He Gives Up Before It Even Starts!
Your destiny is too big for him, and because of that he brings up excuses (flimsy) of how you act as tho you don't need a man.. whereas, he is the weakling that can't handle your vision!
Some weaklings (men) enjoy when a woman run to them for everything, they enjoy the honor and authority, but get threatened immediately she is able to clean her own mess and take charge of her own life. As FOCUSED women, we don't need such negativity in our life, we don't need weaklings that call themselves men (infact, I consider it an insult to the real MEN out there. It's pathetic they have to share same sex with the weaklings)
The bottom line is this; As a woman going somewhere to happen, you can't afford to be with just any man... No! It shatters the vision, it truncates your destiny and it discourages God to help you get to where you are going. So don't let any man belittle you because of his Primitiveness. You are too much for him and he just can't understand the grace upon your life... don't ever feel you are lonely because you are not. The author of your life is with you and he will finish what he has started. So don't let any weakling get in the way of where God is taking you. At the appropriate time, he will bring the befitting king. You just keep being a queen anyways
A man can only love you best when he loves God first.

whistles

I laugh in swahili while perceiving a broken heart.

A man can only love you best when he loves God first...

If you want to love me first love God

Nice write up op

You were being sagacious and lucid until you deviated from deductive reasoning to pious and evangelism. Your message would have been more grounded had you not given it religious coloration. I fail to see the nexus between being a strong independent woman and the zealous preaching of your message.

gabinogem:
I laugh in swahili while perceiving a broken heart.

you know, every post doesn't have to relate to the OP's personal life. Sometimes, you write things to inspire and encourage people.. you don't have to experience a thing directly to inspire someone (tho experiencing it directly is a plus as it gives you the opportunity to know exactly how whoever might be in the situation you are talking about feels).
So while I thank God for your "perceiving ability" I think you should channel it unto positivity

halfricanadian:
If you want to love me first love God
Nice write up op

thank you

ronald4ever:
You were being sagacious and lucid until you deviated from deductive reasoning to pious and evangelism. Your message would have been more grounded had you not given it religious coloration. I fail to see the nexus between being a strong independent woman and the zealous preaching of your message.

it is my write up and I think I'm permitted to write what I feel and not what ronald4ever expects you did the categorising not me

amokeme:
it is my write up and I think I'm permitted to write what I feel and not what ronald4ever expects you did the categorising not me

You sure reserve the permission to write what you feel just like I also have the right to air my opinion.

I made no categorisation. I'm saying that your message would have been more logical without the evangelical imbuing and religious coloration. What's the correlation between a strong-willed, independent and goal driven woman with God this and God that in your message?

ronald4ever:


You sure reserve the permission to write what you feel just like I also have the right to air my opinion.

I made no categorisation. I'm saying that your message would have been more logical without the evangelical imbuing and religious coloration. What's the correlation between a strong-willed, independent and goal driven woman with God this and God that in your message?

ok

that means linda ikeji is a strong woman,.....


And she is still single at that age

amokeme:
ok

... u home ?

skywalker240:
that means linda ikeji is a strong woman,.....



And she is still single at that age

Is it possible for every single person on earth to get married?=NO

ivyT:

Is it possible for every single person on earth to get married?=NO

But it is possible to wish they were..




Cos clearly, even if she is ready to,. no sane man will be willing to put up with such.

And pls stop viewing most men as weakling when u dont really know his true potentials.

amokeme:
you know, every post doesn't have to relate to the OP's personal life. Sometimes, you write things to inspire and encourage people.. you don't have to experience a thing directly to inspire someone (tho experiencing it directly is a plus as it gives you the opportunity to know exactly how whoever might be in the situation you are talking about feels).
So while I thank God for your "perceiving ability" I think you should channel it unto positivity

based on ur write up, is it a crime for a strong woman to support or encourage a weakling? And if I may ask, what's ur definition of a "weakling" man?

gabinogem:
based on ur write up, is it a crime for a strong woman to support or encourage a weakling? And if I may ask, what's ur definition of a "weakling" man?

read the post again, you will get my defination

Word for them girls

KingEbukasBlog:


... u home ?

since since naw... no time

Word for them girls...

amokeme:
read the post again, you will get my defination

Ur post is filled with hate while covering it up with "weakling men & religious sentiments".

My advice, change ur ideology about life, it will do much good.

ronald4ever:


You sure reserve the permission to write what you feel just like I also have the right to air my opinion.

I made no categorisation. I'm saying that your message would have been more logical without the evangelical imbuing and religious coloration. What's the correlation between a strong-willed, independent and goal driven woman with God this and God that in your message?

Are you an atheist or what??,,,you are ronald4life i supposed??

skywalker240:

But it is possible to wish they were..




Cos clearly, even if she is ready to,. no sane man will be willing to put up with such.

And pls stop viewing most men as weakling when u dont really know his true potentials.

what potentials? My defination of weakling is not a broke guy sir. A man can have all the money in the world and still be a weakling. Read the post carefully you will understand my definition of a weakling

firstking01:
Are you an atheist or what??,,,you are ronald4life i supposed??

he obviously is, reason why I didn't bother explaining further

amokeme:
he obviously is, reason why I didn't bother explaining further

Alright dear.

gabinogem:
Ur post is filled with hate while covering it up with "weakling men & religious sentiments".

My advice, change ur ideology about life, it will do much good.

hate?? Are you kidding me?
Lol, where do people reason from Anyways, your opinion, air it as you please.. you are entitled to it

amokeme:
what potentials? My defination of weakling is not a broke guy sir. A man can have all the money in the world and still be a weakling. Read the post carefully you will understand my definition of a weakling

Now i understand


U ARE DRIVING @ SUCESS, AND UR MAN GETS JEALOUS U ARE SUCESSFUL RIGHT?

Poignant message.

Basic! Strong women can't handle bearing two pusees. If only they could shave of the one they'd been endowed by natural selection...

skywalker240:

Now i understand


U ARE DRIVING @ SUCESS, AND UR MAN GETS JEALOUS U ARE SUCESSFUL RIGHT?

jealous or tries to pull you down because of his esteem issues

amokeme:
jealous or tries to pull you down because of his esteem issues

Then u misunderstood the drill.....



ANY MAN WHO TRULY LOVES U WONT WANT TO SEE UR DOWNFALL,,.WEAKLING OR WHATEVER.