whitelexi:


I actually think its sweet if she starts singing such songs after a fight.
It is those ones that take many hrs of begging to forgive u first, and then any slight thing u do - they remind u of allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the many many occasions when u've messed up!
Those are the ones that make me feel uneasy about the future of a relationship

TheSeeker:

Is your girlfriend troubling you son?

na2day?:

me ke? U no know say I be top dog? No girl fit give me wahala

I was starting to worry for you

TheSeeker:

I was starting to worry for you

na2day?:

since it is only us here, let us talk frankly, as guys sometimes we mess up and sometimes it is not our fault but we have a fight with our girls, what are the things they do after fight that makes u uneasy about the relationship or the after effects or even create a cloud of doubt on your future together. mine , if it takes forever for her to drop the issue or she starts singing unnecessarily after the fight, especially if she sings songs like Mariah Carey - "Always Be My Baby" and stresses the part that[size=20pt] "you'll always be a part of me, i'm a part of you indefinitely, "[/size], now that is freaky!

tpiah*:


if you had sex with her she'll always be a part of you forever nah.

So why start quoting Mariah carey unnecessarily?

na2day?:

nope! she will always be a part of the condom not me

TheSeeker:

Yes, if both of ya didn't pull off your clothes before you did it.

na2day?:

so what are the signs u look out for?

I don't worry myself about looking for signs. When she's ready to leave, she'll let me know and I'll be more than ready to show her the door and leave her with a warning that as from then on, my number should be a wrong number on her phone

na2day?:

nope! she will always be a part of the condom not me

TheSeeker:

I don't worry myself about looking for signs. When she's ready to leave, she'll let me know and I'll be more than ready to show her the door and leave her with a warning that as from then on, my number should be a wrong number on her phone

tpiah*:

sorry!

she's very much a part of you forever.

You never heard of atoms and molecules?

Your souls became one- little you can do about that.

na2day?:

nah bro! u dont let her dump u, u dump her first that way u hold the upper hand. if she dumps u first she will think she achieved something.

You don't want to know what I'd do if she shows me any sign; I'll start looking out for her most beautiful friend

TheSeeker:

Nice game girl. If that's the technique Gators will adopt during the football season, be ready for an ass whooping lesson. Keep avoiding my question. Na2Day, I think I've seen a good sign.

Magz:

Signs I look for in a girl,

If I understand your question right, you are asking what red flags or signs I'd keep my eyes open for when dating a woman. A few are:

How she treats herself, such as her overall respect for herself, eating habits, drug / alcohol / tobacco abuse and promiscuity. Does she party? If so, how often? These types of behaviors are red flags for me,

How she treats the people around her. Her social habits and parenting skills if she has children. If she has pets, I pay attention to how well-kept her pets are. If she is not capable or responsible enough to maintain her children, pets or other loved ones impeccably, that raises doubts for me in the potential for a relationship.

There are others too,,,

Magz:

Critical one:

If I could teach this to guys, I believe that I could help creat alot of healthy, happy and productive relationships.

[b]One thing I look for with women is the level of staying power she has in my thoughts, i.e. how much being with her will distract me from thinking about other women. For instance, if I am dating a woman, and when out shopping I see several attractive women and find myself looking at them, flirting or talking with them, that is a bad sign. That means that my prospect's level of staying power in my thoughts is low. This means that there is something I desire in a woman that is not present in her, or that a certain sexual, psychological or emotional need is probably lacking.

Now on the other hand, if I am dating a woman,  and when she isn't around I find myself completely ignoring vibrant attractive women because of the thought of my girlfriend or lover, that is a good sign. That means that her level of staying power in my thought is very high, and that she is sufficient for me and my standards in a way that will produce a healthy, emotionally solid, sexually strong relationship with security, solidarity, and faithfulness. I try to maintain relationships with women who have high staying power in my thoughts. This is a preventative measure to avoid common problems like boredom with your lover and senseless acts of infidelity that men have gotten caught up with for thousands of years. [/b]

Straight up, if a woman cannot or does not satisfy or prevent your urges to talk to / be with / have sex with other women, DON'T BE WITH THAT WOMAN. Keep her has a friend instead, because that friendship will have more value than a failed bf/gf relationship