A man may want you because a part of him feels drawn and attracted to you, but, you’re not interested in this guy.
You want to tell him to stop, you just don't know the best way to. Here some tips that will help you in turning down a guy nicely without necessarily being mean about it. No one likes a meanie, and that reputation might prevent a good guy from ever approaching you. Forget what you see in the movies.

Be Honest, Just Say No
Honesty is the best policy! You can be honest and still be nice, and believe me he’ll appreciate it in the long run, and wont have anything bad to say about you. A simple line like

“I think you’re a nice person, but I’m just not interested.”

Now remember it’s not exactly what you say but how you say it. Some Nigerian girls can say this simple statement with a lot of facial expression that leaves a man in tears. No need to be rude, or act like everyone has been disturbing you all night. Just be cordial and let him know

Offer The Friendzone
Now this works more so with someone you already know (a coursemate, reading partner, church member, family friend etc.) but it could also work with someone you meet. The standard “we can still be friends” or “I look at you as a brother” always works to soften the blow of rejection, and most guys will either take the hint, or take the friendzone status. Either way you’re off the hook… for now.
Warning: Most of the guys around this days hate it when you try to friendzone them, they push to make you "a friend with benefits" so you really need to becareful.
The magic word is:

“we can still be friends”

Claim To Be Dating Someone Else
Yes I know this is risky, especially if this person already knows/thinks you’re single, but it’s worth a shot. “I have a boyfriend”, or better yet “I’m engaged” will work wonders for you most times. A lot of guys will quickly give you a nice smile, and tell you how lucky your imaginary man is. What about the guy that persists with some lame “what that gotta do with me” line? Tell him you expected more from a guy of his kind, he will shrink and apologize. Hey! You tried being nice once.
Warning: If you know you have a thing for him, do not try playing this card because if you turned in later, he will look at you like some girl who cheated on her guy with him. Some guys can be like that.

“I have a boyfriend”

Give Him Toke’s Facial Expression
He says: "I have feelings for you Toke, feelings that i think..." and then the face. This face will make any guy go away quickly! stop laughing to yourself jo and learn how to be nice with those guys you don't want to be with but won't let you be. Shout out to Toke Makinwa.

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Ok......

Noted...

Some guys can be stubborn tho




Evn if u tell dem u r dating, u will hear words like... 'baby lemme manage it like that', it won't cause any harm, I will treat u better than ur bf lol



U go jux tire

Guys are used to rejection .they don't really get hurt when rejected.

What about the guy that persists with some lame “what that gotta do with me” line? Tell him you expected more from a guy of his kind, he will shrink and apologize. Hey! You tried being nice once.

sinaj:
Some guys can be stubborn tho




Evn if u tell dem u r dating, u will hear words like... 'baby lemme manage it like that', it won't cause any harm, I will treat u better than ur bf lol



U go jux tire

As Sinaj is here am sure this will make front page....

A girl's snub alone is a sign that she is not interested.I will swerve ASAP

this write up teaches you how to reject without hurting the guy na...

queenoflafia:
Guys are used to rejection

Akinonnairaland:
this write up teaches you how to reject without hurting the guy na...

Guys don't get hurt when rejected only ladies do.

sinaj:
Some guys can be stubborn tho




Evn if u tell dem u r dating, u will hear words like... 'baby lemme manage it like that', it won't cause any harm, I will treat u better than ur bf lol



U go jux tire

But the truth is I will so long that girl as your kind of composure and tact trust me I would treat you beta than your bf.

Akinonnairaland:
What about the guy that persists with some lame “what that gotta do with me” line? Tell him you expected more from a guy of his kind, he will shrink and apologize. Hey! You tried being nice once.



As Sinaj is here am sure this will make front page....

Lmao! fp ni



Am sinaj not olajumoke

Akinonnairaland:
A man may want you because a part of him feels drawn and attracted to you, but, you’re not interested in this guy.
You want to tell him to stop, you just don't know the best way to. Here some tips that will help you in turning down a guy nicely without necessarily being mean about it. No one likes a meanie, and that reputation might prevent a good guy from ever approaching you. Forget what you see in the movies.

Be Honest, Just Say No
Honesty is the best policy! You can be honest and still be nice, and believe me he’ll appreciate it in the long run, and wont have anything bad to say about you. A simple line like



Now remember it’s not exactly what you say but how you say it. Some Nigerian girls can say this simple statement with a lot of facial expression that leaves a man in tears. No need to be rude, or act like everyone has been disturbing you all night. Just be cordial and let him know

Offer The Friendzone
Now this works more so with someone you already know (a coursemate, reading partner, church member, family friend etc.) but it could also work with someone you meet. The standard “we can still be friends” or “I look at you as a brother” always works to soften the blow of rejection, and most guys will either take the hint, or take the friendzone status. Either way you’re off the hook… for now.
Warning: Most of the guys around this days hate it when you try to friendzone them, they push to make you "a friend with benefits" so you really need to becareful.
The magic word is:



Claim To Be Dating Someone Else
Yes I know this is risky, especially if this person already knows/thinks you’re single, but it’s worth a shot. “I have a boyfriend”, or better yet “I’m engaged” will work wonders for you most times. A lot of guys will quickly give you a nice smile, and tell you how lucky your imaginary man is. What about the guy that persists with some lame “what that gotta do with me” line? Tell him you expected more from a guy of his kind, he will shrink and apologize. Hey! You tried being nice once.
Warning: If you know you have a thing for him, do not try playing this card because if you turned in later, he will look at you like some girl who cheated on her guy with him. Some guys can be like that.


Give Him Toke’s Facial Expression
He says: "I have feelings for you Toke, feelings that i think..." and then the face. This face will make any guy go away quickly! stop laughing to yourself jo and learn how to be nice with those guys you don't want to be with but won't let you be. Shout out to Toke Makinwa.

Hey, what are you waiting for? Share with your friends jo.


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Answer back:
1. If Jesus say yes, baby who are u to say no.
2. What! Friendzone? dats like the most offensive thing, everybody just about it on social media.
3. Dating someone else? Haaaa! Come on ya not dating up to ur potential, try me.
4. Are we making funny faces? Awwww dats cute.

queenoflafia:

Guys don't get hurt when rejected only ladies do.

huh




That's not true o!



Guys get hurt more serzly!


They will feel xo bad that u wud wnt to date them out of pity!


They can go to any extent to get a girl if they truly love her.

jtwest:


Answer back:
1. If Jesus say yes, baby who are u to say no.
2. What! Friendzone? dats like the most offensive thing, everybody just about it on social media.
3. Dating someone else? Haaaa! Come on ya not dating up to ur potential, try me.
4. Are we making funny faces? Awwww dats cute.

Rotfl u xo on point lol

sometimes persistence pays!

lol, the cat sees himself as a tiger in the mirror, he says "hey i am a tiger" and i did believe the cat standing in front of me is a tiger. I am like that ma, i can say you see yourself as famous as Olajumoke.

sinaj:


Lmao! fp ni



Am sinaj not olajumoke

Life's too sweet to get attached to someone. You no like me, no time, unto the next chick. Kò kàn ayé

Nice Thread.
Some Girls are just not matured enough to be called Ladies in this aspect. Some will just say the Right things the wrong way.
Some will just throw a Bomb at a guy and regret it later.

LOL this guy is a player!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jtwest:


Answer back:
1. If Jesus say yes, baby who are u to say no.
2. What! Friendzone? dats like the most offensive thing, everybody just about it on social media.
3. Dating someone else? Haaaa! Come on ya not dating up to ur potential, try me.
4. Are we making funny faces? Awwww dats cute.

Oya defend yourself na, see how you just turn everything around for your favor. Na you compose the song "I can see everything turning around" abi

I am a guy, i can tell you how i feel when i get a NO from the girl i like to be with.

queenoflafia:

Guys don't get hurt when rejected only ladies do.

Akinonnairaland:
I am a guy, i can tell you how i feel when i get a NO from the girl i like to be with.

Ain't you used to it?

Some guyz are just so stuborn, after using all those lines up there and he persists i will outrightly tell him 2stop disturbing me.

No, maybe cos i do not go about asking all the ladies around me for a relationship

queenoflafia:

Ain't you used to it?