Hi guys, good day. Pls I may sound ridiculous, confused or Selfish, but this is just what I am going through.
There is this girl I have a crush on, 16 years running now, even till now, I later gathered the courage to tell her 3 years ago and was on it till around last year december and yet she everytime i talk about it she neither says 'yes' nor a 'no'. Two major reasons for this is that her ex who also happened to be her first love is my namesake and also she gives academicas and career more priority than relationship.
So, this december, i met an old friend, whom we last saw each other about 9 years ago. Feelings started boiling over and we staryed dating, and i thinl i love her, which made me reduce thinking about the other girl.
Now recently, the other girl has started giving me green lights, bolder and clearer than ever, knowing that i am already hooked up with this new girl. The green light is so bold that she systematically regrets she didnt give me a yes then...
The fact is that I am completely torn between them. I can't stop thinking about this girl, and also the promises I made with my girlfriend...
I know i sound selfish and confused, but i need to do something to sto this. I cant afford to lose them both. I need help!!!

Then leave their asses.

U need serious prayer because God is not an author of confusion.