This is my first post here........I have this girl I love n have been dating for up to 2years now,one day we were discussing and she opened up that she is scared of getting married because she don't want to be a young widow,she gave example of her mother n grandma who both lost there husband quite young as if its a curse or something........ When she told me I could not respond,cos is as though she is telling me that I may die early if I someday get married to her,but she is the girl I love or truly care the most for.........great nairalandets am confused.........help,what do you guys suggest I do.

I will just take her for ancestral curse deliverance...

The good book said flee.... run as fast as usain bolt

Well she loves you enough to warn you. You don't know that life is spiritual abi? Enjoy the ride and open the grave for more men.... So when you are both ready for deliverance I hope it won't be too late.

Bros if you are marrying her ensure you are sure of heaven o... Na one way ticket o.

Do you know her family too well? If not it might just be a lie for her to test if you love her enough. Weda you marry her or not you will still die one day. If you trully love her take her to your pastor for prayers and counseling, depending on the church you attend.

She needs Jesus..you need Jesus...let her run alongside you to Jesus

If it is confirmed that what she is saying is the truth, den seek help spiritually, (her mom and grandma's case might just be a coincidence).

Also ask her if having a baby for u is also part of the course, if it is not, and u truly love her.

Be faithful to her, and make her a baby mama, u know, marriage is over rated.

I know her mum well,I never knew her with a husband,I know her half brother too,and he said his dad died under misterious circumstances.......her dad.though she is not aware that me n her brother have discussed on such an issue before,for her grandma,the revelation was new and alarming

guy... ask more questions!!!! then come tell us ur findings.. we take it up from there.

If what she told you is true then I believe that the female members of their family must be suffering from attacks from marine spirits. My reason been that they may have a spiritual husband who is fighting them seriously. What you have to do is take her to Church for serious prayers and deliverance from that marine power. Unless this is done, any man that marries her will die a mysterious death.

Take her to a real man of man for deliverance.