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Pride goes after its fall.pride and integrity are two diffrent things.u have to pick that phone and call him not asking why he did not call u cos if u do then he will know u where anxiously waiting for his call just call asnd ask how work is going and other things and remeber dont ask the ? ok so he will not think or feel u are throwing urself at him.and u should also know if he is seeing someone else before i comment any further.

i just called him i thot i wouldn't but i just did , i couldn't hold it ,

ok.good and hope u did not ask why he didn't call u last night?

@blacknbold: see, its so unfortunate that most guys misinterprete a lady's kind overtures. they see thr girl as tripping for them. in the more developed societies, its a common thing for ladies to go out of their way to ask a guy out. it helps to ease the 'tension' the guy would have faced trying to woo the lady.
at any rate, you dont have to give yourself sleepless nights cos of him. do your own part by still being nice to him. but dont overdo it sha. pride matters. and if he still does not show any response, give it a rest. some things are not just worth the heart ache

no i didnt ask him i just said he should have told me he wasnt coming anymore that it was rude to have just said he was comin and not showin up

dvampire i ahve decided to do just that i wil keep trying and not look desperate , i give him till next weekend if he is still like this he is sooo gone with the wind , to hell with love ,

sounds easy

its not easy but i cant kill myself for a guy that doesn't get it

trust me, i know the feeling, Infact, i feel terrible right now but dont wanna go into details. You just need to pipe low a bit and breathe, Stay right beside him but dont push it, Just be yourself and dont give the impression that u want him, instead, give the impression that u r a good friend and watch how things go

You now know how it feels when a guy's love(?) is not reciprocated too?

whitelexi , y r u feelig terrible

just lost something that made life worth living

, But i'm not gonna beg to get it back

i knw hw it feels, black. but hold on, if the feeling is true then he will surely find u out. he migth like u too but isnt sure of wat ur reaction will be. show him u care. it doesnt matter who make sd first move, d guy or d girl.

am sorry about that as the saying goes if it is yours it will come back to you , right ?

yeah

kutecolo i show him i do care but he's got mixed feelings sometimes i feel good other times i don't , as i said after a weekhe is gone no long thing i will leave with whatever happens after that

@bnb: look girl, what will be will be. just keep your head up and try being nice to him. like i said, dont over stretch it. if he does not reciprocate or is too blind to see, get ahead with your life.

thanks D

dat ryt, dvamp. black, hold ur head high and be urself. u are a treasure dat shud be found and cherished.

Shame he doesnt realise what he's misshng. He probably doesnt deserve u. But u didnt even state ur age

i am 28

@28,girls usually appear desperate for marriage, and this may be d cause of d guy's hesitation to come out&profess his interest.he may be dying slowly but not ready to settle down(we guys are never ready)believing that's what u hav in mind. Anyway At ur age i expect u to always think of marriage. But give it another go &if he still doesnt respond then he doesnt worth u.u are too special for that. mr right we definitely show

@28,girls usually appear desperate for marriage, and this may be d cause of d guy's hesitation to come out&profess his interest.he may be dying slowly but not ready to settle down(we guys are never ready)believing that's what u hav in mind. Anyway At ur age i expect u to always think of marriage. But give it another go &if he still doesnt respond then he doesnt worth u.u are too special for that. mr right wil definitely show

i will keep trying for the next 6 days after that i give up, i dont look that age though i look 19 , maybe dats y they underate me

Do u think he knows u like him?is the hand writing on the wall?cos if it is and he knows he may want to tell u he is expensive.if u know what i mean

u mean like he's playing hard to get

i hate it when people play hard to get when it's clear that they like each other

u dont hate it as much as i do

It's a woman game,but it seems d guys are catching up. Two can play d game

He will realise what he missed when u get hooked to another fella.just let him be.and look for someone else.who does he think he is Brad Pitt or Denzel.give me a break.girl dont try to force urself on him.u are too much to let a guy take u for a ride.