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Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by amiskurie(m): 10:22am On May 13, 2016
To me,The fear the D-DAY is the equal to the fear of being roasted alive cheesy

I can't even imagine myself dancing shoki and locking lips with the bride while I be the focal point in the presence of everyone.

I had always thought of running away,or to mastermind a kidnap of myself in a situation like that. grin - only to show up after the events.afterall,my framed picture can represent me at the events.

..Or Do I have to get drunk to attend my events?? ...which I think will put me to more shame after.I don't even drink or smoke weeds.




Roctation Farano. Lalasticlala

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by falconey(m): 10:23am On May 13, 2016
undecided


Being an introvert is being sick
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by amiskurie(m): 10:32am On May 13, 2016
falconey:
undecided


Being an introvert is being sick
Typing through the phone doesn't mean you're healthy wink

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Dotwillis1(m): 10:34am On May 13, 2016
Na only the person wey no provide all the required needs of the bride's family go dey shame...

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by IRserveMyComent(f): 11:13am On May 13, 2016
Though its ur nature but u have to come out of ur shell and make ur weakness ur strength. Look at it this way,at the event all eyes would be on u and the bride, it is a thing of joy and nothing to be shamed of. Look at ur self as someone who had done something to be proud of... And bliv me its indeed something to be proud of. All ur friends would be there to cheer u up so you dont have to disappoint them and ur family too. Be at the top of ur game its ur day n a great achievement. This book might be of help... Spirit Controlled Temperament ##Hanve forgoten the author##

Come out out of your comfort zone.

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by falconey(m): 11:19am On May 13, 2016
amiskurie:
Typing through the phone doesn't mean you're healthy wink
What does that got to do with the topic? are you trying to be a smart fool?
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by feran15(m): 2:33pm On May 13, 2016
stop being a baby and step out of your comfort zone.
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Nobody: 3:46pm On May 13, 2016
Introverts is not my problem, my problem is how to stop stammering

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by amiskurie(m): 11:42pm On May 13, 2016
lilzcee:
Introverts is not my problem, my problem is how to stop stammering
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Surfboard(m): 12:19am On May 14, 2016
I'm still looking for a way to not attend my wedding, and hoping everything will go on smoothly that day. If that's possible, i'll be the happiest person on earth. I'm seriously dreading that day.

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Agboki: 1:05am On May 14, 2016
Surfboard:
I'm still looking for a way to not attend my wedding, and hoping everything will go on smoothly that day. If that's possible, i'll be the happiest person on earth. I'm seriously dreading that day.
amiskurie:
To me,The fear the D-DAY is the equal to the fear of being roasted alive cheesy
I can't even imagine myself dancing shoki and locking lips with the bride while I be the focal point in the presence of everyone.
I had always thought of running away,or to mastermind a kidnap of myself in a situation like that. grin - only to show up after the events.afterall,my framed picture can represent me at the events.
..Or Do I have to get drunk to attend my events?? ...which I think will put me to more shame after.I don't even drink or smoke weeds.
Roctation Farano. Lalasticlala

NA now i c say we even plenty wey dey fear our wedding day.4 me no reception!

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by DharmyYinks: 1:28am On May 14, 2016
lilzcee:
Introverts is not my problem, my problem is how to stop stammering
U can rehearse what you want to say ahead. When It's time.. just play it with your mouth.


Works for me cool

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by debque(m): 2:10am On May 14, 2016
DharmyYinks:

U can rehearse what you want to say ahead. When It's time.. just play it with your mouth.


Works for me cool
na every year u dey do wedding nii?
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by headboiy: 2:14am On May 14, 2016
The dancing n socialising part freaks me out the most sad

Will probably opt for something not time consuming n very lowkey embarassed


Glo sucks big time
Works only after 12am *suspicious*

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Slimshady11: 3:34am On May 14, 2016
I used to dread dat day until i figured out dancing ain't dat hard,jst continue jumping up and down,shakin ur head in correspondence wit d rythm,and shaking ur hands too.As 4 kissing,damn she's my love i can kiss her anywhere

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Flexherbal(m): 5:06am On May 14, 2016
Yes, you can.
Just wait until that day and you will see yourself doing it.
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by majorbravo: 5:16am On May 14, 2016
Simple, stay single

or you could marry in a far away location with only 10 guests.
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by firstking01(m): 6:10am On May 14, 2016
Introverts are really sucking set of people,,,,whats there to express your happiness on your weddind day or somethingundecided
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by babyfaceafrica: 7:39am On May 14, 2016
firstking01:
Introverts are really sucking set of people,,,,whats there to express your happiness on your weddind day or somethingundecided
get well soon

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by babyfaceafrica: 7:41am On May 14, 2016
OP...alchohol helps if you can regulate it..I know an introverted friend who took wine prior to his wedding,my dear,he did very well than some extroverts..he danced like never before...but please if you can't guage ur drink just pray and do your best..its ur day,be happy

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by foxvilles: 8:26am On May 14, 2016
I also think about that day too especially after my elder sister's wedding, I was imagining myself doing all those dance n body movement thingy.

Anyways, I'm already planning to do mine out of the country, far away from everyone where only the two of us can go to the registry and church to get married. Me, bae and two other persons (besties) plus pastor altogether making 5.

Anybody that wants to attend should buy flight ticket.

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by amiskurie(m): 8:39am On May 14, 2016
foxvilles:
I also think about that day too especially after my elder sister's wedding, I was imagining myself doing all those dance n body movement thingy.

Anyways, I'm already planning to do mine out of the country, far away from everyone where only the two of us can go to the registry and church to get married. Me, bae and two other persons (besties) plus pastor altogether making 5.

Anybody that wants to attend should buy flight ticket.
Bad man things! cheesy
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by firstking01(m): 8:48am On May 14, 2016
babyfaceafrica:
get well soon
One spotted...pele ogrin
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by babyfaceafrica: 10:58am On May 14, 2016
firstking01:
One spotted...pele ogrin
watever
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Nobody: 11:18am On May 14, 2016
lilzcee:
Introverts is not my problem, my problem is how to stop stammering
I feel your pain mehnn I had the same problem before I was small then around 8 or 9 yrs old but I didn't know how it stopped till today I can't explain btw are you an introvert?
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Nobody: 11:20am On May 14, 2016
firstking01:
Introverts are really sucking set of people,,,,whats there to express your happiness on your weddind day or somethingundecided
undecided
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by SLIDEwaxie(m): 11:23am On May 14, 2016
lilzcee:
Introverts is not my problem, my problem is how to stop stammering
that's simple Na..on that day, make the emcee tell them that everything u will say will be via song! grin grin

Stammerers don't stammer when singing

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by jashar(f): 11:32am On May 14, 2016
undecided
You people are confusing being an introvert with having a social anxiety disorder.

I'm an introvert, but I've learnt to hold my own in public.

Abeg, stop making our personality look weak.

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Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by firstking01(m): 11:49am On May 14, 2016
ellacute45:
undecided
wetintongue??
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by olagbemi118(m): 11:50am On May 14, 2016
Being an introvert doesn't stop me from doing wot I want to do. My job requires meeting people everyday and I love my job dia4 I have to love people. I think wot we introverts need is to learn to love people. No human is a monster jare
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Nobody: 12:07pm On May 14, 2016
firstking01:
wetintongue??
undecided undecided
Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by Nobody: 12:08pm On May 14, 2016
olagbemi118:
Being an introvert doesn't stop me from doing wot I want to do. My job requires meeting people everyday and I love my job dia4 I have to love people. I think wot we introverts need is to learn to love people. No human is a monster jare
yea say it loud and clear being introvert doesn't mean you can't do certaincertain things in life

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