they love guys who v cars, a fat bank account and all the flashy things of life, does this make them gold diggers?

Girls are not generally gold diggers, they can be materialistic but not gold-diggers - thats cos in most cases around the world, they can afford these things.

However, most naija girls are both materialistic and gold digging lazy bums who sit around and hope shit comes their way. . . Its just appalling

they are only trying to balance the books, survival
its up to the poor prey!

pongwa:

they love guys who v cars, a fat bank account and all the flashy things of life, does this make them gold diggers?

It depends on the lady's motive and too what lengths she would go to snag herself a rich dude. . .there are some lazy women whose sole aim in life is to string for themselves a rich dude without contributing anything to their own well being or development. . .these sort of women I can't stand!

Now speaking from my own perspective. . .I know where I came from. . .I know where I am today. . . and I know where am going tomm. . .if you ain't got no prospectives then I ain't messing with you. . .simple!  

No. Very few are.

@crude oil,
not very few are,most of them are.

None of them is. Naturally, they're not meant to suffer.

really

right on point Ben.

whitelexi:

Girls are not generally gold diggers, they can be materialistic but not gold-diggers - thats cos in most cases around the world, they can afford these things.

However, most naija girls are both materialistic and gold digging lazy bums who sit around and hope shit comes their way. . . Its just appalling

i suport teh highlighted part - and although an independent woman comes with her own dramas - so does a dependent woman - Guys its up to you to choose which type of wahala you want!!

Ben20001:

None of them is. Naturally, they're not meant to suffer.

Thanks bros but to assist .

TheSeeker:

"And I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she don't messing with no broke niggaz . . . . ."

Gbam!

I'm not looking for a Sheik with hundred castles but at the same time a guy with prospects (unrealized) isn't enough.

Don't generalise. There may be some females like that but Im sure there are some males who fit the bill as well.

Girls just need security! A nice guy will good prospects is fine too!

@poster - well it depends on ur own perception of who a gold digger is! cos there certainly aint nothing wrong with 'ving a man with all those things u listed!

pongwa:

they love guys who v cars, a fat bank account and all the flashy things of life, does this make them gold diggers?

@vjay,
same as nothing wrong in you having a handiwork of ur own n takecare of ursef like they do oversea,after all isn't it the culture you girls copy?

henryhemon:

@vjay,
same as nothing wrong in you having a handiwork of ur own n takecare of ursef like they do oversea,after all isn't it the culture you girls copy?

dont ve any problems with that either henry!

TheSeeker:

Where are those few women who are entrepreneurial and have great business ideas? What happened to them? Must every woman dig men's pockets and bank accounts?

Most women make their own money. We just to ensure that we are not tying ourselves down to a guy who is not ready to pull his end of the rope. That is the reason most ladies go for rich guys or guys with prospects. No one wants to be pulled down. Even you have to admit that there are some people (ladies and guys) who do not have much ambition.

i guess the real test of whether a woman is a gold digger or not is when the couple divorce and she insists on taking him to the cleaners even though her financial contribution to the the family coffers had been negligible.

must thank y'all for the replies, are we tryin to say ladies date only rich guys(wat they understand as prospects) due to their insecurities. and also frolicks around with less privileged dudes? i v an experience on dat

pongwa:

must thank y'all for the replies, are we tryin to say ladies date only rich guys(wat they understand as prospects) due to their insecurities. and also frolicks around with less privileged dudes? i v an experience on dat

must thank y'all for the replies, are we tryin to say MEN date only rich women (whom they may view as desperate looking for a MAN) so as to pounce on their insecurities while frolicking around with less privileged and young women?    


If you can answer the same for MEN, you can answer the same for WOMEN ?

posakosa:

James Bassey fits the description of MALE GOLD DIGGER.   

lol

,mama-gee:

lol

Action Mama, wetin dey shele for your side now ?

hell yes my friend girls re gold diggers expecially the single miserable ones in their mid 20s and late 20s.But the problem lies with us men we make them the gold diggers they re.If we stop spending too much money on them and spending more time with them instead. A walk in the beach,the street, sports and other fun activity rather than us thinking spending money on them will make them want us. Money cant buy you love but can certainly buy u a gold digger
Life

posakosa:


Action Mama,  wetin dey shele for your side now ? 

Nothing, I just dey shine.

99.9 % of dem in nigeria are
if u doubt this ask my EX gf!

No we aren't, get hold of yourself

@ OP, funny you should ask. But the only guys who should worry about this issue are the truly loaded ones. So unless you're "holding" like Paddy Adenuga, the Ibrus and co., I don't think you have anything to fear .

naija women re gold diggers some re even diamond diggers