dearbunmi:
Dear Bunmi,

I have been married for three years and we have a daughter. I have been secretly seeing one of my husbands friends for the past six months though he is also married. We have a sexual relationship and love each other so much. But I feel bad because this man is a better lover than my husband. As a result, I have not had sex with my husband for weeks. I know that this is a wrong thing to do, but Im very happy this way. Why?

Dorothy,

by e-mail.

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Dear Dorothy,

Because you have no morals, no scruples, no conscience and no common sense. It is clear that you have no respect for your husband, his friendship or your marriage vows. You may think you are happy now, but the joy will evaporate when your husband finds out about your affair. Sexual compatibility is important in a marriage, but it takes a lot more than good sex to make a long, mutually rewarding relationship. Dont throw away a good future for you and your kid for a sexual fling. By the way, why did you marry your husband in the first place?

Bunmi

http://dearbunmi.com/he-satisfies-me-more-than-my-husband/
ask@dearbunmi.com

shaybebaby:

Thank you but I don't know about the true woman bit.
If she is not satisfied sexuality and wants to seek sexual fulfilment elsewhere, it is her right to do so, I cannot fault her for this. She is entitled to make her choice and I fully support that.

Equalizer:
She's just a cheat on the lose who got married by mistake.. I've said it before and am gonna say it one more time.. After God the next person to fear is women... OMG! Am just so paranoid about this thing called marriage.

diva90:


Funny how everyone has a million things to say when a woman is the one cheating. But when it's a man cheating... It's presumed 'Normal'. I don't support infidelity but let us not be biased when we judge. Marriage is a nice institution if you marry for the right reasons and to the right person. Don't be paranoid or scared

Tabh:
Why is everyone Insulting the lady, is she fuvking herself?
What happens to the friend that cares less about loyalty to friendship and marriage. Male prostitute.

Flexherbal:
How did you start it?
It is never too late to turn back on a wrong road.
Get your husband my natural Herbal Tea and you will sing songs joy till the end.
The tea gives men the strength and hardness and confidence to perform their duties.

Toks2008:
When a woman wants to be wayward,she will look for dumb excuses.

This is why im so indifferent to any relationship right now...there is hardly one sexually decent lady out there but it is the level of indecency that now counts.

tntcorps:
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Are you innocent?

crazygod:

Dude wats with all this 'king james' English na? Its believes not believeth

Phame:
That woman is a cow.

MizMyColi:


I think you need to work on your mind.
I've seen your posts around here enough to draw my conclusion.

You are not just pessimistic but exhibit a rather extreme dose of sanctimoniosity and self righteousness.

You feel like no one out there is really good enough for you.
But then again, within, you seem lonely and desire a perfect being as you are....but far from it, you are not.

Change your vibes.
Elevate your frequency.
Do away with personal pride.

Love everyone.
Stop being too judgemental.

Bye and have a laughter filled day...
That's if you can.

theEYe21:
Why is it that it's the woman's responsibility to say no, can't the man say no too, abi his mouth is bent ni?

loswhite:
When u propose to marry a woman who says yes or no? or na woman dey propose to you ni

hedonistic:


A MARRIED woman has the right and is "entitled" to seek sexual fulfilment elsewhere? Is that part of the agreement you signed at the marriage registry? Does this load of chap make any sense to you?

What happened to filing for divorce if you're not getting the so-called sexual satisfaction from your marriage and think that that is the most important thing you need as a dog constantly in heat? Must you stay in the marriage by force and ridicule your husband by getting fuc.ked like a dog by his own friend... of all people?

Goodness.

Toks2008:
When a woman wants to be wayward,she will look for dumb excuses.

This is why im so indifferent to any relationship right now...there is hardly one sexually decent lady out there but it is the level of indecency that now counts.

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