would you? Disclaimer: Cheating really sucks, infidelity
puts your relationship in danger. What may not be so clear is what to do once you
come to terms with your big, fat mistake: Should
you share your guilt or carry it for the rest of the
relationship?

What clouds your mind after u cheated? Do u feel guilt or you console your self with the words " shebi am human I should make mistakes and ask for forgiveness better still I wasn't caught let me just keep quiet it' was the devil and so on " .... Are some things better being said or unsaid just to justify how moral or self discipline one can be perhaps I should use the word" faithful "



Just a second thought question is "would u tell your partner u cheated if u happened to cheat ? Would you "?

Y will I hurt her

Somethings are better left untold!

iceberylin:
Y will I hurt her

if she does tell you does that mean she intentionally did to hurt u?

You need to forgive yourself, then let it go. Confessing to ur partner is a trust killer.

Two years ago my gf confessed to cheating on me.

Though I've forgiven her, I can't forget what she did or trust her again.

Estharfabian:
Rhetorical Question, eh?

rhetorical or not " lol would you ?

I dont plan to cheat

sexylogan:
Two years ago my gf confessed to cheating on me.

Though I've forgiven her, I can't forget what she did or trust her again.

U don't trust her then u haven't forgiven her , am not saying u should forget blood flows through our veins I understand your grieve . I bet if u find any girl better than her u would dump her straight lol my opinion though

If she is the type of Bae that is like top detective omo I go report myself ooo.. it will be better I tell her and she forgives me dan for her to find out herself..

....hmmmm 2 things are involved...u tell ur partner n u loose trust...u don't tell ur partner he or she finds out....more issues...it's complicated abeg....I don't know...

talk2alabama:
If she is the type of Bae that is like top detective omo I go report myself ooo.. it will be better I tell her and she forgives me dan for her to find out herself..

Couldn't help but laugh funny lol

For wat, y would I want to cos uneccessary problem for my self

talk2alabama:
If she is the type of Bae that is like top detective omo I go report myself ooo.. it will be better I tell her and she forgives me dan for her to find out herself..

Wetin concern agbero n overload?

If She Cheated Its Best She Keep It To Herself, If Her Mouth Scratch Her Com Tell Me, End Of D Relationship

My gf confessed to me she cheated I just laughed and worked out later she called me crying that she's so sorry I asked her did he use a condom? She said yes but she's deeply sorry I told her OK I forgive u but I can never trust u again am human and months later I went for HIV and aids test nd tnk God am clean. the painful tin is when a guy is trying to be faithful avoiding temptations avoiding meeting up with oda ladies reducing dem on ur watsapp list and u find out or rather she confesses she's cheating on u it makes u luk so stupid like wtf Have I been doing? But u remember God forgave us on that cross and forgive her but we still togeda sha

chimkaire:

hehehehe... I no wan die befor my time

well i'lld say it depends on how understanding d partner is, you know your partner better.
but I know I can handle cheating better if he was truely sorry and told me himself. I pray it never happens though.

Thats why i hate to put mysef in dis kind of situation

Sure me i wont lie i wud b angry for some period very angry

Nt later forgive bt if it becomes a regular thing i'm off

talk2alabama:
hehehehe... I no wan die befor my time

your siggy though

rawpadgin:
If She Cheated Its Best She Keep It To Herself, If Her Mouth Scratch Her Com Tell Me, End Of D Relationship

gbam

chimkaire:
your siggy though

I put it there so it"l motivate me to work hard

xendra:
well i'lld say it depends on how understanding d partner is, you know your partner better.
but I know I can handle cheating better if he was truely sorry and told me himself. I pray it never happens though.

I notice men find it hard to forget and trust again there are more chances the lady is willingly to forgive and forget compared to men

[size=15pt]I do my best to avoid cheating on my partner, and it has been working for me... Tho for men, its easy to tell ur partner, you'll cook up the story to make her feel it won't happen again, buh for the ladies, I won't advice her to tell him because he will never trust you again.. BUT CHEATING IS VERY BAD[/size]

vchykp:
[size=15pt]I do my best to avoid cheating on my partner, and it has been working for me... Tho for men, its easy to tell ur partner, you'll cook up the story to make her feel it won't happen again, buh for the ladies, I won't advice her to tell him because he will never trust you again.. BUT CHEATING IS VERY BAD[/size]

exactly

there is no safe return from cheating and once I get to know that's it, we are done..we could communicate though n check up on each other but the relationship is dead n gone cus I can't date anyone out of pity...when I don't trust anyone in this life n a lady will throw away the lil benefit of doubt I gave to her..Naaa we r so done..