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Reasons Why The Best Relationship Starts As Friendship by silvertongue(m): 7:48am On May 16, 2016
I think why most peeps are scared of falling in love with their friends is because when the relationship breaks they will loose 2 things; a lover and a friend that should have comforted them during the break up. VERY RISKY

But what many peeps don't realise is that when you fall in love with your best friend there are little chances of breaking up. These reasons should be enough for you to take reconsider and take the BIG RISK of living happily ever after with a long time best friend.

1. You guys have lots of fun memories together. Like when he made you laughed so hard that your drink came out of your nose and started laughing along with you.

2. You finally get to know what it fells like kissing their lips. I know you must have thought about it once or twice. Don't decieve yourself!

3. You've seen what he's like as a boyfriend from watching him date other people. You know how devoted he can be and what his style of boyfriend is because you've been by his side all along, probably giving him advice on how not to screw up his relationships. All that work and advice is gonna come back to benefit you now.

4. And he's seen what you're like as a girlfriend. He knows how infatuated you get early on, and how much you value clear and direct communication. You've basically been coaching each other in your relationships and now you get to just be in one together.

5. You've already met his parents and all of his friends and anyone else who might make you nervous. You don't have to hope and pray for everyone he loves in this world to accept you because they already have. You're already good to go.

6. You know all his deepest secrets.You already know each others do' and donts from watching him/her and your relationship will be that much stronger from the beginning because of it.

7. You know how to decode all of his little passive-aggressive behaviors. Like when his texts get really short, you know it's not personal, and that he's probably dealing with some serious shit and needs to be left alone. You guys understand each other — that's what happens when you're friends with someone for years.

8. You will be killing two birds with one stone. Because your BFF is now your BF,no need searching for a BFF,nothing in your social life has to change cuz you ve already spent tons of time with him/her.

9. You know about all of each other's nasty breakup stories. He was probably the first person you called after every breakup, which means he's probably comforted you and shared ice cream with you while you cry about how all guys suck. You don't have to have the Big Ex Conversation in this relationship — he's lived through it with you.

10. You know how to cheer each other up. Figuring out how to comfort a new partner when they're feeling down can be really tricky — everyone has different ways of coping with a bad mood or a bad day, and making a wrong move can be semi-disastrous. Lucky for you, you've spent yearspicking each other up when you get down.

11. You're already super-comfortable around each other. This is a guy who you've farted in front of, who's seen you when you're sweaty and disgusting after spending a whole day outside together, who's seen you both at your absolute worst and absolute best.

What other reasons....?
Re: Reasons Why The Best Relationship Starts As Friendship by talk2alabama: 7:59am On May 16, 2016
grin especially number 2
Re: Reasons Why The Best Relationship Starts As Friendship by Nobody: 7:59am On May 16, 2016
grin definitely it's great to fall in love with Ur buddy but the only thing when u break up tho , it means Ur friendship that u built together will end as well & that's really sucks.
Re: Reasons Why The Best Relationship Starts As Friendship by silvertongue(m): 8:13am On May 16, 2016
talk2alabama:
grin especially number 2

Ofcuz na
Re: Reasons Why The Best Relationship Starts As Friendship by silvertongue(m): 8:15am On May 16, 2016
KashyBaby:
grin definitely it's great to fall in love with Ur buddy but the only thing when u break up tho , it means Ur friendship that u built together will end as well & that's really sucks.

VERY RISKY.
Re: Reasons Why The Best Relationship Starts As Friendship by feran15(m): 9:13am On May 16, 2016
Thats if you can break out of the friend zone in the first place

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