daretodiffer:
Stvpid stvpid wig
How can you be comfortable with that ugly wig?

stevealibi:

I no ur dam so jealous

daretodiffer:
Stvpid stvpid wig How can you be comfortable with that ugly wig?

Miscellaneous:


yinmu

Quakertellicus1:


Also, I wonder if the guy would be just as accepting when some guy gets his daughter pregnant in the future...

And then, who was funding the upkeep of the baby when they were students? Something tells me the parents are wealthy enough to do that...because no student, sans salary can look after any child. At least I know I won't be able to look after a child with my monthly upkeep money as a student. (To say nothing of the long hours I spent studying).

And sorry.....but if you cannot control yourself before marriage.....you may not be able to control yourself after marriage. All this no sex before marriage is to give you the backbone to resist temptation from outside both before...and crucially after you marry. Because...you will be tempted after marriage.

So...please....this couple is no good example. Am sorry, but if you want to have kids....get married first. Sort your finaces first. Don't let your parents be looking after kids in their young old age.

Let's stop glorifying this pregnancy before marriage. It is not right.

edwife:
The things we celebrate nowadays...*sighs*

What is there to be proud of? What's wrong with these youths?

Slingshotz:


I wanted to ignore ur disillusioned speech but it wud b a crime to let your hypocrisy go unpunished

1. Ur 2nd paragraph show say you no get sense

2. How did u kno d parents are taking care baby?(prophet)

3. Do u think its every corper dat deepends on 19800 to live wen i served i did side jobs n i was comfortable.

4. I see u have more likes on ur comment dan anyone i wonder if som NLrs read to comprehend...

Person wey see ur extra sheet article go think say u dey make sense....

TheSociopath:


Vicky, let us make our own baby now before it's too late

VickyRotex:


When is it gonna be too late?

In two years times when I'm finally working as an accountant in Chevron

TheSociopath:


In two years times when I'm finally working as an accountant in Chevron

OohMpa:


Swear say your mama no dey plegnant before she marry...

Everybody makes mistakes of which you might have done worse. Because you got married before you got pregnant doesn't mean you should castigate others. They might be happier than your family, you just don't know.

There are worse things in life e.g. Child abandonment, single parenthood, abortion, giving up for adoption, etc.

P.S Mind your business...

Sweetlemon:
Some people are missing something here. The mere fact that he called her his baby mama speaks volumes abput the fact that he likes it that way and may not be planning to upgrade her to fiancee or wifey anytime soon.

I've noticed this new trend these days and I can only shiver in fear for our next generation.

Sweetlemon:
Some people are missing something here. The mere fact that he called her his baby mama speaks volumes abput the fact that he likes it that way and may not be planning to upgrade her to fiancee or wifey anytime soon.

I've noticed this new trend these days and I can only shiver in fear for our next generation.

VickyRotex:


If I hear

So what will "the" baby eat before then?

Haba! Have faith na. I will hustle for something. You won't be found wanting and the baby will have everything she needs. Trust me

TheSociopath:


Haba! Have faith na. I will hustle for something. You won't be found wanting and the baby will have everything she needs. Trust me

VickyRotex:


Faith without works my brother is?

Oh so you want a baby girl?

I said I'll hustle na I'm able bodied.

And yes, first baby has to be a baby girl

daretodiffer:
What have I done again o?

TheSociopath:



I said I'll hustle na I'm able bodied.

And yes, first baby has to be a baby girl.

VickyRotex:


"Has" to be?

And if it's a boy, you'll throw him away?

TheSociopath:


No na. That is just my fantasy

tellwisdom:


Do you have big Yansh?

VickyRotex:


Okay, I see.

Unfortunately, your application could not be processed.

Icaretoo:


Am I suppose to answer that??

TheSociopath:


Lol. You've got a man, yh?

Quakertellicus1:
Nice....but let my people marry before they offload.....

Before you jump on me, kudos to the guy and the girl for standing by each other. But the reason why we have marriage is because some people are not trustworthy at all.

Also, I wonder if the guy would be just as accepting when some guy gets his daughter pregnant in the future...

And then, who was funding the upkeep of the baby when they were students? Something tells me the parents are wealthy enough to do that...because no student, sans salary can look after any child. At least I know I won't be able to look after a child with my monthly upkeep money as a student. (To say nothing of the long hours I spent studying).

And sorry.....but if you cannot control yourself before marriage.....you may not be able to control yourself after marriage. All this no sex before marriage is to give you the backbone to resist temptation from outside both before...and crucially after you marry. Because...you will be tempted after marriage.

So...please....this couple is no good example. Am sorry, but if you want to have kids....get married first. Sort your finaces first. Don't let your parents be looking after kids in their young old age.

Let's stop glorifying this pregnancy before marriage. It is not right.

Modified: I have been critiqued for my above comments....so I would like to add the following.

The reason why marriage was created, or evolved as an institution was not because someone wanted to act judgemental, but because human beings are not trustworthy people. Human beings need something to realize that the act of agreeing to spend the rest of your life with someone is not something to be taken lightly.

Also, let's be frank. NYSC allawees are not enough to look after a baby. I suspect strongly that the parents of the couple were involved in helping finance the child's upkeep. When you get married....you are indicating that you are prepared for the financial implications. That is why all them babymamas on show....if they were the son of a poor person, they won't be able to manage at all.Please don't have a baby when you are not ready for it...finance wise or otherwise. Because...if your parents are still helping out moneywise with your baby...perhaps you should have not gotten pregnant in the first place.

Lastly, yes, I think that sex before marriage is wrong. Not because I am a prude, or I wish to tell people how to live their lives(I can;t anyway, I am just some random single guy in his thirties who likes typing about aimless things)....but because, as I said earlier..if you can get through without sex before marriage...you can get through with sex after marriage....and you would have experience to handle the temptations that come. Because...all them sweet abuna that you saw before the d-day....will still be there waiting for you after you come back from the honeymoon.If you can resist them now...you can resist them after.

And peace to all them that disagreed with me. I am not condemning the copule to eternal whatever. I am not God. But...at the same time,let us not pretend that it is okay.