 11, 2016 |
jadelyn007: i laugh when i see plain denial! How mature are girls 19 years old? At 19, people already hail me a philosopher! When i look at my 19year old younger brother now, he far trumps the average girl his own mate in thoughtfulness. When i was a teacher between the ages of 21 and 22, there were some 16 and about 17 years old female students i was teaching. I once asked them a question that can they marry their age mate? The response one gave me was very instant and a capital no! When i asked why, she said she can't even respect him at all! She said she will be looking at him like he is her mate and therefore, he can't tell her anything! At the university, i asked a lady (a classmate this time) if she could marry her mate and her response was also very instant and a definite no! Her reason is different from the other lady though, she was particular about getting older than him and he could begin to cheat in the end. It is true that a 30 year old lady would have no problem dating even a 28 year old man but that's not because she now suddenly sees him as more mature; but that options are running fewer and she herself has now become more mature and have out-grown superficial tendencies and is now begining to look more at that behind the person. But if we want to continue to think that teenage boys are immature relative to their female counterparts, then we should not forget that the post of the head boy and head girl is giving to them at that age. We also know that the post of the head boy has got more responsibilities than that of the head girl. If teenage boys are less mature, how then did the human being give vest more responsibilities on the post of the head boy rather than the head girl? C'mon, i am not trying to shame women for having that natural tendency to be attracted more to men of power, wealth, fame and influence. It is your natural behaviour and i think you should be proud of it! But just as we encourage men to look beyond beauty in their choice of women, we also encourage you to not deny your natural tendency to want 'stronger' men, but try to water down a little bit. We've heard enough of the "girls are more mature than boys their mate". That she started having sexual experiences before the boy doesn't mean she has better decision making skills. There are some girls that are super mature, though. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Nobody: 3:25am On Jun 11, 2016 |
jadelyn007: yea, being older, richer etc does not mean better person, but the truth is, that's what the woman wants! Just as being super beautiful doesn't mean a girl is better behaved; alot of these 'beauty queens' can't even cook, yet that's what men like! Was it not you or someone else that said it on page 0 that most people are attracted to the exterior? We should never run away from it that men and women have their superficial points they look out for in the other person. As for the "you should be able to love me more" part of your post, i would ask a you a question you don't have to provide answers to here. You only need to answer it in your heart of heart. Ask yourself and tell yourself the truth. Is it the person that chased you the most that you agreed to date and marry? I bet its not him who showed more interest you accepted. Even if its him, then it could be that your first choice wasn't possible and so you had to settle for the one that kept on chasing. You don't have to feel attacked here as even men too experience this. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by sukkot: 12:51pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
SirShymexx:yeah well another nigerian coach died yesterday. whatchu mean keshi didnt impact your life ? nigga that man won the african cup of nations for nigeria. i recall you being on nairaland gloating like a virgin who just bagged his first poonani 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by cococandy(f): 4:47pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
It's only online that men are sole providers and women don't marry struggling guys. But in real life, poor people are married. And more are getting married every single day. Even if it means coming online to beg for money to help feed their new triplets that the wife just dropped. In real life wives hustle and husbands hustle and even then the money is still not enough. I wonder where these sole providers are. In real life men don't want to marry financial leeches. They almost always go after someone who can contribute . Are we talking about Nigeria or another country? People should try to be honest for once and stop parroting things they have no proof of. Just as there are those who will marry for money, there are also those who will marry poor as long as the other person has the potential of being a good spouse. Such a thinly veiled woman-hating thread. Nairaland would have shut down by now if a lady created this thread to say unnice things about men. They would be evil feminists going on man-hating spree. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by cococandy(f): 5:29pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Tell me about it. It's like for women, you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. Not long ago, the debate about being a stay at home mom was on. And of course many people agreed that it's not a bad idea if that what works for one's family. Let's say a single girl decides that's what she wants for herself.-To stay home for a while, raise the kids and take care of the family before venturing into a career. Wouldn't the man's earning power be a factor to consider when choosing a mate? Since he will obviously be doing the providing. Wouldn't it be xtupid to want to be at home and take care of your kids yet marry a man who can't provide for them? But wait. Oh she's a gold digger for wanting a man who can do that. Or maybe if she decides otherwise, she's not a good wife for not wanting to sacrifice her career and invest in the kids' young age. Either way it doesn't matter. we just have to find something she is guilty of. Will women ever stop being judged? I wonder. jadelyn007: |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by Barryton: 7:20pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
cococandy:life issues are discussed and treated in terms of majority... every president of a country get's into power on account of majority. but it doent mean everyone voted the president. when people say Nigeria is corrupt, it doesn't mean there are no honest people in nigeria. when people say nigeria is hard, it doesn't mean we dont have people living comfortably. the number of women marrying older and more wealthy men largely outweighs that of men. since we all know that majority have the day, makes the op right. it is natural thing... most women aren't even the same age as their man...fact. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by SAMBARRY: 8:10pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Baby oya come and drink cold water SirShymexx: |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by raumdeuter: 8:29pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Barryton: I dont even know why there is an argument on this Ask 10 women their dream man, the majority would describe someone older, taller, bigger, stronger richer, probably more educated and more exposed than themselves Take 10 couples anywhere in the world the majority would have the man older, taller, bigger, stronger richer, probably more educated and more exposed than the lady 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Love Living In Denial? by SirShymexx: 6:20am On Jun 12, 2016 |
sukkot: You're an idiot. I support the Nigerian football team and I've been supporting them since I was. But that was a mediocre team. Regardless, how did acknowledging a mediocre team that won an utter poor competition impact my life? You're a nuisance and a pleb. Stop disturbing me with inconsequential people who are resting in peace. Their legacy is the current super eagles team and it's telling. Stop disturbing me. Ali on the other hand transcended everything and he was legendary. |
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