Mindfulness:


I am just having fun. You cracked me up.

I know girl . One can live in hope eh?

dearbunmi:

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Dear Dorothy,

Because you have no morals, no scruples, no conscience and no common sense. It is clear that you have no respect for your husband, his friendship or your marriage vows. You may think you are happy now, but the joy will evaporate when your husband finds out about your affair. Sexual compatibility is important in a marriage, but it takes a lot more than good sex to make a long, mutually rewarding relationship. Dont throw away a good future for you and your kid for a sexual fling. By the way, why did you marry your husband in the first place?

Bunmi

http://dearbunmi.com/he-satisfies-me-more-than-my-husband/
ask@dearbunmi.com

Rubbish piece of advice.

If se.xual compatibility is important, why haven't you said anything SMART that would help the couple to solve their problem instead of judging someone who wants to satisfy her most natural needs?

Judgmental id.iot. Who allows such people give "advice" in the first place?

shaybebaby:

I know girl . One can live in hope eh?

You hope that men will be given the same rubbish advice that can never work as women are given? I don't believe you.

This act is evil. However, men please don't give your spouse the excuse to even be tempted because of sexual incompatibility. See my signature for help.

Mindfulness:


You hope that men will be given the same rubbish advice that can never work as women are given? I don't believe you.

Hehehehe he, I just want to know how that pill tastes in their mouth when they are asked to swallow it.
Never say never, abi na Dem Dey talk say with god, all things are possible.
Time to put their money where their mouth is.

shaybebaby:

Hehehehe he, I just want to know how that pill tastes in their mouth when they are asked to swallow it.
Never say never, abi na Dem Dey talk say with god, all things are possible.
Time to put their money where their mouth is.

They know the pill is bitter and does not even have any placebo effects and that's why they will never swallow it but some desperate females gladly will.

Mindfulness:


So men know what women actually enjoy but they won't give it to those they like the most but only to those they don't care about and you call females fish brain?

Communication is very germane in relationships. As a woman, if you wanted ur spouse to handle you anyhow in bed, you let him know is what you want instead of cheating with another man. You can even help him with sex enhancing drugs after all he is your property too.

Mindfulness:


They know the pill is bitter and does not even have any placebo effects and that's why they will never swallow it but some desperate females gladly will.

Word!

Ajixegun:


Communication is very germane in relationship. As a woman, if you wanted ur spouse to handle you anyhow in bed, you let him know is what you want instead of cheating with another man.

We don't know if the woman has told the husband what she wants or whether she hasn't, do we?

You can even help him with sex enhancing drugs after all he is your property too.

What makes you think that a woman is satisfied just because you last longer? Maybe he doesn't go down on her? Maybe his pe.nis is not the right size. Maybe he doesn't do any pre-intimacy. Maybe he doesn't know how to touch her right. Maybe he has become too fat. Maybe he only does one position. Maybe the spark in their relationship has died its natural death ..................................................................................................

Mindfulness:


We don't know if the woman has told the husband what she wants or whether she hasn't, do we?



What makes you think that a woman is satisfied just because you last longer? Maybe he doesn't go down on her? Maybe his pe.nis is not the right size. Maybe he doesn't do any pre-intimacy. Maybe he doesn't know how to touch her right. Maybe he has become too fat. Maybe he only does one position. Maybe the spark in their relationship has died its natural death ..................................................................................................

This is the reason you have to marry your friend because you always hear each others' plight.

As a woman, if u want aforementioned, it's still based on having a good communication with ur spouse.
For small p***s issue, I believe every women knows d size of her man's p***s prior deciding to go into marriage with him dat if she is not blinded by money.

Mindfulness:


We don't know if the woman has told the husband what she wants or whether she hasn't, do we?



What makes you think that a woman is satisfied just because you last longer? Maybe he doesn't go down on her? Maybe his pe.nis is not the right size. Maybe he doesn't do any pre-intimacy. Maybe he doesn't know how to touch her right. Maybe he has become too fat. Maybe he only does one position. Maybe the spark in their relationship has died its natural death ..................................................................................................

Maybe she tried all of the above and he still didn't make any effort on his own part.(just adding to your possible reasons my sister).
The only axe I have to grind with the woman is her deceit. Whatever her reasons are, she owes her husband the truth. No need for subterfuge, whatever justification she might have prior, the deceit cannot be excused. She must be honest with herself and her partner.

shaybebaby:

Maybe she tried all of the above and he still didn't make any effort on his own part.(just adding to your possible reasons my sister).
The only axe I have to grind with the woman is her deceit. Whatever her reasons are, she owes her husband the truth. No need for subterfuge, whatever justification she might have prior, the deceit cannot be excused. She must be honest with herself and her partner.

Thanks . You are a true woman
Some people actually like living in a world of relativism

Ajixegun:


This is the reason you have to marry your friend because you always hear each others' plight.

As a woman, if u want aforementioned, it's still based on having a good communication with ur spouse.
For small p***s issue, I believe every women knows d size of her man's p***s prior deciding to go into marriage with him dat if she is not blinded by money.

There is no guarantee that the friendship / relationship won't change. In fact, it is very likely it will because everything changes constantly.

shaybebaby:

Maybe she tried all of the above and he still didn't make any effort on his own part.(just adding to your possible reasons my sister).

True.

The only axe I have to grind with the woman is her deceit. Whatever her reasons are, she owes her husband the truth. No need for subterfuge, whatever justification she might have prior, the deceit cannot be excused. She must be honest with herself and her partner.

Many people can't handle the truth and some people don't want to know it.

Ajixegun:


Thanks . You are a true woman
Some people actually like living in a world of relativism

Thank you but I don't know about the true woman bit.
If she is not satisfied sexuality and wants to seek sexual fulfilment elsewhere, it is her right to do so, I cannot fault her for this. She is entitled to make her choice and I fully support that.

But I also support that she gives her man the choice as well, to try to make it work with a woman who isn't sexually satisfied with him, has cheated and maybe is still interested in making marriage work; or to decide that it is a deal breaker for him as well. Whatever he decides, it is his right as an individual.

Mindfulness:


True.




Many people can't handle the truth and some people don't want to know it.

Ever heard, life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you choose to deal with it. What has happened, has happened. Whether they can deal with it or not is their problem. As long as the opportunity has been given to them to play an active role in shaping their lives.

There's a saying that if a cheating married woman doesn't end up killing herself then she would end up killing her husband.

shaybebaby:

Ever heard, life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you choose to deal with it. What has happened, has happened. Whether they can deal with it or not is their problem. As long as the opportunity has been given to them to play an active role in shaping their lives.

I will dare and say that MOST people lie in their marriages for the simple reason that they will be judged if they don't.
Cheating is one of the 100 million ways of deception. Without deception, the divorce rate would be somewhere around 90%.

And that's the reality that MOST pople are not ready to hear.

Mindfulness:


I will dare and say that MOST people lie in their marriages for the simple reason that they will be judged if they don't.
Cheating is one of the 100 million ways of deception. Without deception, the divorce rate would be somewhere around 90%.

And that's the reality that MOST pople are not ready to hear.

Amen to that. I would extend that beyond lying in marriages to lying to themselves in general.
Not many are brave enough to truly examine themselves and acknowledge failings within themselves, hence why they are so quick to attack others...deflecting scrutiny away from their persons.

shaybebaby:

Amen to that. I would extend that beyond lying in marriages to lying to themselves in general.
Not many are brave enough to truly examine themselves and acknowledge failings within themselves, hence why they are so quick to attack others...deflecting scrutiny away from their persons.

I think that it is more common for people to be beating up on themselves, which is being reflected in the attacking of others (projection) so I would much rather plead for people to put themselves above any ancient, screwed norms so that they feel better and in return make those around them feel at ease too.

This whole marriage affair is taken too seriously but it is much better and healthier when it is fun, every other relationship is better when it is fun and easy.

shaybebaby:

Thank you but I don't know about the true woman bit.
If she is not satisfied sexuality and wants to seek sexual fulfilment elsewhere, it is her right to do so, I cannot fault her for this. She is entitled to make her choice and I fully support that.

But I also support that she gives her man the choice as well, to try to make it work with a woman who isn't sexually satisfied with him, has cheated and maybe is still interested in making marriage work; or to decide that it is a deal breaker for him as well. Whatever he decides, it is his right as an individual.

Your kind of person is called 'se eku se eye'

Do you know why Diana and Prince Charles go their different ways, it was when Diana ate the forbidden fruit with a guard an army captain in the palace. Most men care less about the sexual pleasure or satisfaction of their wives. There will be no fore play, they don't help their wives to reach orgasm. For the woman to express her dissatisfaction, she is called unprintable names. As much as I will not encourage sexual promiscuity particularly for a married woman, I seldom jump to conclusions. What happens when a man cannot last for seven to twenty minutes in the sack. There are so many angles to this matter. My heart goes out to every woman married to a drunk, selfish or uncaring man. For counseling call/whatdapp 08037546226

you Just have to accept Jesus as your lord and personal saviour.teach your husband that thing that is making. you to run after another man.

Mindfulness:


I think that it is more common for people to be beating up on themselves, which is being reflected in the attacking of others (projection) so I would much rather plead for people to put themselves above any ancient, screwed norms so that they feel better and in return make those around them feel at ease too.

This whole marriage affair is taken too seriously but it is much better and healthier when it is fun, every other relationship is better when it is fun and easy.

I would advice anyone who wants cheat on his/her spouse not go into marriage, because is an institution to be guided jealously. Have your fun without hurting anyone is spiritually and emotionally attached to you.

I am very sure you don't even love your husband in the first place for you to have fell so cheaply for his friend all because of sex, madam both you and your fucking mate are wicked and has no conscience whatsoever, mind you by d time your cup is full your husband will kick you out like a dog, you will be a disgrace to urself, children and your own family meanwhile your sex partner will find a way to save his marriage while only you bear d shame and pains. think about d story your husband will tell ur kids probably when they grow up. you can actually work things out with your husband so he can meet your demands sexually. pls you have been married for how many years?

Ajixegun:


I would advice anyone who wants cheat on his/her spouse not go into marriage, because is an institution to be guided jealously.

Who says that the woman planned to cheat?
Jealousy is the result of insecurity, which has destroyed millions of relationships.

Have your fun without hurting anyone is spiritually and emotionally attached to you.

Some people stay married in order not to hurt their kids in the process of a divorce but neither want to hurt themselves by living a life free of fulfillment.

esxty:
by the time your husband find out it will be another story. the man can always save his marriage but you can't. his wife will be with him but your husband will sweep you.

Wow! U know the way of men! That so intelligent of u

maybe the guy is richer, taller, more handsome and intelligent than your husband maybe wen he has the chance to Bleep you he takes energising drugs to perform ones in a while. fool consider the life of a married man: he wakes early in the morning rushes out in Chase of money to take care of you and you children, he comes home tired exhausted no light probably no water to shower he manages to get to bed and you expect pornographic sex sorry. that happens ones in a while wen he has peace of mind both from is work or business and from you the wife I bet you if you ask that your ofuckers wife she will tell you how her husband is weak in bed

wristbangle:
You are involve in extra marital affair with a married man who happens to be your husband's friend yet u claim to be happy? You are a disgrace to the race of Women, a chronic prostitute and the earlier the better your husband kicks you out of the home the moment he catches u in such infidel act. I honestly don't know why some women think with their butt. Smh

My brother, the matter tire me.. The lady is heartless no doubt but the friend to the husband is more wicked.. There are 2 things about sex that we fail to notice.

1- Sexual Intercourse should not be a competitive indoor sport, nor a virtuoso performance to be boasted about later, but a physical and emotional expression of a warm relationship between two mutually attracted people.

2- Sexual Intercourse is not just a silent monotonous thrust of an urgent penis into an indifferent vagina. It is a complex, varied group of activities which can lead to the maximum sexual joy for both participants.

Till we get it right, situations like this are bound to occur frequently. To the Ladies, don't see yourself as a dumping receptacle. To the Men, don't see your joystick as a mere instrument that need plunging into different holes.

DrHighchief:

Is dis d advice you can give? Instead for you to advice her to stop d illicit act, you are happy for her.
What will you do when you here your best friend is sleeping with your wife? It is a taboo.
God bless nigeria

What will I do?

Forgive her or Divorce her.. #Shikina

DrHighchief:

Is dis d advice u can give?

What did I say that was bad?

dammydrumz:
really?

wat else can i say?