If a man slaps you today, he will slap you again ,if not soon, later he will, and there is every probability that soon the slap will not be enough, he will feel you have graduated from the first degree of being slapped, and maybe it doesn't pain you anymore, so he will initiate second degree. Hitting your back so hard you could fall and punching your face when you fall. When you graduate from that second degree, he will initiate third degree, most women never graduate from this one, he start kicking you and using harmful objects, so that you can bleed. Violence is a pattern of behavior, so is abuse, if you are careful enough, you will discover the pattern before you fall head over heels in love, if he is a violent man, he would have beaten someone in the past, sisters, mother, girlfriends, it can't be hard to find out if he is an abuser, or a potential abuser.


Don't agree to marry him and say God will change him. Don't be the one that will be sacrificed for him to Change, don't be the one he will kill before God touches his heart. Trust me, God will be mad at you for throwing away the life He gave you in the name of love. Jesus didn't ask us to die for anyone, He already died for everyone, so your death will not make any difference, you are not as sinless as Jesus. Draw your ears well, most of such men change when they come in contact with women like them, who could beat a man back, if he lays a hand on her, she will not only retaliate, but will warn the man never in his life to lay hands on her . They say iron sharpens iron, not plastic sharpens iron. God bless this person that wrote for.


For the married couples, if he occasionally threatens to throw you out of the house and abuses you emotionally, politely ask to leave for your father's house that night and push it to the latter. Only then will he ever come to his senses..


RIP to the dead

Hmmm i see

Ok

True talk.
Most of them are being blinded by desperation and Money, so they ignore d early signs.

dulux07:
True talk.
Most of them are being blinded by desperation and Money, so they ignore d early signs.

I tell u bro...love is no longer blind jst dat some of dem are myopic