Must be attractive and functional simultaneously.

Aloy_Emeka:

Must be attractive and functional simultaneously.

yes oh

what if you are told to choose btw these two extremes. No sitting on the fence.

cant chose one.
Rather remain single than to chose one.
How can i live with ugly woman, or even touch or kiss her?
How do i have cute wife and she is a disaster in other areas of life?

t'obinrin ba dara ti ko niwa, mi o le fe, meaning; if a woman is beautiful but no character,i can't marry her
beauty is in the eye of the 'beholder' when it's comes to the family, i don't go for less,no,never. Functional in all aspect!

the functional wife is the more attractive option.

Who says you can't have both modelled into that one person? My fiancee is BEAUtiful,virtuous, intelli-smart, cooks a tasty dish, is employed,has front, has back, will be good with kids and is from AKWA IBOM, what more can a man ask for, pray??

azeezbaba:

I will go for the functional one cos B+ in bed is a good grade.

You are insane.

Don't be deceived, an attractive wife (minus flirting) is the joy of the husband and she can do no wrong.

Give me a beauty any day and i will turn myself into a "functional wife"

Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

Attractive is relative and depends on what qualities attract you.
What happens if after the first child, your attractive Louis Vuitton wife gets fat and ugly
Add that to the fact that she is not able to maintain the home + her new plus size destroys that bedroom energy you talked about.

Then remember that you would have to spend the rest of you life with a woman who is no longer attractive to you, whose Louis Vuitton clothes don't fit anymore and one who has lost the ability to perform bedroom miracles.

functional

we will teach herwhat she does not know and becos of her nature she will be willing to learn

attractive will never learn anything or if she does will never understand

Nosa-Henry:

Don't be deceived, an attractive wife (minus flirting) is the joy of the husband and she can do no wrong.

Give me a beauty any day and i will turn myself into a "functional wife"

funny dude

both, i'd say

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FowardEast:

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even if the woman ugly like OBJ?

But OBJ uglyoooooooooo!!

FOR ME, i don,t really know what i want

Casted a vote.

ugly like OBJ? God forbid oh! Attractive girls r also functional u know

It's a good thing polygamy is legal in Nigeria

it's possible to have both-like me

^{Mukina,thanks}

I think the consensus is with a functional wife. Yes i agree one may be lucky to get one with both qualities ,but you'll agree with me ,its quite rare. . . . .  . .

Not that the Fn wife is UGLY,hell no. . .  !

I thnk I agree with the guys that said,the beauty can fade away with the 1st 2 kids & who needs a nagging wife?

If she loves me like my mum, every other attribute is overlooked.

members please how can i make a post on nairaland

Jairzinho:

Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

can i have it both ways? i mean eat my cake and have it, just the good part

I think there should be a fair balance, just like everything else in life!

i think every men wants a functional wife
a bit of beauty you know. someone
you are confortable with.

"even if the woman ugly like OBJ?"


I dont know who OBJ is but Yea, Looks dont matter,

functional or attractive?

who cares, so long she makes me happy, but i doubt i will be happy if she aint attractive cos for me its a 'DONT GO THERE'!!!.

If she doesnt know how to take care of the house then it means i dont either, cos what are companions for? is it the sole responsibility of one person? i should have known before marrying her and i shud be comfortable with the kind of person she is before marrying her.

I want everyone to know that the real beauty of a women is not revealled in her outward appearance.(in the case of the attractive one mentioned).

But be rest assured that a good wife has all the attributes, be it functional,attractive,humble,friendly and B+ endowed in bed (according to you ).

So, the bottom line is every man should ascertain what he sees in his desired woman but be conscious of the fact in the first paragraph above

Therefore, be assured that a woman can be beautiful to behold but not functional in her duty as a wife.

Pls, don't run into relationship because of appearance, It is dangerous!!!!!!!!!

Who cares if she is attractive,as long as she is not functionally she is F9.totally zero[color=#550000][/color]