calmG:
I've decided to give her all the time she wants I just hope it won't be a waste of time...And I'm not comfortable with her male friends she keeps telling me they're just friends...

Creamish:
Did u propose to her and get her acceptance before speaking of Introduction?

Both of u need to be on the same page cos marriage isn't a one man journey.

If she thinks u cannot take care of her because u don't earn enuff...and shez high maintenance, move on.

If she thinks u are not financially ready to start a family, take a deep soul search. R you? If yes, talk to her. If she isn't ready to take the journey with u on ur current financial capacity, when d going gets tough, she might cheat on u...so take ur time and check if she is worth it.

JeffreyJamez:

How old is she?

Creamish:
Did u propose to her and get her acceptance before speaking of Introduction?

Both of u need to be on the same page cos marriage isn't a one man journey.

If she thinks u cannot take care of her because u don't earn enuff...and shez high maintenance, move on.

If she thinks u are not financially ready to start a family, take a deep soul search. R you? If yes, talk to her. If she isn't ready to take the journey with u on ur current financial capacity, when d going gets tough, she might cheat on u...so take ur time and check if she is worth it.

calmG:


She's 24

calmG:

You just sounded like her

CertifiedFreak:
You should give that girl a medal. She's the one sense in the nonsense you've tried to justify philandering aside. You broke, you can't keep a home right now, she sees that you don't. She's saving you from future stories like "my wife disrespects me cos I'm broke"

firstking01:
Hmmm....wey decker sef or Ronald4life...you guys are experts in this kinda topic...




Op, i dnt know why you are rushing her...is it that you are being pressurised by your family members or you thing age is no longer by your side...??

halfricanadian:


Your signature wat happened

firstking01:
Lost one of the best mums ever @exactly 26th april last year which is today making it one year now ...she was a complete perfect being...a devoted christian felt by all who came her way...the only prayer pillar we had in our family...need i say more cos i might cry here...



Where have you been by the way??

halfricanadian:

What happened to her
Ive been fine u?

firstking01:
Where have you been since morning??

halfricanadian:

Home u?

firstking01:
Home too....searched for you on threads but couldn't find you??

halfricanadian:


I kno here am i

Olasco93:
Travel to Owerri, sit her down and discuss these with her:
Ask her plainly what she want
Ask her again if she will marry you
Ask her why she keep saying she needs time
.
The solution are in her response to the questions above.

Zceesneh:
The girl them wan take photo Them love me them love the guy for igboro Brother live no be two That’s why right now, my last name na yolo And nowadays we dey keep am on the low low But if na jangolo, all on mine me solo Na so the boy go From the ghetto to internationa Lagos to Kampala Say na we dey make the place catch fire London to New York to Kigali Hu all the ladies just dey look for me Lagos to Kampala Say na we dey make the place catch fire Runtown and wizzi don’t go funny Oh all the girls just dey fight for me I tell you say i never finish I never tell you one wey happen for shitta When the boys tell me say i no go blow Even solo tell me say i no go blow Even solo tell me say i no go blow But now i be boss See i be actor for the film them be boss See i dey run everything i be doro Star boy doro International doro oh… eh *playing the song*