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Why Most Ladies Fail by Seyibabalola(m): 8:40pm On May 08, 2016 |
I read of a man who beat his wife to death on my facebook page. And down the post, some ladies commented that all men are evil and dangerous. One of them even expressed a doubt if she would even marry. Now, it is not a new thing that lots of ladies now believe that all men are bad, after probably being jilted or used and dumped by a guy or after reading or hearing about men who beat their wives, even to death like this case here. But this is what i have to say: Marriage is sweet, if only you get things right before going into it. If you prepare well for it, you won't regret getting married and now believing that all men are evil or dangerous. The first preparation is you yourself changing your bad characters and building yourself up to attract the kind of loving, God fearing, rich and caring man you want as husband. One major error many ladies make is that they want a good,caring, loving, and rich man, but they are placing themselves too high or expensive in such a way that many of these men think that all they want is money and material wealth. In this case, they have opened an easy way for men who have this money or material wealth, but wrong motives or purpose for relationship or marriage and who would only marry them for their bodies. And after getting married and getting their bodies, they start showing them their real colours(the beast in them). Besides, marriage also takes a humble wife to succeed. How many women now a days are submissive to their husbands? No matter how rich, beautiful or educated you are, the man is still your head. Be submissive to him. And how many women in marriage have a good relationship with God? If you don't have God in your life, you have failed already. In conclusion, not all men are evil or bad. If you want a good man, be a good lady. If you want a sweet marriage, be submissive and have a good relationship with God. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by dollyjoy(f): 8:45pm On May 08, 2016 |
Getting married for the right reason and to the right person is the most important thing. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by WHITEWIZARD(m): 8:46pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy:there is nothing like right person in a marriage. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by dollyjoy(f): 8:48pm On May 08, 2016 |
WHITEWIZARD:There is. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by WHITEWIZARD(m): 8:48pm On May 08, 2016 |
NICE ONE @OP |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by iceberylin(m): 8:49pm On May 08, 2016 |
When are they passing Domestic Violence bill Too many Herdsmen getting married |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by WHITEWIZARD(m): 8:52pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy:This is one mistake humans make, when the said right person begins to do wrongs, he then now turns to he or she is now showing his or her true colour. hush it my dear, you only enjoy marriage when u have it in mind that there will be hardtimes and the man or woman will do you wrongs in a time. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by donholy28(m): 8:53pm On May 08, 2016 |
WHITEWIZARD:Are u trying to say that everyone marries d wrong person? |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by jojothaiv(m): 8:54pm On May 08, 2016 |
iceberylin:Gbam..... |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by jamex93(m): 8:55pm On May 08, 2016 |
No mind dem jor |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Nobody: 8:56pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Well said! |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by WHITEWIZARD(m): 8:59pm On May 08, 2016 |
donholy28:ALL HUMANS are sinners, for all have sinned and have come short of the glory of GOD. thank heaven for the blood of the son Jesus, but make no mistake as long as we are in the flesh we are bound to commit mistakes, misbehave and all that, it only takes learning for us to avoid this mistakes. in other words whether the person is a drunkard or a lier, and the other person is a good christian matters not. the drunkard can turn out to be a good christian and the christian the opposite direction. that is why in marriage we learn everyday. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Seyibabalola(m): 8:59pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Be the right person and you will attract the right person. It's as simple as that. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Ruq: 9:01pm On May 08, 2016 |
Seyibabalola: Brace yourself. Butchcassidy we might need you here |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by dollyjoy(f): 9:05pm On May 08, 2016 |
WHITEWIZARD:quite funny i must confess,lol. There is always a compatible partner dearie,you don't expect a hot tempered person to get married to same,there is no way in hell the marriage will work eerm, marriage is not always rosy,any right thinking human knows this, there is nothing like true colour btw,the signs are always there,humans always bask in the false believe that they can change their partner which to me is not possible. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Seyibabalola(m): 9:06pm On May 08, 2016 |
Ruq:I didn't get that well. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by dollyjoy(f): 9:08pm On May 08, 2016 |
Seyibabalola:There is always a compatible partner,you can only be yourself any attempt at changing who you are just to be the right partner is a waste of time. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by WHITEWIZARD(m): 9:11pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy:SWEETY THE ONLY THING THAT IS CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE. "IF YOU LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE IS HOT TEMPERED INSTEAD OF HELPING HIM BY TAKING HIM TO A REHAB. then after u left another lady help him and he changed. so what are we yapping about? there is always a sence in every Nonsence. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by dollyjoy(f): 9:15pm On May 08, 2016 |
WHITEWIZARD:Rehab??. Check his body temperature# . You need rest,oya goan sleep |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Seyibabalola(m): 9:17pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Yes, there is always a compatible partner which simply means that if you are a bad person, a lady who places material wealth or money above God and His will for her life, you will surely find your compatible beast in human skin who will use you and dump you or beat you to death in marriage. Be yourself, but that does not include your negative self. Be what you want. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by WHITEWIZARD(m): 9:19pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy:HOT TEMPERED, as a result of alcohol and drug intake. thats why i said rehab. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by dollyjoy(f): 9:19pm On May 08, 2016 |
Seyibabalola:opposite attracts. Goodmen get married to bad women and vice versa |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Seyibabalola(m): 9:27pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy: A Good man can never get married to a bad woman. Check well, those men you think they are good are not. To help you, being a good man or good woman is having a solid relationship with God. If you are in a good relationship with God, you cannot marry wrong dear. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by dollyjoy(f): 9:30pm On May 08, 2016 |
Seyibabalola:i don't agree with you but will let it slid. Have a goodnight rest sweery |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Seyibabalola(m): 9:35pm On May 08, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Good night dear |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by NiRfreak(m): 9:58pm On May 08, 2016 |
If you like talk till tomorrow....they will never hear |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by IRserveMyComent(f): 10:05pm On May 08, 2016 |
donholy28:we make our marriages right or wrong. There are certain attitudes we would exhibit in our marriages even the right person would become the wrong. Where i would say a person married the wrong person is when a core born again marries an unbeliever. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by MRBrownJ: 10:21pm On May 08, 2016 |
Seyibabalola: you started well, so far so good The first preparation is you yourself changing your bad characters and building yourself up to attract the kind of loving, God fearing, rich and caring man you want as husband. ERROR #1 nobody should ever try to change who they truly are because guess what?! this is who you are, your essence, your whole, and no matter how you pretend to be different, the natural will always come right back. a man should love the good/bad/ugly and everything that comes along with being YOU, anything less and that person is NOT meant for you. One major error many ladies make is that they want a good,caring, loving, and rich man, but they are placing themselves too high or expensive in such a way that many of these men think that all they want is money and material wealth. ERROR #2 there is nothing wrong with having preferences and high standards, so long as you have equally high standards. never sell yourself cheap. In this case, they have opened an easy way for men who have this money or material wealth, but wrong motives or purpose for relationship or marriage and who would only marry them for their bodies. ERROR #3 the issue above has nothing to do with the women and all to do with these evil men. a lady who aint moved by money and bling bling will see through the fakeness in that man's heart.... and dismiss him before getting married to his evil nyansh. the desperate/goldigging women who would marry these men in a heartbeat will get what they deserve. And after getting married and getting their bodies, they start showing them their real colours(the beast in them). ERROR #4 if a "wise" woman has been tricked into such marriage then divorce will sort this issue, et voila! Besides, marriage also takes a humble wife to succeed. How many women now a days are submissive to their husbands? ERROR #5 submissions are for owners and their pets. marriage today is a UNION where both give their input equally for the wellbeing of that union. nobody is above the other and every important decisions should be taken together and with the blessing of the other. a man who expects his wife to be under him, is a weak being! No matter how rich, beautiful or educated you are, the man is still your head. Be submissive to him. And how many women in marriage have a good relationship with God? If you don't have God in your life, you have failed already. ERROR #6 using the Bible to dictate what should/shouldnt be done in marriage is a sure way to fail. that same bible tells you to stone a woman who isnt married, is that what you will do if you find out your wife isnt a virgin? get real and start living in the 21century. and dont forget: take the bible for ALL its worth or nothing, but dont just take what fits your selfish agenda. In conclusion, not all men are evil or bad. If you want a good man, be a good lady. If you want a sweet marriage, be submissive and have a good relationship with God. you actually sound like these evil men who want to beat their wives into submission (like the guy you mentionned), and then hide under the laws of that old dated bible verses! 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by Seyibabalola(m): 12:09am On May 09, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: You are just Baseless in all your comments. Next time, if you want to comment on a post, first of all, understand the message properly. Secondly, you have a carnal mind. |
Re: Why Most Ladies Fail by MRBrownJ: 12:43am On May 09, 2016 |
Seyibabalola: i was expecting nothing less from a religious sheep... i love you too my brotha |
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