A1159:
I am really concerned here. It happened 6 months ago. I was jealous. I would make this short and brief.

8 Months ago, my fiance and i, went to a dinner party somewhere on the Island in Lagos. Then there was this girl he met and claimed she was his old friend in school. They really exchanged pleasantries so much that i felt jealous. He completely migrated his attention from me to her. They hugged and all sorts.

Driving back home, i told him i wasnt comfortable with it. He was angry and he said i am too insecure that if i don't want him to talk to females because he is engaged to me i should say it. I felt embarrassed and sad like i wasn't mature. So i let it go. But days later i discovered they have been chatting, seeing each other and other stuff. He told me one day that he was traveling to Abuja to collect his Passport at the Immigration office that he wont be around for a few days. But 2 days later my friend and i were chatting and i told her i'm missing my baby and she was like 'Isnt he around'? And i said he traveled then she told me that he has been in their building for a few days that he leaves at night. And when i went to my friend place he wasn't there but i met this girl he claim is his old friend. She also lives in that building so he was seeing her and lied to me. Iw as hurt so i went online on facebook to rant then an Indian Lady sent me a PM telling me she can fix it.

She gave me her number to call her. Her voice sounded like a 12 year old girl but i just played along. She told me that she can prepare a cake for me that would make my relationship ok. She said the cake cost small money but she will send me the cake first and collect her money. She sent the ingredients of the cake to me via DHL as i received it 2 weeks later after saying Yes to her since i won't pay until i receive it. I felt i have nothing to loose. I followed the directions and baked the cake. She told me to say somethings in india language on the cake and eat the cake. I did. I was ok. My fiance had already returned from Abuja(As he claimed). I pretended all is well. After i had eaten the cake, the next night, my fiance and I had sex. I fell in love with him again but for some reasons(Work, stress, etc) we both abstained from sex since then for 6 months. We never attempted it. So last week when we tried again as our wedding is coming up very soon. He couldn't even do anything! He was impotent. We went to a doctor and he was confirmed impotent. My mother said she did some fasting and her pastor said someone spell him with charm(I remembered the cake thing). Doctor examination showed he was impotent for the past 6 months(When i did the cake stuff) we just didn't notice.

Please it has been 6 months i have lost contact with the India lady on facebook. She did not reply my message. Seems she is no longer on facebook i don't know and i have lost her number too. It is long ago please what can i do? I am scared of going to church with my family and his own as im sure the pastor will know it was me. Any help?

Your jealousy however justified is your undoing. Unfortunately, you dragged someone else into the fray.

Do or die women like you is the reason men will continue to cheat!

Knucklehead!

You better confess and seek forgiveness as your punishment is already on It's way just as you were the instrument of his punishment.

But woe unto that person that is used to exact God'e punishment as their own comeuppance is in the works. Ever heard of 'The Left Hand of God'?

Odunharry:

lol...The way people dey do things all cos of LOVE de tire me honestly.
she Neva caught the guy cheating and obviously she's insecure.
Na her type go fight any female friend make talk to her husband .
I hope she's learnt a lesson or two and hopefully she change..

People like her don't change.

After this situation is hopefully resolved she returns back to type. How easy and soon we forget.

Oga oo this is serious gobe. Serves the guy right n the lady should learn to live with the guy like that.

Actually the charm worked no other woman can have him now, he's all yours, when you tinker with dark forces this is what you get. Wishes are always twisted when dealing with dark forces.

Odunharry:

You never caught him red handed but you took all what your friend told you hook, line and sinker..

How silly to go rant on social media and heeding to an advice lik that from someone you don't know..

May God help us all

... Tru talk. I just pity the poor man.

Na wa o.

You don't have to be worried about the pastor knowing you were responsible. If Nairaland knows, your fiance will definitely know. It's just a matter of time.

Better do a Google search for cakes from India that can make someone impotent...and search also for cakes from India that can make someone fertile.

Goodluck with finding the cure and when you do, please tell him all you did. The wedding may be called off but see it as a good thing because it will save you both from a lifetime of heartache.

Please go for fertility tests, you might also have being rendered infertile. And while you are yet to resolve this, ensure you don't sleep with anyone else. Make I goggle this cake stuff, ignorance is a disease.

JhimmySpark:
... Tru talk. I just pity the poor man.

Things make dey happen under this earth ehn... Devil go fear fear too

simababe:
Oga oo this is serious gobe. Serves the guy right n the lady should learn to live with the guy like that.

Are you for real or something??
Did you read anywhere where she caught the guy red handed?? Even if she did, what happened to breaking up??
I'm sure if it's your brother, you will say the same thing or if a guy render ur womb useless all because someone told him you are a cheat.. You will be happy right??

4C2215131:


People like her don't change.

After this situation is hopefully resolved she returns back to type. How easy and soon we forget.

Very true observation you made..
I hope she work on herself and also seek for help.

Hmmmm, e leyi gidi gan o, all i can say is open up to your mom, she would only get angry, but at d end she still your mom...and i believe she wants the best for u, go with her to the prophet and see if they can help u out....if not you'll have to live with him like that o.....

Sometimes we just have to look d other way in relationship to make it grow...








Vote Class, Beauty, Brain, Humility, Vote MYSTICGAL....

Wow I arrived late.

Send me a pm OP. There isn't really a reversal for it but we can work something out.

Incredible! How desperate can one get! Without asking questions you ate a cake prepared with unknown stuff from India of all places? I'm afraid there's no antidote for the charm. You've ruined that man for life 'cos of your insecurity.

I wonder how hideous and undesirable you look for you to assume no other guy would want you if your fiancé leaves you. The most honorable path to take would have been to opt out of the relationship if you have concrete reason to believe he's cheating.

Rather you resorted to black magic without thinking of the repercussions. You'll surely be exposed for the heartless woman you are. Your fiancé and his family will know the kind of woman they intended to marry.

Lesson to anyone intending to marry. Be wary of the kind of person you're about to settle down with. If he/she is the extremely jealous type, don't proceed with marriage. Those kinds of insecure people are capable of anything. They can murder you in a fit of jealousy.

You shld have just walk away from him and the relationship instead of doing this silly thing you did.

Am digusted by your story and pissed.
How could you stoop so low to receive advice from one "INDIAN" principality that calls herself a lady to give you advice and tell you what to concerning your relationship.
My dear you messed up big time...what you did lays a bad foundation for your marriage.
It would take the grace of God for that marriage to be successful!
MAY GOD HELP YOU IJN!

When you look for what is not lost, prepare to get what you weren't expecting. Our ancestors have been using love potion for ages, but I've never come across this kind of thing. Anyway, I suggest you look for other Indians online and ask for their assistance.

I've read something like this here before
But this one was, the strange woman gave the desperate woman liquid substance to pour on her boyfriend not knowing it was acid.

Women and men please be careful about how you receive relationship advice from people especially strangers. some people are wolves in sheep clothing


You want to kill yourself over a man you are suspicious is cheating on you. If he really is cheating that already is a comma in the impending marriage and you want to kill yourself instead of looking for someone to treat you right.

Jesus!! how could you? what came over you? u are heartless.

Strahovski1:
Wow I arrived late.

Send me a pm OP. There isn't really a reversal for it but we can work something out.

cc:A1159
the indian is here.

Countrygirl:
cc:A1159
the indian is here.

LOL she sent me an email. I'd try my best but that cake has no reversal or antidote except the person who prepared the ingredients. I told her to send me copy of the ingredients and instructions she received 6 months ago maybe i can work around it.

Why is my country always used for this kinda stuff?

Chai, we guys must be careful abt what we eat. Damn, this ladies are really wicked and cannot be trusted. I will never eat cake or any food from a lady again in my life.

Strahovski1:


LOL she sent me an email. I'd try my best but that cake has no reversal or antidote except the person who prepared the ingredients. I told her to send me copy of the ingredients and instructions she received 6 months ago maybe i can work around it.

Why is my country always used for this kinda stuff?

Pls help her.
Ur country is special.

KashyBaby:
He slept around...maybe it was not u who "charmed" him alone...


Who knows what his other woman do to him since she knows that he'll be marrying u...what do u think ?

Just take a look at ur statement.

SecretAgent:
Chai, we guys must be careful abt what we eat. Damn, this ladies are really wicked and cannot be trusted. I will never eat cake or any food from a lady again in my life.

Hahaha,i hope ur sisters inclusive.

ClintonDal:
Just take a look at ur statement.

What abt that boo?

Haba u went too far...........well jst keep prayn

Strahovski1:


LOL she sent me an email. I'd try my best but that cake has no reversal or antidote except the person who prepared the ingredients. I told her to send me copy of the ingredients and instructions she received 6 months ago maybe i can work around it.

Why is my country always used for this kinda stuff?

Your country is the headquarter of jazz

KashyBaby:



What abt that boo?

It's quite clear she is the harbinger of her own doom, but the way you twist everything just to soothe her mind... that's quite horrible, if at all her story is true.

ClintonDal:

It's quite clear she is the harbinger of her own doom, but the way you twist everything just to soothe her mind... that's quite horrible, if at all her story is true.

I didn't twist the thing boo, I'm only thinking the possibilities cud /might happened...

KashyBaby:



I didn't twist the thing boo, I'm only thinking the possibilities cud /might happened...

Yes you did, you twisted to justify what she had done. Making it look seem like it's his fault.

simababe:
Oga oo this is serious gobe. Serves the guy right n the lady should learn to live with the guy like that.

Serves the guy right?......are you fvcking kidding me?

God forbid but if any girl try this shii with me, she would sweep the floor from where ever she is to sambisa forest in maiduguri.

Witches everywhere!

Lol...